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writes:I have been married to my husband for 4 years now. I am 23 and he is 40. I am very happy in every aspect of my marriage except for sex. It was great until our 2nd wedding anniversary when he was diagnosed with M.E. (chronic fatigue syndrome). Unfortunatly ever since he has had Erectile Dysfunction and 'stage fright'. We have tried Viagra but because of the 'stage fright' nothing happened. He refuses to go and talk to a relationship conselor because 'it won't make a difference it will just make it worse'. I would be LUCKY to get it once every six months. The longest I have gone without sex is 16 months. Basically I totally refuse to divorce the man because he cannot perform enough for me, when everything else is fine. But the dildo in my drawer is getting old very fast and I DON'T want to hurt him by cheating but I am afriad that my (if you will) animal instints will take over if in the right situation. So what should I do?Yours Truly,Sexually Fustrated
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): I had Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for six years but it never affected me sexually. You should get him to try Reverse Therapy for the CFS/ME (see http://www.reverse-therapy.com/). I did it over the phone to the UK (I am in Australia) and it did the trick for me).
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok roadman..... yea, uh no.
Marieclaire - thanks i will talk to him calmly and sweetly to try and get him to talk about it
harriet - thank you very much. I have tried things (i.e. dressing up, lighting candles, playing music) but none seems to work. it looks like (sad but true) i will try really hard to stay true and wait for the m.e. to go.
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reader, Harriet-Jayne +, writes (5 January 2009):
 I also suffer with M.E. I know i am alot younger than your husband, but i try not to let it effect things like that. You should speak to him about it and ask him what u can do to help. And in return he may get back his Mojo.
Good luck x
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reader, roadman +, writes (5 January 2009):
 If your man not performing then the simple thing to do is get with one who is..
If he loves you then he'll have to understand what he can't give to you someone else may have to..
Hook up a no strings F**K buddy...
Its that simple & tell him you need it.
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