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writes: Im 19 and have taken the vow of celibacy sice i was born as it is my religion. This means i have never had sex which means i've never orgasmed. I wonder what it feels like and if it is worth the wait. please can you help me and answer my question's
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): I confused by this question!!! I always thought the vow of celibacy was to do with the fact that you wanted to save the 1st time for the person that you love and were going to spend the rest of your life with, i don't see what that has to do with an orgasm? Many people go through there whole life never experiencing an orgasm but the experience the joy of making love with a man who loves and respects them. a man that they know is the only man who has a had the privalege of such a special and spiritual experience. Really it shouldn't be a question of orgasm, you can achieve that by yourself through self masturbation (you don't need a man for that)!!! It should be the question do you respect yourself and do you want to save your 1st time for someone special or just go out and have sex with the 1st random bloke that looks your way. I have always deceided on who i should sleep with by one very important question.... there is a chance that you could fall pregnant to this man, if this happened could you live with the fact that you would have this man in your life for the rest of your life!!! You decide... Goodluck.
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Yes it is worth the wait. However...I don't mean to disappoint you here but some women even though they've had sex many times never actually experience orgasms. An orgasm for a woman is not automatic and it is not guaranteed. It doesn't matter how good the guy is, some women just never get there. Don't give up your religion. Especially not for an orgasm. lol. It is what you believe in and I would encourage you to wait and keep following your religion.
One question, actually two... Since you've never had an orgasm does that mean that you've never masturbated either? Or is that against your religion too? If not you should try it (if you want to) and then you'll know what an orgasm is like without actaully having sex. But then again masturbaion is kind of like sex so...I guess you'll just have to wait. How long do you plan to wait for anyway?
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