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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My horrific past is haunting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - For a year I went out with my bf who abused me really badly, not only physically but emotionally and sexually (in which he raped me). I broke it off with him, so I guess hes always had anger towards me for that. For atleast a year after the b...

Casual sex made our friendship sour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - About six months ago I developed a friends with benefits deal with someone in my dorm. We had fun in the very beginning and then she got attached to me and as much as I would have enjoyed being in a relationship with her I just don't think it would ...

Our gushing sex life has now dwindled to trickles

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I need someone a little open minded who won't judge my husband's past (just for my sanity please). Ok my husband is my best friend's cousin. He saw me at the place that she and I used to work. She set us up the day after my 27th birthday. I fell...

I am really wet but I feel that this isn't normal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - it might sound horrible but i'm feling wet alot down below, i have had 2 children 1 c section 9 years ago and 1 natural birth 2 years ago. i do not feel normal when me and my partner have sex he says it feels great still but i worry is this normal ...

How can I make my wife swallow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her n...

HIV test tomorrow and I'm really scared....

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - im going for an hiv test tomorrow and im so scared i might test positive.my x bf was a player and he slept around,i found out he tested positive and ever since i have been scared.i have never had sex with anyone but him he is my first.please give me ...

Damage from dry humping...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both virgins and recently were dry humping. It lasted quite a while, longer than we've ever gone before. The next morning, she had vaginal tearing and would bleed when she went to the restroom. Is it possible that we ...

How can I encourage my wife to enjoy sex more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - How can i get my wife to have a craving for sex with me? I realy love her but she doesnt want to give me anything. The sex is great when she eventualy gives me sex. She also never start the foreplay. What can i do?...

I had sex with my best friend....am I a lesbian? I love her so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - hello, im really confused... i am 17, and i am in love with my best friend who is a girl also... she is so pretty smart and makes me laugh constantly... i get excited when she texts me and i melt when she talks to me... we have kissed on numerous ...

Tried to impress my friends with my 23 year old boyfriend but they just got mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - At School, My friends were talking about their boyfriends and Girlfriends and stuff. And my friend Melinda* look at me and was like "To bad you don't have one." Everyone kinda looks at me. and I smile. I said "what are you talking about? I have ...

Could my daughter be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - my daughter has had unprotected sex 4 days and 2 days before her period was due, she had her period 2 days after sex but could she be pregnant, i dont want to sound silly but my children are 21 and 18 and i really cant remember....

Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 April 2009 (?) - Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worri...

Eye glass fetish anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I need to know more about my partners fetish for women wearing eye glasses(not sun glasses).Do any other women have partners with this fetish,or are there any men who have this fetish?What is it about the glasses that do it for him!Also i don't need ...

Ex g/f still wants phone sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - my seventeen year old ex girlfriend says that though we have broken up we can still have phone sex chats and masturbate and she said it will be only for personal pleasure ... is it ok to do it ? ...

Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( ...

I'm losing interested in phone sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I feel like i'm loosing interest in having 'phone' sex with my honey; that is long distance at this time. He'll be with me in September and on though... But until then...I don't understand why i don't want to really have 'phone sex' with him. I love ...

Want to get pregnant -- any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and i have recently decided that we want to start trying for a baby. I came off my pill last month and we had lots of great sex, however i got my period the other day although it only lasted three days. This is confusing me as ...

Why does penetration hurt now when it didn't before?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have been sexually active for over 2 years now. I've only ever been with 2 guys, both my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 months now. Penetration has started to hurt when we start having sex and I am wondering ...

Frustrated guy with a hurt ego.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Ok so..i am a 16 years old athletic guy..actually i breakdance so i am in a real good body shape and no health problems etc..but the problem is my first time was with an experienced woman i guess and it was horrible..i got everything wrong...