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Sex: Help and advice

I have a very high sex drive, but now she's rejecting me. Should I cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - I'm a good man!..with a extremly high sex drive!..lately,..my girl started rejecting me,..making me feel unwanted/rejected!...I don't want 2 step outside the relationship,..but I know another woman would love 2 hav her work load!..its driving our ...

I got way too rough, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - I got too rough in bed, and I'm not sure what to expect from her now. Well, one day when I was having sex with my partner, she asked me to go rough, and I did, because she said she liked rough sex.But after 20 minutes, she wasn't having as many ...

I have been feeling insecure about his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and i really love him and he me but recently i have been feeling a bit insecure about his past. When we are out with his mates on nights outs like most guys the conversation turns to sex wh...

I'm 14. Should or shouldn't have sex at this age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - I've known this guy since i was about 9 im 14 turning 15 now. i no that's young but yeah. Lately i've been really wanting to know what sex feels like. After a few years we have started talking again and i want to loose my virginity to him. hes alre...

Suddenly she is not satisfied with our sex life. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - My girlfriend and I have had a really healthy sexual relationship up until this week. I was sick for the first half then Thursday we got in a fight about her having to work until 930 at night. Some questions arose about why she has been work...

I won't come/release orally or during intercourse... please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - Hi, i've read about this question in another topic but then it was a female who asked what she was doing wrong. I'm 22 and currently seeing my first girl, she's really amazing but when it comes to sex... well i won't come. I can make her come bo...

Sex with my wife is only once a month now. Help me!

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12 April 2009 (M - i am a male 28 yrs old and my wife is 26 we have a great son that is 3 the problems i have is that r sex life really suck well is not there hardly any more i would love to stay in this relationship but i can not take the once a mouth sex what shou...

Adopted son caught wanking, now he's acting up around the house

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12 April 2009 (M - Hi there, i have been through the adoption process with my 13 year old son and we are not fully sorted and happy father/son relationship, but recently i walked into the bathroom to find him masturbating. Which is fine, we all do it, but not he isnt...

Is he trying to make me jealous and see how far he can go?

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12 April 2009 (F - Please help me im so confused right now,im still mates with my ex bf, who sometimes i lv him and sometimes i hate him, he has a gf which he says he loves and she could be the one, But basically he tells me about it and also how shes going 2 buy him ...

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf ...

I feel sick after having sex

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12 April 2009 (F - To my agony aunts and uncles, thanks for taking the time to read this. So here's the deal, every time my bf and i have sex i feel sick the next day- cough, fever, fatigue. We've only had sex a few times (we used a condom every time) and i was a vi...

Mature and frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - This is my first post. I have been in a stable relationship for 10 years. My sex life is nil at the moment and seems unlikely to improve. My partner went off sex during her menopause. She won't talk about problems and defers answering any direct ...

What is "set head"?

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12 April 2009 (F - Basically the guy I'm seeing was telling me how his ex would only pull (French kiss) when they were going out for 8 months and then the other day she set head. What is set head? I think it's like blow job or sucking off... But I'm not sure lol x ...

Masturbate with friends? Should we? Where? How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (M - Hey, I'm 13, and I want to masturbate with one of my friends. I don't know if he masturbates or not, and I kinda want to masturbate/suck him off. I don't know when we could, I could easily find a place to do it though, but any thoughts? Should I ...

WTH happened? Did I get dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - Why are guys so confusing? This guy that I have been dating for over a month and last night, we were laying in my bed together. We haven't done anything sexual yet but he started kissing me and asked "When are you going to stop teasing me?" and I sa...

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

Gave b/f bj then got cold sore..is he infected?

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12 April 2009 (F - I gave my bf a bj and then a few hrs later I started getting a cold sore...is he infected? did I infect him?...

Protected sex but signs of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - Heyy. Just wondering if anyone has any advice... Im 15 years old, my boyfriend is about to be 16, we have been together for 9 months and i think i might be pregnant. I missed my period, and have alot of pregnancy symptoms. We did have PROTECTE...

I found him downloading porn dealing with animals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

12 April 2009 (F - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now. I love him with all my heart, but I dont know what to do anymore. Long story short, when we first got together, anytime I asked him anything [about his past, about what...

I want this other girl out of the picture!!!!

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12 April 2009 (F - I have been dating this really sweet guy and we had sex already. I'm 13 and I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me. I really like him. He is 16 and is very hot. He will always come over and talk to me plus he does anything sexual I want ...

Electric toothbrush as a sex toy!!

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12 April 2009 (F - My girlfriend has an old electric toothbrush and she likes to use it as a vibrator on me sometimes. Is it alright for the bristles to be on it while being on my clitoris? ...

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