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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...

My girlfriend has had over 30 plus sexual partners before me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old and been with the girl for almost 4 months. I love her and she loves me and wants to have my children and has talked about marriage before. Here's the tricky part. I have no history of my own. She was my first while she's been with ...

Have you advice for a 17year old who's never had a boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm 17, female and living in the UK. I know is sounds really lame, but I have never had a boyfriend and I've never kissed a boy either, (apart from playing kiss chase when I was about 8, which obviously doesn't count). Is there something wrong with ...

None of the sexual aids help me get it up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - my problem is that i cant seem to get a hard-on, i have tried a number of sexual aids i.e. all kinds of pills that say they can do this or that and yet none have worked for me. can someone please help me with my problem. i would love to make lov...

How do I get the maximum sex out of my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I am married last month to a businessman. he loves me but sleeps little with me.. though we are together in bed but less he will hug me to sleep together.. intercourse only on weekends because of his night business files on the bed. knows le...

Does the anus produce any natural lubricant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi! So I'm a 16 year old guy, just starting to except the fact that he's gay. But I was curious, and so I'm gonna ask this: If a guys is being stimulated anally, does his anus produce any kind of lubrication or liquid like a vagina would? Idk, ...

I love him, but I get turned on by porn and not by him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm looking for help with my sex life in regards to a particular problem I've been having over the past few weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 years, and sexually active for just under a year and a half of ...

Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship / a hook up (sex only), or just to be friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship,a hook up (sex only),to befriend with a girl? 1. If a girl is beautiful or sexy,but she has a poor personality or she's a b**ch,would you like to have a relationship with her?or just a hook up?o...

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...

I don't think I'm ready for sex but he indicates that he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - im a little bit worried, i have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i know we are going to last longer, he has fingered me, licked me out and gave me pleasure in all sorts of ways but i never give him any back! and just recently he brought ...

Guys: what is your favourite down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - So, Im a girl and I was wondering what way is favorite among guy to be down there? Like completely shaven, some hair, no hair random other stuff? Sooo whats your fav?...

Is masturbation affecting my erections?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - i have a girlfriend and we are almost regularly having oral sex(blow job and sucking) and my girlfriend dnt want to have sex until we are married. she loves discharging my sperm on her Breast and we are doing this almost regularly from past 1 y...

Partner with intense chronic pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a dedicated relationship with a wonderful man. We've been together for two years now and plan to get married and start a family later this year. I really struck gold with him - he is everything I could want in a relationship except one ...

With all the sex and no pregnancy, could I be infertile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I'm 19 and i just got married on the 17th of dec to my boyfriend of 3 years hes in the military and i'm really happy . how ever my concern is that when we got married we had sex with out a condom and i'm not on birth ...

Can you have an orgasm if your period hasn't started yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm fourteen and haven't started my periods yet. I havent masturbated before and I'm a virgin, although some of my friends have regular orgasms using both masturbation and sex - but they all have their periods. I want to masturbate but don't know ...

We weren't having sex so he was going to prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2years and everything was going good Until I found out he was ceasing on me with prostitutes and girls from clubs!!! To cut things short I broke up with him and Im trying to move on despite the fevt that I'm devastat...

If he goes back to his ex will he still want a FWB relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - This guy i know wants to be FWB with me, as he still misses his ex girlfriend.They broke up a few months ago. I have only met up with him once, although, we have known each other in person for a few months. He said they started talking again ...

I have a room mate, not a soul mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband have been married for 4 yrs. We married 3 weeks after we met. He is my soul mate, he says I'm his. We would make love 2 to 3 times a day. I do know that after awhile things slow down. I get that. However, 1 month after marriage, I met his ...

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

While she has all these boundaries, I have needs too. What do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have a real problem and hope the folks here can give me some advice. I was previously married for 18 years. The relationship was loveless, sexless, and just bad. I felt unwanted, unneeded, etc. No sexual contact, no hugs, kisses, etc. ...

How can you tell when the guy is in it just for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - How do you tell when a guy is only in it for the sex? How can you tell? I just want some advise on things that guys might do if they are only in it for the sex. ...

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came ...

Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't h...

How do I tell my ex that its better for us to be friends than to keep having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I feel like i am a joke to him. My ex partner and i recently parted we have 2 kids and were together on and off for about 6 yrs. The thing is he doesnt seem to want me to move on, one minute he isnt speaking to me and the next he is asking if he can ...

Should I let my BF go lower?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ...

Married for 6 years and sex isn't what it used to be

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - ive been married 6yrs and i love my husband to death but our sex life isnt what it use to be how do i get that back?...

Am I big enough for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for a few months, and we have started seeing each other, but haven't had sex yet, although we have fooled around a bit. She is getting over a relationship with a guy who she has known for about 4 years, and was ...

How do you masturbate anally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i am interested in having anal sex but my boyfriend hates it,so i heard you can masterbate analy,how do i do it and what can i use since i dont have a vibrator....

Are you still a virgin if you have oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - is oral sex mean that your not a virgin anymore? i know the meaning is if you have intercourse but alot of people saying if do oral then your not virgin anymore....

Missionary position is uncomfortable because boyfriend is so thin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some sex advice. My boyfriend is really tall and skinny, and I'm a bit chubby, and he has really pointy hips. This becomes a problem in the missionary position, beacuse his hips hurt my inner thighs, sometimes I even get small bruises. I ...

I had sex and now I'm nauseous. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i lost my virginity on christmas 5 days ago and 3 days ago i have started getting stomach aches and feeling like vomiting but nothing happens is this a normal symptom or should i be worried? :/ ...

Why did she have sex with me when she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i recently met up with a girl i knew from 5th grade and been hanging around with her the past couple weeks and i am really starting to like her a lot the other night we had sex but heres my problem she already has a boyfriend i want her to be with ...

Why does he want me to marry someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My story is long but am in a very miserable condition. Please aunts help me.I am around 30 and my boyfrnd is around 40. When i was in his city, he was around 34 and was crazy after me. But i only had oral sex with him during our relation. This is ...

Why won't she let me finish her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - whenever I go down on my girlfriend, she pushes me away when she's about to cum. when I ask her why she wants me to stop she just gasps "no" like she's afraid of something. I don't understand why. She says that she enjoys it. why won't she let me ...

Does sex always get in the way of just being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So can a man and woman be friends or does sex always get in the way. I have this guy I chat with a couple times a week when we see each other. Small talk has turned intimate and he asks a lot of questions wanting to know me. He also recently told me ...

Men: How do you feel about HPV?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (?) - I tested positive for HPV over a year ago. It was type that increases the risk for cervical cancer, (not the strain that gives warts) I went ahead and got the vaccine for the other strains and I am now "inactive" and test negative though ...

Why do I pee during sex???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's ...

Is there any way that I can last longer for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Dear Friends, Me and my girlfriend have recently started having sex. But there is a problem and its a pretty big one. I cant last very long and i feel awful and like im not capable of satisfying her =/ she says it's ok and i can tell that sh...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

His mom walked in on us having sex!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, ...

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the ...

He has trouble orgasming in me! Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has not cummed in me ever we have been together for 2 years. Is there something wrong with me or him? I feel like im trying really hard to please him but still nothing. He said he has only been able to do it about 5 times in his ...

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, ...

I'm a virgin and I need sex tips! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I need help. im a virgin and im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im just scared that im going to be rubbish because ive never done it before. he's had sex a few times, what if im awful at giving a BJ? please give me any advice as to what to ...

Guys just use me and never want a relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Well, I've live my life for 19 years now just. I still feel ugly and i still feel unloved. Everyman i've been with just nail and bails me or wants to be "fuck buddies". i feel used and i cant stop crying. I think im being a little over dramatising ...

Is it normal for it to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we went a step further and he fingered me it was okay but nothing like i expected, the next time we met i tossed him of and he fingered me again except this time it hurt and i told him, i just ...

Sexual past creeping in the present...and now my retroactive jealousy is raging.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. About 7 years of dating and being engaged, about 8 or so of it married. We have 2 amazing kids. I adore my wife. She's beautiful, my best friend, I love spending time with her. We started dating our Senior ...