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I want oral sex! How do I tell her?

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Question - (5 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *eathBAT_93 writes:

i'm 15 and my girfriend is 14, my girlfriend and i have been goin out for three wonderful months and counting.....

she used to say that we would wait for the perfect moment to have sex, then soon after she started saying that we would never have sex. twice already, we've gone to the mall to hang out, and then she takes me to this one nursery room where all the bathrooms are at. the first time we went there, we started making out very passionately, then slowly i lifted up her shirt, and began carressing her boobs. then i started to touch her crotch area, and she told me that she was getting really wet, so then i unbuckled her pants and started rubbing her clit. the second time we went to that room i actually fingered her and she came at least twice, she also started to give me a handjob, but "i" didn't cum. now i want her to suck my penis, or for me to eat her out, and possibly go all the way after that, but how do i tell her that i want her to suck my dick?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

Hang on you are doing all this in a bathroom at the mall?

How romantic!!!!

If you want to advance further then go out with her longer so that you can at least be friends enough to go back to hers or have her round your house. Groping her in a shopping centre is just cheap and nasty.

Be her friend and her boyfriend. Respect her boundaries.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

take it easy, its not a race. I think it will be alot better if you wait untill the right moment. not in some rendom place.

please trust me, if you are a virgin, dont rush it. wait untill you know you will really really enjoy it..........nothing to rush for, your only 15. I rushed it and i really feel like crap for it. It sucked. It really knocked my confidence with girls and everyone.

good luck with you and your gf.

ps. consider waiting atleast one more year untill your both of legal age. better that way but i believe that its more to do with your maturity so you decide.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntHow romantic, have you thought about becoming a writer for Harlequin Romance? One thought, you could say "I want you to caress my throbbing manhood" instead of "hey suck my dick". Wait here's an even better idea, respect her and take her to the movies and just hold hands.

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

The Gentle Man agony auntWell i will just forgo the usual illegal and your young etc.

How about next time you are alone just ask her if she will suck your dick. Kiss her and get her turned on then ask her is prolly the best way round it.

Remember, penetritive sex requires a condom or u are going to be a daddy before 16 !

And I suppose oral sex requires a condom because of STIs etc, but I wont lecture you.

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