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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I always end up unsatisfied after sex because I last too long. What can I do to change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Doese anyone know a way to make your self more sensitive or easyier to come quicker during sex, basically i have too much stamina , where as most guys would probably think its a great thing, its becomeing a real pain in the ass during sex, i could ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

I'm 5 weeks late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hi im 13 i am 5 weeks late on my periods .. i have done stuff in the past and have been on my periods since then but a just cant sp beeing worrried and can u get pregnant if the boyfirends like has sperm on his hand and then poked you and you didnt ...

My husband watches porn, but won't have sex with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My husband is not interested in sex with me, no matter what I do, and, believe me, I have tried everything. He prefers unusual porn sites (women trampling men, women smothering men) and I have offered to do these things to him but he says he does ...

Because of the rape, it hurts to have sex with my boyfriend and it hurts us both! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Other than being sexually assaulted I've only had one sexual experience and when it happened it still felt like i was being raped. I'm not sure if it was him, me, or just the fact that i had been raped before, but i hated it it felt like he was ...

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...

Should we call it quits after 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hello all you experienced people, My relationship..., seven years engaged a couple ago. 5 kids between us although hers are gone, moved in for a bit but because of lawyers and child support laws she moved out. we still get along well and enjoy t...

We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?...

When I squirt, how do I learn to control the amount that comes out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - How do you 'control the amount' when the squirting 'happens'? Forgive this if it is too blunt. I am embarassed to ask. I've been squirting,( since 16 and I'm 39). I squirt multiple times as long as my husband 'doesn't stop' , doing whatever...

Too confused. Husband not interested in sex with me, just wants threesomes or foursomes. Am I inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hi its me again. Ever since that foursome episode, my husband and I have not had sex with each other since we do not live together. (Its a discrete marriage) Now, we had made a plan to spend the whole day together and guess what? He hs asked me s...

I overcame my abuse. How do I make sure now that sex is perfect for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we really truely love each other, and both feel it's time to take our relationship to the next level, he is a virgin and I am not. I was abused as a child so I never got to give my virginity away, it...

Best things to say during sex to impress or surprise him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey i love havinbg sex with my partner. i know this might sound starnge but whats the best sound and best things to say during to impress or surprise him ?...

How can I suggest to my girlfriend that she shaves down there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid... Me and my girlfriend have just started having full sex, but before we started having full sex, i used to give her oral sex and she really enjoys it. The problem with the oral sex, is that she has NEVER shaved down there, and its...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

We had unprotected sex and now I'm feeling weird. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I had sex with my basically boyfriend friday the 22nd. I took his verginity. I dont think he pulled out in time and when he did...it got on my inner thigh. we didnt use a condom. couple days after that, the condom broke. I am very emotional an...

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

My boyfriend and I would like some ideas on different positions to have sex, what do you suggest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - whats your fave sex potision? and what are they like? me and my boyfriend are experimentin lol, were been safe dont worry but need some idead :D thanks!...

My husband is in prison, and I am having enjoyable sex with another man, who wants me to make a decision, I don't want to leave my marriage, but should I continue to have sex with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - THis guy has been flirting with me for awhile, then he started asking me out. I told him no that i'm married. He said he knew that. ANd he wasnt meaning anything by it. So after a couple more of him asking i finally said yes. After about 4 times ...

We had rough sex, and I was hurt a bit, but not so bad, my boyfriend feels terrible, how can I convince him it wasn't that bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

31 August 2008 (?) - Several days ago, i had sex with my boyfriend. He went very rough. I told him it hurt, surprizingly it did. He pulled out, we had notice i bled a bit. He thinks im still in pain, and still bleeding but im not. Vincent wont believe that im fine, he ...

My cousin and I had casual sex a lot when we were younger. What does this mean now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a problem that I want to try and sort out... Me and My Cousin moved away from each other about 9yrs ago...she was about 20 then and I was 13, Now when were younger...we had casual sex alot..we didn't plan it to be like this..but It ...

Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants ...

Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told ...

Can you get an STD from giving oral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ...

Why all this HATE towards me and show of temper?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone ...

What are some household items I can use as lube? I don't want to go to a sex shop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - What are some everyday things that can be found in a house that can be used as lube and dildo.I don't have the courage to go in to a sex shop.I'm a guy so it would look weird,btw I live in an apartment so I can't really hide it from my parents.I ...

Did we make out for too long? Or is it the wearing of the condom for the first time that's generated the erection problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Okay so I've been seeing my girlfriend for about four months, we met at the start of summer this year. Both of us are still virgins and right now would have been the second time that we have tried to have sex. The first time was a few weeks back at ...

I'm not sure if my boyfriend just wants me for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i've been with this boy for 3 months now. He is like so obessed with sex but we havent done it. Now im not sure if he likes me for who i am or what he can get from me. what should i do?...

I'm 17 and need some sex advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - hello, im 17. i wanted to know what oral sex is and how it can help me get towards anual sex. and what is the diffrence between them, do you need a comdon. and does it hurt. i have tried to finger myself but icant evry time i get turned on i go in ...

Can you get pregnant on your week break from the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - hi all is it true that in the seven pill free days that your waiting for your period that if you have sex you wont be pregnant because you taken the pill even if you have sex when your on your period ??...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

I'm 10 days late but the tests came negative. Am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - im 10 days late, i was supposed to start on the 20th but didn't. i had sex on the 15th. i took two pregnancy test(cheap kind $1)they both showed negative. could i be pregnant?...

My lover doesn't enjoy sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Yesterday I asked a question about whether it was healthy/normal to want sex all the time and the answers were basically yes and enjoy it... problem is I'm in a relationship with a great man who doesn't want to enjoy it. I just go longing. What ...

Does bleeding mean you broke your hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I think i lost my hymen because i bleeded when i made out with my boyfriend, i don't know if he did enter me all the way through or not but since i bleeded this means that i lost my hymen right ? ...

Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY ...

My boyfriend won't french kiss me! He says it leads to sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says the reason he won't french kiss me is because it always leads to sex and he has no desire for sex. He has ED. but I think french kissing is not just for sex. We've only been together 2 months and I 'm not ready for sex but I am ...

My girlfriend's past is causing me pain!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I'm currently involved in a serious relationship with someone.. I just can't seem to get over her past. It bothers me even more that i know every guy she's been with and see them around my town every once in a while.. It eats away at me and i'm not ...

I don't stay erect for too long during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - i seem not to be able to stay erect very long during sex, i only last for about 5 minutes or less, when i dont have sex i masterbate at least 3 times a day, what could the problem be??...

My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...

I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...

I'm finally with a nice man but I'm not sexually attracted to him, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I was a single mom of two boys when I met "Bob". My previous relationship lasted 8 years and was very violent ending in CPS taking one of my children because of the abuse. It was either my ex or my boys and I picked my boys and currently have sole ...

Do guys prefer anal sex over vaginal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Last night my husband and I were drunk, and we did anal sex. He seemed to really get into it, he came in less than a minute. It didn't hurt because I was drunk but I don't want to do it again. My butt is bleeding a little too. My fear is that now he ...

I've been celibate for 5 years and I'm wondering why I can't attract men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been celibate for 5 years and I have been trying like mad to figure out why I can no longer attract men! I never used to have this problem - I had plenty of boyfriends and relationships throughout my 20's. I broke up with a long term partner ...

Should I have sex with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our unde...

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just ...

My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...

When I masturbate the day I have sex, I have erection problems. Is this bizarre?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - does masterbation normally make a man not be able to get erect? i ask this because when i masterbate every day and have sex i cant seem to keep it up but when i dont masterbate a tall it seems to be fine infact its a lot harder so im not sure if i ...

Is my sexual appetite just a sign I'm a healthy young man or is this excessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - I was wondering whether I have a problem. The issue is that I always feel like sex and when I have sex I feel like it again afterwards or at the most the next morning. Is this just a sign I'm a healthy young man or is this excessive? I could easily ...

Is it normal for a man who has a healthy sex life to watch porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other very much and have a healthy sex life. I found out today that he watches porn sometimes. He told me without hesitation and I did not ask. We some how got on the topic of porn. H...

He wants me to give him an incredible orgasm, but I have to put my finger in a certain place...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend asked me if I ever wanted to try anal sex. I'm not interested in puttig anything up my hiney. Exit only please! He mentioned that one of the biggest and best orgasms he ever had was with an ex who fingered him in the anus during sex. ...

What are the chances of me being pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Alright. So me and my boyfirend (long term) have been havign sex, everything is fine. But i think i may have gotten pregnant. We had sex the past 3 days a few times he finished off inside me. And a few times we used a condom and then after we used a ...