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Sex: Help and advice

I think my boyfriend is distant because the sex is bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - hey guys. ive got a really embaresing problem! my bf and i hav bin togetha for 2 yrs. bt we seriously lacking in the intimacy deprtment! the sex isnt good because i neva go on top and we neva change styles plus we've never kisd coz i just simply ...

How can do more for my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - ommg i need help. i'm 17 and been with my b/f for about 2 yrs, it's a very good relationship and we both lost our virginity to each other but here's the problem he seems to be doing everything. i feel really guilty but everytime i try something i ...

Dont know what I am! Should I come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Hi, just some general backround info you need to know. 1.I'm a 13 yo. boy 2.I don't know if im straight, gay, or bi. I don't know what my orientation is, because it could be hormones, but I find MEN, not boys to be attractive, I also like girls...

I had sex with my married teacher and now I want him to be with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - okay i posted a question quite a while back saying i tried to kiss my teacher but he rejected me. However last night i was at a nightclub with my friends and because hes only like 26 himself he was there and we started talking and he was saying how ...

Periods becoming lighter and lighter...could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 nearly 16 and at the end of november my boyfriend entered me. It happend before I knew it he went in for a couple of seconds like twice, he didn't come in me. I knew it was likely i wasn't pregnant i'm normally late anyway. And I was worried ...

I'm really confused about my sexual orientation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - so, let start off with im a 16 year old girl. problem is, how do i know if im straight, bi or les? like i know what it means to be each one, but im so confused and it freaks me out because there is so much pressure around me to be straight or to ...

According to guys, if you are raped, do they think of you as "loose"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - If you get raped does it affect your muscles? In a mans terms does getting raped make you "loose"? ...

G/f would black out and wake up with guys..she can't remember what happened!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend recently told me something that I wish she never had. She was going through a tough time, and slept with guys, then woke up with them in her bed, and didnt remember what had happened. She said this happened several times. There was ...

My ex wants to have sex with me on my Birthday, but I am not a cheater. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - so i have a bf but i keep thinking about my ex and is crazy because i love my bf but we have sex issues. the sex has never been good but i didn't leave him because i love him and i didn't want to just tell him and hurt his feelings. but we have spo...

Is it wrong for me to feel unappreciated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together a year. I love her very much. Since we have gone out, I have paid for the gas for us to travel (my vehicle ), every date (movies, eating out, etc.) This has never really bothered me, but I also am a coll...

Is he looking out for us or is he just a damn bimbo?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, and i feel i might be pregnant. the problem is that my boyfriend for a year is telling me to get an abortion. i was stunned as he always talked about me having his first child. he's calling me ever...

How do you ask a girl for anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - How do you ask a girl for anal sex? Iv been having "normal" sex for a while now and i find that i really want to just try anal sex with a girl. A lot of girls i know hate the thought of it and wud probably run a mile if you asked. But what is the b...

How do I suggest different sex position to my fiance? Or is she just set in her ways?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I love her dearly and wouldn't change her for the world but, unfortunately, I'm getting bored with the sex. It's her on top or me on top. Most of the time it's her. I've tried talking to...

My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...

Tips on how not to gag when giving BJ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I don't enjoy giving BJ's but my boyfriend (obviously) likes them. I feel bad because he gives me head all the time and for nothing in return, but I know that he wants to get them more... Does anyone have any advice on how to give a re...

He doesn't want to have sex

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8 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 26, we have successful careers on cruise ships. We have been in a relationship for about 3 years. When we are separated for a few weeks +/- 4-8 weeks at a time, we we get back together we have amazing sex for about two ...

Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to ...

What are the consequences for masturbating too much (for a female)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I love masturbating lol But I do it so much I'm afraid it will make me "looser" or something. What are the consequences of doing it too much?...

If it's platonic, why say that he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'll try to keep this brief and not include every detail of the past three years... I started seeing an older guy at the end of my master's degree. I got a job and moved away. Then when he graduated with his doctorate he moved to the same area...

Feeling drained after masturbation. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - OK, I masturbate 1 time a day or 1 every other, and I was just wondering, after I cum, I'm not really horny anymore, and I feel very physically drained, is this normal?...

What should I do to control these urges?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Ok, I'm 13, in the 8th Grade, and I like to fantasize about having group sex and individual sex with about 4+ of my male teachers. I know this will never happen, but I get so aroused by thinking about it. I am very attracted to older hairy men, and ...

Does he just want me me for company and sex? What is in his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - My story is a little complicated . I married very early and I am 26 and we separated now. I met a guy last year and became crazy for him in a short time , he is 35 and just broke up with his ex at that time. He said he likes me very much and we h...

Will sex make us closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16, soon to be 17. We've been together for 11 months only. We've done other sexual stuff and it seems after we do that we fall more in love. We've done basically everything except, actual sex lol. But we ...

I feel bad for not listening to my parents about my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - hey im 16 years old and im going through a hard time right now..i got caught sneaking my boyfriend into my house at midnight i feel so bad because i had a lot going on with my parents they were telling me a lot. where it got to the point that both ...

Should I make the first move or let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months and we have made out with the kissing etc which is great. I can't tell if he wants to have sex because as soon as we get to that point he just stops and that's it. Should I make the first move or let him?...

Am I Suffering From Hysteria?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - When I was about 11 I tried masterbating for the First Time and It Didn't really do anything. But I noticed Something Strange, ever since....I'm always wet. Sometimes more then other, but my panties are getting wet and it's staining them! I wa...

Does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - About 5 Day's ago a Friend of mine sent me an honesty Box Comment saying " i would like to make sweet love to you all night long, it'll be so good you wont want me to stop." I figured out that it was one of my perverted Friends, But he's a Nice ...

I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her..Should I even continue dating this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - About 6 days ago, A friend of mine asked me out over facebook. But not the way most People would.....He said very bluntly that he wanted to have Sex with me. I thought that he was Just being the crude Joker that his is and I said "Well as Long as ...

I feel bad for seeing an ex's friend..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 4 years, we were so in love but in the end grew apart. It didn't end well and we no longer talk to each other. It has been 15 months since the break up and we both seem to have moved on with our lives, he is seeing someone else and ...

I know that I need to leave my wife...but does she really love me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - I am in the most difficult situation that I have ever been. I am 34 years old, married and have an 8 month old baby girl. About 2 years ago I hired a woman to work for me who was 6 years younger than I was. After about 3 months I knew that I was ...

Should we stop making out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Whenever me and my girlfriend make out, because we're alone, it turns into this big romantic movie montage, we get so caught up in the moment and just loose ourselves...she gets on top of me on the bed/couch and starts feeling me up and i do the ...

Masterbation question...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - i was masturbating earlier and then when i went to the bathroom and noticed one of my vagina lips was bigger than the other, like swollen or something. now its kind of sore. is this normal? will it go away?...

No matter what I do...I cant orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Ok, so i am 17 years old and will be turning 18 in 12 days, i just started having sex with my boyfriend in october of this year. Although we have only been having sex for a couple months we have "done it" many times, (by many i mean at least 3 days ...