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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Tingling sensation after I have sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I recently started having sex on a regular basis, 2 months ago. Often after my boyfriend and I have sex, my vagina has a tingling sensation, like I need to pee and sometimes there's even traces of blood when I go to the toilet.... What's...

The World of Hanging Out and Hooking Up

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.” Billy Crystal, When Harry Met Sally You. You are smart, you are independent, you are strong. You make your own choices about what you do with your body. When you like a guy...

I have frenulum problems, please help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared....

How do I get my boyfriend to finger me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to finger me? I have tried to bring his hand down there to touch me, but he just stops. What should I do or say to get him to finger me?...

I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex? ...

He has trouble staying hard and letting himself cum.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I was searching ANYWHERE for an answer to my question, and I stumbled along this site.. I read someone else's question: "My boyfriend does not ejaculate during any sexual acts, is it because of his prior masturbating?" and the person...

Should I play around like this after the fact that I don't want to have oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I told him at the beginning of our relationship that there would be no oral, but then I said I would do it with him this week. I don't know what to do. I don't feel comfortable doing that, and I'm a minor, and he is an adult. Should I play around l...

My man says he loves me, but we are not really "we."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My man says he loves me, but we are not really we. I am postponing my yes to him, cuz I can't get caught with him, and he wants to make us offical. We were together, after 2 weeks apart today and he was being a butt hole cuz he won't let me touch hi...

Can I ever trust my wife again or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid. This is difficult for me to talk about. For the last 3-4 years my wife became very distant and independant. She was also quite secretive about how much she earned or where she was going. Basically I could never take an interest in her....

People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get ...

So did she have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble ...

I want oral sex! How do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - i'm 15 and my girfriend is 14, my girlfriend and i have been goin out for three wonderful months and counting..... she used to say that we would wait for the perfect moment to have sex, then soon after she started saying that we would never have sex....

Can I still get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - ok here is my problem well i had unprotected sex about two weeks ago so i got my period 5 days late i thou i was pregnet but i got my period.......but the day before i got it i had sex agian and he came inside can i still get pregnet???????????????...

Is there any medicineIcanget that will make my husband want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i am a marred person my husband not intrested to sex with me there is any medicne in market (in india ) that my husband is out of control and ready to sex with me please help me...

Did this guy really get scared or was I lied to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I am so hurt and need some advice. There is a man i went to high school with and we recently went out a few times. Everything was so perfect.He led me to believe that we had something special and that he would only being seeing me. I thought ...

What's wrong? I miss our sex life so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i have two kids,a four yr old and a 7 month old child. my boyfriend never wanted to have sex as soon as i got pregnant cause he said it isn't right for the baby and i agreed.Now (7 months after my baby is born) we still dont have sex as he says its ...

He keeps asking me if I had an orgasm, and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - The other night when me and my boyfriend were having sex he asked me 5 times if i had an orgasm. It really bothered me because i was trying to focus on him and us together all he was worried about was if i came.I got upset and i told him to stop ...

Strengthening the PC muscle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I want to strengthen my PC muscle. I'm a guy and i really cannot last any more than 10 seconds when having sex. All i want to know is whether this would help to strengthen my PC muscle. If i hang a small back on my penis and put some small w...

Everything is great in our marriage, except the sex! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 4 years now. I am 23 and he is 40. I am very happy in every aspect of my marriage except for sex. It was great until our 2nd wedding anniversary when he was diagnosed with M.E. (chronic fatigue syndrome). ...

He knows I love him and wants to have sex with me... but it would be "just sex" for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hey i am a virgin.. One of my friends wants to have sex with me. He loves another girl, but he knows that i love him. He says clearly to me that he can have just sex with me, no attachment. As i love him since 3 years, i am also tempted to have sex ...

I'm scared I'll do something stupid like make a pass at him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hello I am a married woman, I have a wonderful husband who loves me to bits. Unfortunately he has a low sexual libido ( he is 47) and the spark seems to have gone from our relationship. I have tried numerous ways to arouse his interest but very...

How do other people cope with the end of the honeymoon period, depression and/or erectile dysfunction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - The honeymoon period is over. He used to buy flowers every week, that stopped about three months ago. Our sex life has gone down from being sizzling hot. He always had erectile dysfunction but it was helped by the newness of the relationship and ...

I don't have a clue what would feel good for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we're really happy together. We've started taking the relationship to a higher level over the past few weeks and he has started putting his hand down my pants etc. I'd like to be able to do the s...

First time sex worries, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old an i have a boyfriend who is 17 we been going out for five months an i love him alot an he says he does to we are both virgins we see each other everyday and we are so close we makeout alot also an we get turn on real quick but ...

Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana a...

Separate households no quality time for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - If you start a relationship by spend lots time together everyday and then one of you move into their own place . And then you spend barely no time with that person you love can that have a negative effect on your relationship, due to lack of quality ...

He's having trouble keeping erections

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a 7 month daughter and are living together, have been for a year. Everything is wonderful except for the sex. I consider myself an extremely sexual person, him not as m...

Husband has heart problems and our sex life stinks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid i am 40 years old and me and my husband have been married for 5 yearsi love him very much. he has heart problems and they have been bad for the last few years. he still gets around and is doing good now and i feel bad for saying this but ...

I'm more interested in sex than he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 21 year old very slim, very attractive girl. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a lil over a year and as far as the average arguments between couples we seem to be doing Great. The problem ly's within our sex life. I can get him hard for ...

Want to drive him wild

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i want to do something that will really drive him wild. we makeout and im willing to take things further but im not sure if he is just yet. we've been together 6 months and we're both juniors. is there anything i can do to really get him going ...

Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thin...

My girlfriend likes it rough, but I don't. How do I get her to tone it down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for close to 3 months now. We enjoy being with each other and have now started to be intimate with each other. However, lately I feel she's being a little too sexually agressive for my taste. The kissing, hugging...

No orgasm during sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I'm very interested in hearing from both females who actually have or have had this issue, or males who have known a female in my situation. I'm 17, have been sexually active for about three years, and have had two partners (within relation...

He's so big it hurts to have sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi im 19 and my bf is 30 this a lil embarassing he has a really big penis like 9 and i cant get it all in it really hurts and is so tight. when i finger i tend to just use one or 2 but this feels like 4 or 5 what can we do to stretch it and make it ...

Do condoms affect man's performance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will cum within a few minutes and I am usually left wanting more, whereas he is tired. I'm not sure if his age affects it, but he is 19. Sometimes he wants to try to cum again, after already cumming,...

How do I get her to be my g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - I'm 25 and I'm in love with my best friend.we have dated in highschool n broke up when she went to college.we been friends for 10yrs.she is always touchy feely w me.we started having sex a few months ago and bout 2 weeks ago she said she just wants ...

?? for females about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - i have some questions about the sexual feelings of a female. 1. do girls or women maturbate? 2. if yes,why?only for fun or getting sexual satisfaction too? 3. do they feel excited seeing a naked well built guy? 4. do they want to touc...

How can I get erections without drugs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - What can I do to help erections without viagra or cialis?...

Anonymous answers please about lots of ?? about penis!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Okay I know this is another Penis size question and that people are probably sick of it,but for men it's a huge insecurity. Answer anonymously if you please. 1)Would you ever breakup over a lovers size? 2)What do you consider small? 3)What do y...