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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do you give a lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - How do you give a lap dance? What makes it feel really awesome and what is the best way to end it before the sex? Should the sex come after oral sex or no oral at all? and I need details please I have no clue what I'm doing?!?!...

Why does he not like giving me oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - This guy I've been seeing is completely uninterested in giving me oral sex!! I give it to him every single time we're together but when I ask him if he'll reciprocate, he says he does a good enough job with his hand and no thanks. What is u...

I want to give a "special treat" to my boyfriend.. Suggestions please??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My bf is amazing and I was wanting to do something a little extra special, something to wow him, whether it's with my body or a good position that feels amazing to guys. I thought about starting with a massage but once it gets to the sex I'm out of ...

How can I get my husband to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - How can I get my husband to initiate sex? What can I do so that he can't stop himself and come pouncing at me (hee hee) that's what I desire. Can anyone tell which points in men's body initiate that feeling or any food that increases sexual desire?...

Hysterectomy..will my sex life be the same?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Can someone please tell me if having a Hysterectomy will change my sex life. My husband and I have a wonderful, active sex life. I have been told by my doctor that I need to have a Hystrectomy due to enlarged Fibriods. This will be a partial ...

Pregnant by my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found ...

Giving good head..suggestions please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really want to know how to give good head... and since this is a place where lots of people share their advice and expierience i would like to know what certain actions make this the most memorable expierience? ...

Had my period...can I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy. We used protection, im not on the pill but i think i might be pregnant. We had sex about 2 years ago and i fell pregnant then. That was protected too but still. I had what i thought was my period last week but it was ligh...

We make out then he ignores me afterwards...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - The other night me and my boyfriend got pretty intimate, not sex or anything, but we came close. The thing is, he hasn't contacted me or answered my calls since. I think he's avoiding me and I'm upset because that's the most I've ever done with a ...

Did I offend him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I really really like this boy, and have done for years. He recently confessed he liked me too. We aren't going out with each other just yet but he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him, and i want to but i don't know if i should. I told him i di...

Does he feel the same or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy that i have know for years. We are not bf and gf but we have had sex on many occasions. He was my first (as in i lost my virginity to him) and he has been my first for many things. (First guy to cook me dinner, first guy i ...

Should I believe him? He said he didn't post profile and messages on online dating sites.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hey there i need advice as im soo confused me n my bf hav bin 2gtha a yr, i had my doubts about him cheating as hes told me a few lies in the past, so i decided to do some hunting. i went on to google n typed in the user name he uses the most, t...

My boyfriend is confusing the hell out of me about sex and I don't know what to do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some serious advice from the guys out there, how would you want your gf/wife to handle this situation with you?? My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now, and up until recently he's had a drinking problem and the only...

Are orgasms really like many describe or is it exaggeration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My question is about female orgasms. :p I've been masturbating since I was about 16, and it's always felt really good. But most women seen to describe it differently (on the net, in books/writing).. I simply don't feel the same way. They describ...

Rules seem to be different at my age and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 53 years old, very active and vibrant 53 year old, have been divorced for 4 years, have not had a sexual relationship since then. I have met a very nice man and we have only had one date. We hit it off so great! and we did kiss passionately. ...

I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hey a quick question im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat...

I've suspected that I'm bi since I'm 14. Could I be bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi, since i've been about 14 ive had my suspicions that i'm bisexual. because when i masturbate the thought of boobs really turn me on. but then when i sleep with my boy i really enjoy that as well. its strange. when i'm drunk i tease that i am ...

Caught my daughter using a vibrator.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

My best friend tried to finger me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand ...

Is my man just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he ...

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

Why does he use Porn to get off...and ignores me??I am more than willing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi... i feel kinda embarassed to asked this but i have to since i cant get answers from my bf.. We've been together for almost 7 months now, out of all that time he has been watching porn for like 1 1/2 almost EVERY DAY.. He didnt tell me he was ...

Will a guy be offended if a girl wants to try something new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a solely sexual relationship with a guy the same age as me. I do have feelings for him, but have been trying to get over them and it's working. Lately I've been thinking that I want to end our sexual relationship, but I'm afraid becau...

Approaching him about something new for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in an intimate relationship with a 17 year old guy. We aren't going out, we just have a mutual agreement to be what you would call "friends with benefits". It's an exclusive agreement, meaning we only sleep with ...