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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i cant get her to have an orgasm and ive tried almost everything, until she doesnt want to experiment anymore, so im wondering if anyone had any tips from a helping hand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): women have orgasms? who knew
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Making a woman have an orgasm can be become an obsession with a man and has contributed to ruining two relationships in my life (though not the sole reason). I didn't even know how to have an orgasm until I was about 34 and although my first husband and I were soulmates in every other respect, he accused me of being frigid in his frustration and feeling a failure because I never had an orgasm. I could still want sex and enjoy it, but if I didn't go into raptures as so often seen in stupid TV and films, he perceived our sex as not being good enough. His focus on this left me feeling a failure and instead of sex just being a tender and close moment of caring and love, it became destructive. My second relationship was so obsessed with masturbation that it sickened me. All he wanted was to make me 'come' and I began to hate him near me as it was not love but a challenge to him. Billy Connelly is quite honest and humorous about such issues on one of his videos as he laughs that his wife Pamela can take 'hours' to get there. So what! Sex should be love and sharing pleasure and orgasm is OK if you do and can still be OK if you don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): 85% of women never experience orgasms through sex alone. most women need clitoral stimulation. use ur hands or pelvic bone to rub during sex. remember the G-spot inside a women is about and inch an a half, and u can feel it. most of the time it doesnt work, so dont think its u. its hard and u may both need to work harder at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Here's a great site on sex: allsexadvice.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): Have you asked her if she herself gives herself an orgasm? if she answers yes then get her to show you. if you preform oral sex, do the alphabet with your tongue, apparently the shapes of the letters will hit the right spot, if you get to Z go back to A. works for me.
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