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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Does this mean that I am pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - what are the early signs of pregnancy? i felt very sick and run down a few hours after i had sex and went to be sick a few times but nothing came up. i also had stomach cramps a day later. does this mean that i am pregnant?...

Pregnant and struggling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I'm 31 years old. I've ben with my boyfriend just 5 months and I'm 9 weeks pregnant. Antibiotics interfered with the pill. I'm scared all the time, tired, sad. I think I love him but I want space. He wants to move in together. I am sometimes snappy ...

Should I still go to the clinic to be on the safe side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago. i went to the clinic but they cannot supply the morning-after pill until tomorrow (which would be the third day after). he cummed in the same condom more than once when we were having sex and although i ...

Could be pregnant but can't afford a test

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a ...

Pregnant with ex boyfriends baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years. But last year we had some problem. So we cheated on each other. Early this year we decided to end our relationship because it wasn't working. One month later i found out i was pregnant. So...

What are the early signs of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - what are the very early i.e.1st or second week symptoms of pregnancy. ...

I really want a baby!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...

Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...

Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...

I'm pregant and want an abortion, but I'm scared to tell my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Im 19 years old and took a pregnancy test and it was positive. im not ready to have this child nor would my boyfriend but i just found out 2 days ago and not sure when or how to bring it up let alone tell him. what should i do? I am scared that i...

I think I might be pregnant but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Well okay, here it is... For the last week i have been tears and Jtpt cant stop crying, my male friend had received text message from some strange girl.... Just yesterday i noticed that my period had not net started and it been a week late now.... ...

One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am ...

In my mind I feel I am pregnant but I'm not really sure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hello...i have a question about whether or not i could be pregnant....I have had unprotected sex several times in this month of may. I usually tend to have irregular periods. I began my period of May 20 in which was the same day I also had had sex. ...

Worried about whether I could be pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - please help me...i am worried weather i am pregnent or not? i have sex without using condom with my boyfriend...but he said the sperm didnt go in...he just let on my body and even i saw that but my fear is before my period starts my breast swells ...

Could my sister be pregnant even though she's on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - My sister is on birth control she has been taking her pills faithfully and she had unprotected sex her period should have started already but it didnt she just spotted could she be pregnant even thought she is on birth control...

How reliable are home pregnancy tests?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I'm having a problem af now 2 months late I made a docs appointment for June 2 or 3rd I cant remember But I took a number of hpts and the epts were very faint while the first response showed negative I wanted to know how many pregnancies weren't ...

Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be ...

One child, one on the way, do not love each other, should we stay together for the sake of the children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I'm in a difficult situation - as I suppose everyone else here is as well. here goes: I'm 28 and in a relationship of 4 years (we are not married but have lived the life of a married couple for ~3 1/2 years). We have a 2 1/2 year old and one on t...

Does how much you gain during pregnancy reflect the size of your baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I was 110 lbs. before pregnancy, and now at 8 months I am 135 lbs. Does how little I have gained mean that my baby will be small? The majority of the weight is what I have gained in the last 2-3 months (if that matters). So what I'm really asking ...

Should I tell him I want a baby?

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28 May 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and I will be 21 in bout 6 months. I am in college and I am in a 2 year relationship. We are happy and in love. He brought me a promise/ engagement ring about 6 months ago. We want to get married but we have to plan it. We are not ...

Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?...

Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok I been with this guy for almost 3years n I thnk he's cheating on me he did in the past and cuz he did it I did it bad cuz it hurt. But I think he is doing it again The reason why I say is cuz the past 2days he called me late n he said and yest...

He starts his day by looking at other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 24 and my bf is 25. We have been together for 10 months. 6 months into the relationship after he rejected my advances, I walked in on him getting off to porn. We have lived together for the whole 10 months we have been together and apa...

Pregnancy tests keep coming back negative...will only a blood test work for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i missed a period three weeks ago and a week i went to a clinic for a urine test, it came back negative. A few days later i took a HPT, negative again and a week later i took another HPT negative again. I went into hospital today and they too...

Should I take another pill after having unprotected sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - hellpp! last night i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend..however, im on the pill, and tuesday (yesterday) i took my last pill. so today i stopped for the 7 day break (if your familiar with how the pill works.) should take an extra pill today...

13 years old and pregnant. Unsure of what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - This will be quite long so lease bear with me. I came from a good loving family and has good reputation. My mom, my aunts, all the ladies in my family were married first before sex. Except for one, my aunt who was left by the man who didn't know ...

Rumors! But am I the father or is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 May 2009 (M) - Here's the deal. My wife is pregnant. We've been together for a year, and for the most part, it's been a good year. Like most people, she has her share of history, and I have mine. While this may sound like some of that, it's really not, at least I ...

I'm starting to wonder about my boyfriend after his "jokey" ways.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hi, i just found out im pregnant, im 19 and not in the best economic position. ive not been with my boyfriend for long but its grown into a great relationship and feels like we've been together a very long time. We've really been getting along and ...

Possible miscarriage? Brown slimey stuff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - please help! i finished my period last week. A couple days later i started to discharge dark brown slimy stuff. I dont know what it is. I just keeps coming out and i dont know if it is a possible miscarriage or what?? someone please help MOD NO...

Got pregant through cheating - how do I tell my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend now i got pregnant for a next man how can i tel mt friend that ...

Can I be pregnant.... I gave him a hand job and he fingered me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - ok so ... i gave a guy a hand job and he cummed on my hands .. so i wiped then off .. and he put his penis back in his pants . he could have got a lil on his hands.. but they were dry and so he fingered me he didnt stick his finger in me .. he just ...

Trying to get pregnant..need advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm trying to get pregnant and I started my period on May 20th and I currently still have it and it usually last about 7 days, when should I try to start conceiving?...

My boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant, but he didnt wear a condom so arent we both equally to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant but as much as i should have asked him to put a condom on, he didnt think to either. I'm mature about it and i understand that we were both absolute imbociles and we BOTH made the mistake ...

I keep forgetting to get my ID so that I can sign up to get on the public dole rather than get a job, and my boyfriend is really bugging me about it. He wants me to start getting welfare as soon as possible and doesn't believe that I just forgot to g

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says he needs me, cares about me and loves me. We were getting on just fine until about a week ago and now hes suddenly turned into an arsehole. He asked me to move in after the first time we met and i accepted, we both really liked ...

I took the morning after pill 2 weeks after having sex. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant. I had unprotected sex 2 weeks on Saturday and on Monday I took the morning after pill. The lady who supplied it told me I was at a very high risk of already being pregnant as I had just finished my period. She ...

His greatest fear is getting a female pregnant..so why ask to ejaculate inside her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - A man's perspective would be most helpful, but if any women have any understanding of this as well, I'll take whatever you have to say-- Why would a man repeatedly fantasize about and ask to come in a woman during unprotected sex, when he also say...

I had sex with my ex...I think I might be pregnant. I need your 'compassionate' advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant, Me and my ex boyfriend had sex 2 weeks on Saturday but I started taking my birth control pill (I know BIG MISTAKE)but now I don't know if I may be pregant. We did not use protection but I went and got the ...

I am a married Indian woman, pregnant by a married black man who wants me to divorce my husband., what would be best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I am a twenty three year old married Indian woman. My husband has been working overseas for the last two years. He last visited me in November 2007, when we spent two weeks together. I spent my birhday in December 2007 with my parents where I met ...

No protection, change of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday but without protection.my periods date is coming nearer,one day after,ie tomorrow.Do i have chances to get pregnant by chance....

Pregnant with boyfriend's child, but attracted more to his best friend, any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I havent been with my boyfriend for very long but we've already fallen madly in love with each other, he's told me i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and i'm really special to him. I know how much he cares about me and loves me and i feel ...

How do they do pregnancy tests at a clinic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Hi there, My Girlfriend found out she was pregnant around 8 weeks ago now and told me she had an abortion 6 weeks ago (she didn't want me there) She said shes had her period a few weeks after the abortion too. I do believe her however this was ...

When would be the best time to tell my guy I might be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Is this the best time to tell him if the test comes back positive? It's been about a week..and no period. I took pregnancy test a few days ago and it showed negative. My boyfriend and I are leaving out of town for the weekend. I will take a preg...

Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes nev...

All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I ...

Condom broke during sex....where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - i had sex and he finished inside me however when he pulled out the condom had a big hole in the middle. This happened two days after my period had ended and im expecting my period the 8th of june. Are my chances really high im very worried and ...

How can I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am really confused as to what I should do? Me and my partner met 3 years ago and were dating for about 1 and a half years then became exclusive. We have been living together for just over a year. It has been difficult at times as he has been away ...

Need advice - Is my husband gay? Desperate for answers.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am posting this personal information in hopes of getting different perspectives on my current situation. I am a 39 year old married woman. I have been married to my husband for almost a year, with him for 3 years. I found out 6 months into...

Sperm donation from a friend or go to the Doctors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - ive been wit my gurlfriend for 3-years.we live together an we want to have a baby.what should i do.i love her so much.so i go to the dr and try it that way.or should i find a frind that will give the sperm?...

Do I end it with my cheating boyfriend when I have raised his baby by another woman as my own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok, where too begin I have been with my boyfriend/ father of my 8 month old child for a 2 years now we have been realy good friends since we were really little we are still young both only 22 but anyways when we first hooked up i kinda became ...

Want to be a dad but too young, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - ok im only 15 but i love this girl with all my heart. we dated once dint work cuz im 2 hours away now im moving with my causins so i can live only 3 miles away from her. i'll be ther in a week an were going to try to date again an i know this time ...