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Is masturbation affecting my erections?

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Question - (31 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2010)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have a girlfriend and we are almost regularly having oral sex(blow job and sucking) and my girlfriend dnt want to have sex until we are married.

she loves discharging my sperm on her Breast and we are doing this almost regularly from past 1 year.

recently i am feeling my penis isn't as hard as before.did that regular masturbation on her breast affect my erection???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

A man could masturbate 7 times a day without erectile dysfonction...

Maybe just change the routine... Although you can't have sex with her, try new stuff and you'll see that boner coming back!

Good luck with that ;)

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A female reader, Outspoken1016 United States +, writes (31 December 2010):

Outspoken1016 agony auntI am not a man however sex I have alot of experience in. I would say that penis is board with the same type of sexual activity just change it up. There are lots of things you can do outfits, different places, role play. Spice it up and your erection should go back to normal!

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A female reader, ThatsMyCookie United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2010):

ThatsMyCookie agony auntI don't think that the masturbating is the reason why your erections seem to be weaker. If over a year this has never happened before then it is probably more to do with something that has happened recently.

Think over the past month - has there been any differences in your sexual activity? This could mean what you do with your girlfriend, and also if you masturbate by yourself.

It may sound drastic, but think you should try putting a hold on all sexual activity for at least two weeks, and instead focusing on having long, intimate moments with your girlfriend such as embracing, kissing, holding hands, cuddling together. If you do these things regularly over two weeks with no masturbation, by the end of the 'sex ban' you two should be absolutely crazy for each other and this should give not only your erections a boost, but the quality of your orgasms.

I really hope this works for you as it has done for friends in the past :)

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