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writes:I'm in a new relationship with this guy, and it been almost 2 mos. He told me that he has a problem keeping it up when it's time for sex. Is it because he been with a transsexual and didn't know that he was after the intercourse happened with them two. Before this horrible situation happened he said it has always been a problem for him to keep it up. Reply to this Question
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reader, Perspicacious  +, writes (12 August 2009):
I'm sure it has nothing to do with being with a transsexual, especially as he says he had problems before anyway!
There could be many reasons why he has this problem, and the first step is for him to consult with his doctor.
In the meantime there are many other ways to enjoy being intimate together, so use your imaginations and be supportive of each other. Making him feel bad about his problem will just make it worse!
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reader, kathaiti +, writes (12 August 2009):
Have you ever tried using sex toys? If he has a hard time keeping it hard, then sex toys would be a great option. But you should consult him first before purchasing them. If he's ok with using them, then invite him to use the sex toys on you...trust me, men LOVE that!
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