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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will she get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My fiance isn't on any birth control, but I have been pulling out before ejaculating.. How likely is it that she could get pregnant?...

Why does the guy I'm dating have problems in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Dear cupid. I am a 23 year old women who is dating a 31 year man. We have a great relationship. We bond really well. The problem is, there are time when we have sex and he orgasims. However, let's say we have sex the next day in the morning or ...

He'd rather masturbate than use condoms with me. I feel so unwanted!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I walked in on my boyfriend masturbating the other day, and while I know that masturbating is completely normal, and I have nothing against it at all, it really hurt me for some reason. I think it hurt me because we rarely have sex, and he claims ...

Husband needs more sex from his wife...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - me and my partner have been together 13 years , but we have now got 4 children 5years apart, and our sex life is rubbish. we almost plan and predict when its going to happen( not very often). the problem is i have a high sex drive my partner doesn't ...

How do you give a handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - im about to give my first handjob, my boyfriend really wants one. But i dont know how?!?! please help me!!!!...

I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is really experienced and I'm not. I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself which is what I'm trying not to do. But whenever he fingers me or eats me out it feel sooooo good and I don't know ...

Me, my married man affair, his affair, and his wife. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have known this married man for 4 years. we have been physical the whole four years. But he had an affair with another person in the office. and his wife found out about 2 months ago. she filed for divorce and he moved out. we were spending ...

My wife watches porn when I am away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I am 32 and married. In some occasions I watched porn with my wife. Afterwords she said it was not a good idea and rejected it so I stopped. Lately I have seen she is watching porn while I am away. She is now in another country and when I call...

How do I get over my ex and find another boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I'm nineteen and my ex is eighteen. Four months ago, he and I broke up after a terrible two-year relationship. He physically and mentally abused me and then decided to cheat on me (with a chick he has become friends with benefits with). Anyway, just...

I think my start in puberty is messed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) - hi im 13 yrs old and i think my start in pubity is really messed up! i have hardly any pubic hair and what i do have is very close to the start of my penis i have armpit hair but not very much only about 3 or 4 hairs on each armpit and i was told...

Questions on porn and sex... Guys? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - GUYS! I have a question... or two. I am a very attractive girl, I'm thin, tall, awesome legs and a great body, I'm in shape, but not crazy gym rat style. I think that the only down side I have is I'm small chested, but it fits my frame. My boyfr...

My g/f told me I was her first. Should I believe her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend told me she couldn't really feel something when i was inside her, but she told me i am her first time but before me there was a boy who just fingered her for a bit but didn't have proper sex, so she told me she never really have sex ...

What is the normal sex range in a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my husband have been married foer 4 yrs. He acts like he loves me he takes care of and our 3yrd.old son. He always tell me he loves me and our son but he don't show it he always too Bussy to spend time with us. he either to sleepy r to...

Is swallowing a sign of acceptance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hi. My husband loves it when I swallow his semen. Why does this appeal so much to men? Any views, ladies?...

I'm tired of a sexless marriage and a woman who doesn't love me at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My marriage has been falling apart for years now. The biggest cause is that I caught my wife having an affair 8 years ago and still have trust issues because I feel she didn't do what it takes to regain my trust. Although she said she has no othe...

How do I blow my new man's mind in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I'm starting a new relationship, and I want to know how to blow my mans mind in bed. He is always on top, and I want to go on top and show him a good time. Any tips?...

I am liberally sexual and want to experiment, does that make me gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I want to have a full sexual contact threesome with a man woman couple and I want to experience everything there is to do does that make me gay?...

I want to suck on her feet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Ok. I'll be very blunt here. I have a foot fetish. I've told my girlfriend about it and she was honest and said 'I don't get it but I don't think you're weird.' (Because when i told her, i told her i was worried she'd think i'm weird lol.) we were ...

I'm loose. Will my future husband be put off by this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Dear Angony Aunt, I am a 17 year-old high school senior. Last summer I lost my technical virginity. Since then I have had sex with six guys.I start college in the fall and I expect to bed a different guy every Friday and Saturday night.Do you thi...