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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Questions about pubic hair....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - How do women prefer their man's pubic hair?Completely shaved/Trimmed/Etc? Also why do men like a woman's pubic hair completely shaved? I haven't seen a Vagina or a girl naked in person,but I know I'd prefer for her to have some form of hair oth...

Is a girl not a virgin if the tip of the penis is in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - if a boy sticks the tip of his penis inside a girls vagina does that mean she lost her virginity?...

Why are they so obsessed with size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Why are guys so obsessed with the size of their penis, despite what women say in response (i.e. size doesn't matter - it's what you do with it that counts)?...

When is the right time to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey.. just a random question. When is it the right time to have sex? people say its when you feel ready But is it okay to do it when you feel ready after just a day or so?? or wrong to do it when your not with someone?? i personally think people ...

Am I in denial? Is he really gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy on and off for 9 months, the last I seen him was around the middle part October, the guy is strange to make a long story short which there is so much talk about. Today is my birthday. He called me to wish me a happy ...

How can I get him to lighten up and feel more comfortable during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's ...

I'm a 32A and could never give a titwank... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriends sometimes jokes around about titwanks to his friends - Im only a 32A and theres no way I can give a sexy titwank. I feel sad that I cant do this....

What is fingering?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey.... what is fingering?...

How to tell her I'm not in the mood without pissing her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I used to rarely be sexual because she would be so stresed / depressed that it would take that drive away from her. Now that shes less stressed she is probably more in the mood, but I have talked to her about when shes not been ...

How can I make my penis get bigger and longer without pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - i am about 6in right now. how do i make my penis bigger and longer without taking pills? ...

Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...

Do men experience a sore penis after or during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Do guys experience a sore penis after a couple of sexual exercises as well? I've had that a couple of times before and my bf's thing would be fine but this time he told me his penis was sore when we had to continue sex! I was also feeling some pain, ...

How do I get more comfortable with making noise during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are settling down to having regular sex. It's getting more and more pleasurable and I now feel the need to call out/cry out a bit with the sensations. I'm very shy and self conscious though when it's so quiet at night. My ...

She's insecure because of her abusive ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) - This is a two part question so might be a bit confessing. My girlfriend (of 2 years) had a very abusive ex-boyfriend (he physically and emotionally abused her) and she's afraid I hit her as well. I honestly wouldn't because it isn't right. I t...

I don't want to have sex now because it hurts!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - this is slightly embarasing to ask but i really dont know whats wrong with me... me and my bf have been having sex quite regularly and it never used to hurt, but the past two times it was extremely painful, not because i was tensed up or i wasnt we...

He's upset because I took the morning after pill!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like ...

He is asking me for no strings sex, what should I answer him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also ...

I always fake it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend fingers me I never let him finish, I always fake it. So after awhile it gets really boring on my part. He likes it so I let him do it, but it doesn't really feel good anymore. I don't want to tell him because I'm afraid it will ...

Ok to cum inside doing anal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi friends, I have very nice experience with my GF ,I just tried anal with my GF it was going good I always released outside but last time when I has I was not able to take it out I don’t y? can any one tell is there any problem if I cummed insi...

Nasty feeling after an orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend an i have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit(touching below and above waist) i have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but were getting to that. Thats not my question though, when i do ...

I'M ATTRACTED TO TRANSEXUALS. AM I GAY?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem! I am a 17 year old lad who really likes girls but for some weird reason i am really into transexuals. I only like the transexuals who really look like girls though and i find myself watching more transexual porn these days. I feel ...

I am involved sexually with a friend of a very good friend, should I tell the very good friend or keep it a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - A few years ago, before I had my son, I was "talking" to this guy .J. but it didnt get to serious because he was in his first year of college and I was in my senior year of high school. We had the arrangement that when he was in town we were ...

How do I move our relationship to second base, without going too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend want to move our relationship to second base but she wants me to be the one who moves us, what do i do to help me move us there, i never did anything passed 1st base befor, i know what second base is and everything, i just ...

Are we moving way too fast here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and ...

Love to hear about the past!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi There, This is the first time I have done this sort of thing so here goes. I want to know if anybody else feels the same way I do about my wife's sexual past. I have known her since we were in high school. We dated a bit in high school and ...

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

I've always been curious about deep throating. But I can't do it. Ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm always very open to new ideas for bed and I always try to do new moves to surprise my guy. He does as well. Well he says I give great oral, and that makes me feel great. However, I've always been curious about deep throating. But I...

Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it ...

I was just wondering if I could've caught it off him by doing what we were doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey, just a quick one. In the summer me and this boy had a bit of a fling. We weren't in a relationship or anything and one night after a couple of drinks we did stuff. Stuff as in I sucked and tossed him off and he fingered me. Now, in January ...