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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy? My boyfriend responds to me a lot on that side of things. But not enough. Obviously to a large extent the answer needs to come from him himself. But I was wondering if, in general, there was anything...

It hurts me to see my FWB has moved on ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my f**k buddy. i never wanted it to be f**k buddies i was totally into him! he lied to me and made me believe he wanted me to be his girl. He is now seeing someone new. He treats her like a proper gf not like how he treated me. ...

Confused- Mixed signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am almost 16 and I leave school in June. There is a guy i've known for 4 years. Recently i've developed feelings for him and can't get him out of my head. He keeps asking me for sex and I keep turning him down because of our age (he i...

7 years of marriage, 2 children, and found out he fathered a son with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been married for 7 year and have 2 children. I recently found out that my husband had been seeing someone and has fathered a son with that other person. We set down and talked about thing as calm as we could. He knew he had hurt me and said...

He's the perfect guy, except he keeps texting his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I think he is absolutely perfect! He is sweet, caring, Always supportive of me, gorgeous body and face, and amazing in bed. He is 19 and already making almost a thousand dollars a day, smart, fun to ...

My husband is into shemales

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - The sexual relationship with my husband is almost non-existent. We have sex once or twice a month on average. He doesn't seem sexually attracted to me. I tried talking to him about it, and he gave me a bunch of excuses, then suggested I should be m...

Follow up: Can the wetness be caused from pregnancy.. so soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i asked the question about me being very very wet down there. i had sex last thursday..BUT it was the first time in like 4 months. and i know i was not pregnant before thursday, cause i had gotten my period.. if the wetness was from being pregn...

What to look for if I might be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - right, me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and has sex yesterday (were both virgins). i have been on the pill about 3 weeks but we used a condom for xtra protection. the condom broke and his pre-cum may have got inside me, do you think i will ...

Sees me out, we have sex, and then he doesn't get back to me! Its happened twice!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Im gonna be honest from the start about my problem and would like honest answers. Back in December I slept with a man who afterwards didnt want to know me because I had a drug problem. I did have a cocaine problem until January of this year when his ...

My boyfriend wants a threesome but can barely perform in bed when he is with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is constantly masterbating and watches porn from 1-8 hours a day. He searches partner finders in hopes to add a third party in the bedroom. However, whenever we have sex he can only perform half of the ime....

When is a woman most fertile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - When are you most fertile/likly to get pregnant? I slept with some guy last night and i had just finished my period two days beforehand? I was really drunk but he used contraception but im not on the pill anymore so im worried that because i had jus ...

The sex is fantastic....but the rest of the relationship is terrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Help! I'm in a relationship...but we don't get along, the relationship is terrible. I want to break-up with her, but the sex is just too good. My question is how can i get over her good sex?...

He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...

Sex is too painful for my fiancee!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - OK, i have been with this girl for a year now, we are 15 years old. We really do love each other, we actually recently became engaged. Please don't comment on the engagement part though. She says that she is ready to have sex, we have tried twice, ...

Are one-night stands really the norm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I have a bad feelings about one night stands. I see that many people have had one night stands in their lives which I think is very slutty to me. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be with a girl who has had one night stands because I want someone who ...

Feeling insecure about my bf watching porn, would us watching it together help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now and we've been together for about a year. I had always assumed that he watched porn, and I've never had any issues with it because I know most people do (myself included). Although I've ...

Is my 36 year old boyfriend sexually retarded?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Im 24, he is 35. We have been dating for 5 months and moved in together 2 months ago. The first few months we had sex just about every day; it was really good and lasted a while. We often tried different positions and kept it fun. For about a mo...

Unprotected sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Me a girl had unprotected sex, and she has not been on the pill for two weeks, but started to take it again after we had sex, will she be protected? ...

She blames me for her lack of interest in sex but now she is meeting up with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have been married now for 5 months and it all appears to be going wrong. we seem to have had 4 major arguments in the past 2 weeks, resulting in her telling me that shes had enough and it cant go on. we talked and managed to sort things o...

Too scared to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i'm 15 years old and im too scared to have sex. i had a boyfriend at this beginning of this year, and i'd done everything but sex. i started my periods when i was in year 5 and i have fully matured. when it came to having sex, he literally could not ...

Condom split, morning after pill taken, period came. Could I be pregnant?

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15 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I was just wondering if you can still get periods even light or short periods if there's a chance you might be pregnant? Back in January we used a condom but it split inside me and we didn't realise until after, but I took the morning af...

I thought he likes me, but he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey there I hope u have a few mins this is quite a long one :-) Me and my boyfriend had quite a turbulent relationship for the last year(i was with him for a year) and we split up about 2 months ago. I got talking to a guy from uni, over the inter...

Yep, it's true - 30 year old virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - So guys and gals, I am a 30 year old virgin. I was a late-bloomer, then had a really busy career and moved around a lot and then it turned into this vicious cycle thing where I figured everyone would think I had had sex by then and I didn't want to ...

Incestuous thoughts from a 30 y.o. virgin male

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - hello im allen 33 year old male from west virginia im unemployed and am living with my parents for last year my thing is i have always viewed porn and stuff. im a virgin but for last 10 to 11 months i have secretly lust for my mom from looking up f...

Where exactly is the clit?

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15 April 2009 (F) - I have been really horny lately and don't know how to pleasure myself. Can someone please help me and my friend find my clit so i can orgasm?...

I see my FWB once a week, is that too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - do you think seeing an FWB about once a week is too much? i've been in this type of relationship with a guy who i dated for two months and then we decided it would be best to keep it casual. the thing is, i worry am i pushing too much if i ke...

My ex told my b/f that we had sex. Is my bf mad at me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i slept with my ex boyfriend last week, and he told my new boyfriend that we slept, i only had sex with him for like 7 minutes. my new boyfriend wont talk to me, keeping tell me to leave him alone...

13 year old step daughter out of control!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My 13 year old step daughter moved in with my husband and I a few months ago. She is out of control and I fear for her safety. A month ago she was kicked out of school for giving a blow job to a boy at a school dance. One of my neighbour said ...

She's terrified of sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. She is 20 and I am 30. We have always tried to have normal sex but she gets scared and sometimes even cries about the subject. She really wants to have sex and I believe her. Every time ...

Sex while on my period w/protection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i did sex while i was on my period and i used protection but i have missing period can i be pregnet im 14years old?...

Will he leave me if I don't want to be on top?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am 27 i have been sexually active since 16 but i am still scared to get on top and ride my partner. do you have any advice to break me out of my shyness. also,do you think my man will leave me because of this issue?...

Do you think my g/f tells her friends that I'm small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 18, and my question is...does size matter? Becasue for me I am only 4", is that normal for my age? I just get embarassed becasue I mistakingly see a friend of mine and he is a lot bigger than I am, and I am too scared to talk about it...I ...

Pregnancy - How should I deal with this? I can't tell my mum as she will go mental.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I think I may be pregnant. I had sex 2 weeks after my period and the condom broke. I'm now 12 days late for my period and will get a test tomorrow to make sure I am pregnant but my periods are very regular and i have never missed one or been more ...

I can't seem to satisfy like I did with the other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - Hi I am having a problem... well to start I am 18 and I have had sex with 3 different girls, then the 4th is my girlfriend now, well we have been together for 8 months and we have only been having sex for about 2 and a half months, but we don't do ...