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writes:Why is that a man in a sexually healthy relationship would be masterbating? My husband is 39 and wants sex at least every night and sometimes 3-4 times in a 24 hour period. Is this normal and is jerking off normal when you have intercourse that often? Please help!!!
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (12 August 2009):
 I have heard that the more times a guy has sex, the more he needs to masturbate. It has nothing to do with you personally, it's just the classic 'blue balls' syndrome. He is so used to getting off so much that he needs release more often. Another factor to consider is that masturbating is more than just a sexual release, it can also release stress as well. Masturbation is also less effort than actually having sex, and even though this guy has a high sex drive, he's not a machine by any means. Jerking off is a lot quicker with less effort. So hey, masturbation is going to happen! I would be thankful he is attempting to get some action from you instead of just sitting around wanking every couple hours. That shows he has a problem, when he isn't looking for sex with you at all. So this has nothing to do with your performance. You're probably amazing in bed, which is why he wants sex with you so much! So the fact that he is masturbating even after all this sex is totally healthy and nothing to worry about. Good luck and continue having that little extra fun with your husband!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): As long as he doesn't prefer to masturbate than to have sex with you and his masturbation doesn't affect your sex life, then it's normal and fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): well, it is if you have a high sex drive. My bf would have sex at least twice a day every day if we could. As for jerking off... he may need more release than what you can give. My man says as long as theres me around he don't want to jerk off the real thing is much better. So is it that you don't want to have sex that often?
I also have to add that when my man wants sex more often than that it kinda gets on my nerves. then he does go and jerk off...lol. I think hes fine and just has a high sex drive and we unfortuantly do not.. well at least not until our mid 30's...lol.
I say this because hes having sex with you and continues to want to. You could try appeasing him and have sex that much, infact I would, and have. turned the tables so to speek. if you would like to talk more pm me..
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): yeah we are men and have a high sex drive, nothing wrong with masturbation could be a lot worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): I hope I have that kind of sex drive when I get older! Damn! Does it really bother you? I hope you aren't feeling like you're inadequate because he feels the need to jerk off... Some guys just have a bit of extra oompfh, he's probably giving you a break and I wouldn't lose any sleep over it aye.
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