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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is it cause for concern if your partner doesn't reciprocate, oral-wise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I haven't seen this certain question asked here, so I am going ahead and ask. If your p artner wants you to give him a bj, but in turn he won't return the favor, with no explanation what so ever. Should there be cause for concern, or not? I want ...

Any tips for increasing libido? I don't feel any sexual urges... at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Can anyone suggest ways of increasing my labido? Im 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's great, affectinate and passionate but I havent had sex with him for 6 months. I feel clostraphobic when he gets close to me. I love spending ...

I'm 48 and I have trouble achieving orgasm! Any suggestions or advice?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6526 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - I am a 48 year old male in good health. For the last several years I have had trouble achieving orgasm. It just gets harder and harder to climax and sometimes I just give up. The only way I can orgasm is by tensing up my body and stiffening my ...

Why would he try to have sex with me when I was sleeping?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Hi, this is my first ever question. my bf and i have been together for nearly two years. I came home late very tired, he stayed over at my place. we went to bed and i awoke to him trying to have sex with me. I just dont know what to think, we have a ...

I'm 16.I love my bf but .I have fears about my relationship. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Me(16) and my boyfriend (20) of 1.5 years has had sex for 3 times already, we are in a very loving relationship,but I fear that if we start having sex alot the relationship will be more based on that than on love.And I fear losing him. Am I just ...

Had sex and found out after...the condom split! What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 December 2006 (?) - Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were ...

I'm a 19 yr old virgin - am I missing out!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - I've been really depressed for the past few years due to my lack fo love life. I'm now 19 years old, and only had my first kiss a few weeks ago, and that was only a one off snog when out on the lash. I'm still a virgin, and when my friends, who ...

I'm a virgin and my first time trying didn't go so well - is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I am a virgin and yesterday I tried to have sex with my boyfriend but I just got really scared and started to panick and cried so we stopped. Is there something with me ?...

Married 3 years and have never penetrated my wife. Please help..we need some advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid, I have a very serious problem. I have been married for 3 years but till now never penetrated my wife. I ejaculate before penetration, i don't whats wrong. Recently i have got myself checked and according to doctor everything is fi...

Why doesn't she want to have full sex with me... after two whole years!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - Dear cupid, why doesn't my gf want to have full sex with me? i am a 21yr old guy and my gf is 20, we have been going out for nearly 2 years and get on great except with sex. we have being doing oral and masturbation and nearly everything except for ...

My bf says he's bored with making love to me! I feel so self-conscious! How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - My bloke of two years said i don't do enough during love making. I thought everything was ok. He says i don't touch him as much as i used to do. I just lie there and let him do everything. It's not true and has made me feel so conscious. We do ...

She's 7 months pregnant..does anyone know of good sex positions to try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) - Me and my wife are expecting our first child (she's 7 months pregnant). Lately she has been asking me if I still find her pretty, attractive etc. and I say yes of course I do. Though if she was convinced then she wouldn't keep asking. I've concluded ...

How can I tell if I'm good in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - Hi my name is Lizzie and I'm 21 and I'd like to know how can you tell if your any good in bed and if you're a good kisser. My friend recently got told she was a quote "lousy f***" and i thought this was horrible and it started me thinking have ot...

I can get 'wet' like I think I shoud. We've used lube but is there a way I can do this naturally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi I recently started having sex for the first time, we had been doing stuff for a while - but wanted to make sure we were both ready before going the whole way. Before when we were doing stuff i never had trouble getting wet - but since we've ...

HAd sex and I'm worried about pregnancy. How long do I wait before having a pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and i have a bf of my age we had sex at december 26 and i got my last period at december 13... we dnt use any protection so im soooo scared .... i can be pregnant??? he eyaculates out but someone says that anyways i can be pregnant.. how ...

This is the 2nd xmas in a row-I have slept with my married boss. But it gets worse-I think I'm pregnant! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - Hi there... okies i think ive been really stupid. Last xmas i slept with my boss whose married and we didnt speak properly for ages afterwards, on my part i was embarrassed and wasnt sure what he was thinking but on his part i thought he regre...

A past bf forced sex on her and now--she isn't interested in making love. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - Iv known my girlfriend for well over 10 years now and we've just got together a few months ago. She's a great person and i really like her a lot but the sex for me is all give and no receive. She just doesn't seem interested. Even when I'm simply ...

Does circumcision affect penis size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am not sure if this question is gonna be posted but if it is i would like to know: does the penis of a man shrink if he was circumcised when he was young, and if so is they anyway to make it bigger again ??? ...

Is it still wrong to feel used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - is it wrong 2 feel used if you give a blow job and then they leave..?..i duno if it that they got what they want now they can leave.or that they really do need to leave..but is it still wrong 2 feel used?!...

I have no idea why on gods earth i cheated on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - Hi!..i'm so Distrot!..i'm so upset i cheated on my boyfriend twice..once on Christmas..and once just a few houres ago..i have no idea y on gods earth i cheated on him i love him would never cheat and here i am and i gave to guys i don't even LIKE at ...

He's been giving hint that he wants us to be more

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - im am a 17 year old girl and i been sleeping with a 29 year old guy i made it clear to him he is only a booty call as i have a high sex drive and it get so bad i cant consentrate at school recently he been giving hint that he wants us to be more ...

He said well you love me so prove it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - A girl I know just got dumped by her bf. They have been going out for a few months and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks ago it all changed. This girl got sexualy abused by her father and feels uncomfterble now in relationships. When it got worse he ...

My ex told them we had sex, but I haven't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - all my freinds think i've had sex, even my guy freinds, cause thats what my ex told them. Now the guy i really like has asked me out but he thinks i've doen it and keeps saying things towards us having sex. I know that i'd wait a long time to do it ...

How many BJ's on average, is average?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - How many blow jobs does the average man get per week ? ...

Can you rebuild lost sexual desire?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6530 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - After 25 mainly good years we have separated . The reason is that she does not desire me anymore and actual sex does not give her much feelings . My question is....Can you rebuild desire and enjoying sex. Bob...

How do I tell my bf..that oral sex does not do it for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6530 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Hi iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years..were engaged and getting married soon.yay..i love him and he loves me..we talke about every lil thing..and were very sexualy active..it's just i'm not very turnd on to being eatin out...i don't know y i need ...

I am disgusted with my masturbation habit--how do I stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a problem and a habit i know is natural but i just think is disgusting. I masturbate but keep telling myself i will stop but give in to it in the end. I know its natural and it does not cause me pain i just want to stop it all together. I ...

How can I get the passion back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. It used to be great. We experimented a little bit, and we broke up for a little while. We got back together and we have been for about two months. We only broke up for a few weeks. Now she seems to ...

I gave some guy random head and I feel like a slag now. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - hi im nearly 18! im still a virgin and i have been sexually active once before!! until last night i gave some random head and he fingered me! and today i feel like such a slag and kinda depressed and dirty! is this normal! or will i always feel like ...

Does masturbating make you sterile when you're older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

24 December 2006 (M) - If you masturbate a lot when your a teenager, does it make you sterile whe your older(i.e. you can't have kids)?...

It was my first time and the earth didn't move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6533 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 10 months. It wasn't planned and was a bit out of the blue. Anyway, i am a little concerned that maybe something is wrong. It didn't hurt me at all which is good, it just felt a little ...

Am I right to feel upset that he was masturbating in the bed next to me while I slept!!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I woke up one night to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. I feel this isnt normal for him to do this next to me while i was asleep. Am i right to feel upset or should i just let it go....

I slept with someone else, but havent yet with my boyfriend and I cant understand why!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I have slept with someone other than my boyfriend. That has been quite a while ago and I have not done it again. I just can’t understand why I would sleep with some which I know just 4 months or so, and I have been with my boyfriend now for a year ...

She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) - I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex, could that be true? He says he's getting old and his body doesn't function right, does anyone have a clue whats really going on? ...

If your hymen is broken already, does that mean sex won't hurt as bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - is there a way to tell if ur hymen is broken already? i havent ever had sex but i ride horses (daily) and also run frequently is there a high chance it is? if so does that mean sex will be not hurt as much the first time?? cheers and merry christmas ...

Need some tips on how to give hand jobs!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - I'd like to give my boyfriend a handjob, and we've sorta skipped that step and gone further... but i don't really know how! i mean what do you du? squeeze it finger it what? and what do you do when he cums? help!...

Is it selfish of me to prefer sex when he's wearing a condom.. because he lasts longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - When my boyfriend was using a condom, he would make me come multiple times. After I told him I'm taking the pill, he stopped using condoms. I'm not afraid of STD as I know I'm the only girl he will ever sleep with. My situation is this. I know my ...

Does it hurt the first time you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Does it hurt the first time you have sex? I'm ready for sex but will it be umbearably painful?...

Am I selfish because I didn't have sex with him when he wanted it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - I decided to end my 3 year relationship with my boyfriend because i felt we weren't getting anywhere etc.He txt me asking for me to see him before he goes away for 2 months to the middle east as he's a service man in the RAF.I went to meet him ...

He's got much more experience than me so I'm scared I won't impress.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - hi I'm 17 and I've been realy close with this lad I really like more than anyone I have met and he feels the same! we have been seeing each other for about 2months now and he's quite expericanced I hardly am! I want to do things with him but im ...

My girlfriends Period is late, could it just be a normal change ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - My girlfried and I just had sex for the first time we are both 24yrs old. I use protection and when i getting ready to relase i pulled out and she help me out and after i checked to make sure the condom wasnt broken it was fine. my girlfrie...

I've tried everything but...I can't get her to orgasm! Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

20 December 2006 (M) - i cant get her to have an orgasm and ive tried almost everything, until she doesnt want to experiment anymore, so im wondering if anyone had any tips from a helping hand....

I'm scared I may have gotten an STD..and I'm worried about going to a clinic. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - i had unprotected sex a lil while back and im scared iv caught somthing and im scared to go 2 a clinic plz help ...

I have premature ejaculation and it ended a relationship already. Any advice on how I can prevent it from happening again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

20 December 2006 (M) - Hello there, after 2 years of being single I have just started seeing a great girl who I really like and I think she feels the same about me, but even though everything in the early stages is going great I already have the relationship doomed as I ...

The first time was great! Or so I thought... I think she posted on here about not liking it - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

20 December 2006 (M) - I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time 2 wks ago. It was my first time ever and i thought it was great, and so did she.......or so I thought. But i found a question on this website and im pretty certain it was from her(she uses this site ...

The only thing holding us together is sex - and I always cry afterwards.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - My relationship is not good. The only thing that is holding us together is the sex. I feel like crap because of this. Yet sometimes I still want to have sex and we do it, most of the time it's just to satisfy his needs (bc its all we ever do ...

Im 19, Took a vow of celibacy from birth due to religion, now I wonder is an orgasm worth the wait!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - Im 19 and have taken the vow of celibacy sice i was born as it is my religion. This means i have never had sex which means i've never orgasmed. I wonder what it feels like and if it is worth the wait. please can you help me and answer my question...

I Checked up on her conversations with this other guy, Im now worried thats she gonna leave me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - What Should I Do? Iv been with my girlfriend now for a year and a month, i love her to bits - she is amazin in everyway. However one or two problems have risen and in iv done some things im not proud of. To start with im 21 and shes 17, we ra...

We had sex..no condom-now my period is 3 days late! Am I pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Well my and my boyfriend had sex without a condom but he didnt ejaculate or anything but my period was suppose to start 3 to 4 days ago! Could be pregnant or am i over reacting? Please Answer As Soon As Possible!...