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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is constantly masterbating and watches porn from 1-8 hours a day. He searches partner finders in hopes to add a third party in the bedroom. However, whenever we have sex he can only perform half of the ime.
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reader, Dazed~Confused  +, writes (16 April 2009):
 Some "experts" say that the availability of porn these days has caused a new type of sexual dysfunction. Men expect the same sort of things they see in porn to happen in real life and aren't turned on my "regular" women or regular sex anymore. Whether this his issue or not, he definitely has issues that he has to deal with. I would leave it up to him to deal with it. Don't don anything with him that you aren't comfortable with or that might put you at risk. Say you agree to the 3some, is he going to ask for something else next? You need to decide whether this is a road you are willing to go down....
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Have a threesome he'll be spent in two seconds and you and the other guy can enjoy yourselves! While he looks on helplessly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): I'm not surprised he can't perform with you, it sounds as if he's been spanking the monkey to death. It sounds like he's insecure. You don't say much about his attitude to you, Is he loving and caring? If he's watching so much porn does he ever have time for you in a non-sexual way?
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reader, CrazyMind +, writes (15 April 2009):
 I don't see a question here...!
Your boyfriend may be looking for something that could make him perform, but if you're not comfortable with the idea, then reject it.
Another thing to remember when choosing to have a threesome is safety - if he's searching Partner finders to find somebody to have a threesome with, you know nothing about that person, if they're carrying any STIs, etc.
Your boyfriend seems to want to fulfil his own sexual fantasy. If you're not happy with the idea, then you don't have to be involved; and make sure full STI checks are done with every party involved if it does go ahead.
- Crazy.
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