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writes:OK, i have been with this girl for a year now, we are 15 years old. We really do love each other, we actually recently became engaged. Please don't comment on the engagement part though. She says that she is ready to have sex, we have tried twice, both times i only got about an inch inside and then she told me stop bcuz it hurt so we did. We are both virgins and both want to have sex. I don't want to hurt her too much but she says that she will have to put up with it if she wants kids, because it will hurt a hell of a lot more to have kids. I want to know how much it hurts and for how long, so that i can figure out whether we are doing it wrong or anything. Thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): for girls, it hurts for the first 3 times on average1st- uncomfortable hurts 2nd-uncomfortable3rd-best thing in the world!so if your gf is really ready for sex (take in account she might be saying it cuz you want it) then it is like she said she just has to grin and bear it. whatever toys you use it will hurt, just have to get it over with.sign up to a local clinic they don't tell your parents if it is something you are embarrased about. totally confidential you get free condoms and alternative contraception to for exanple i am on the injection but get free condoms too.x
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 This is why you shouldn't have sex at 15!
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reader, CrazyMind +, writes (15 April 2009):
 The pain could be that she is quite tight, and may also be dry. Lead up to sex with foreplay, and be sure to use lubrication. Also, get her to try masturbation [or you can do it for her... may help] which can loosen her up.
Don't take things too fast. Be sure to use plenty of lubrication, and masturbation should loosen up.
Good luck,
- Crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): most women find it either painful or uncomfortable when they first have sex, and that is only normal. With time the pain should subside, if not then a trip to the doctors may be needed.
As she is only 15, her body may not yet be matured enough for sexual intercourse and so this could cause her more pain.
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