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writes:hi i am 16 years old an i have a boyfriend who is 17 we been going out for five months an i love him alot an he says he does to we are both virgins we see each other everyday and we are so close we makeout alot also an we get turn on real quick but i want to lose it to him an he dose to but what my question is do u think its a good idea to lose it to him and that he really loves me i mean he is a really great guy an he has showed me that he really loves me but what kinda gets me confuse is that when we get so into it and get turn on he says he already wants to do it so bad and he kinda gets mad telling me its okay i am not going to leave you i really do love but i just stop and think that he just wants that but i really dont know what to do because i really love him and i want him to loose it to me to but at the same time i am scared he leaves me because thats he wanted but i also trust him alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i wanted to say thank you for answering my ? that i had asked well i am still young an still have more that come up 2 my head an i am happy dat there is this website that can help me an danks to you guys who answers my questions an i have diz question well me n my boyfriend are still virgins but we pleasure ourself which i dink is best instead of havin sex an well since he started fingering me now it has become an addiction is that normal that we want to mostly do that everyday an is kinda addicting because i really love him an i dont want that the things we do affect the relationship.Will it affect the realtionship if we pleasure ourself to much an is it normal ?
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reader, daletom +, writes (5 January 2009):
I agree with "tearsofpink" - it sounds like he mostly wants the sex. He's thinking more about himself than about you. The threat to leave you is a method to manipulate you.
If you really and truly think you two love each other and are working toward becoming life partners, then think about finding ways to satisfy the lust (both his and yours) without intercourse.
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