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Pregnant with boyfriend's child, but attracted more to his best friend, any thoughts?

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Question - (22 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I havent been with my boyfriend for very long but we've already fallen madly in love with each other, he's told me i'm the best thing thats ever happened to him and i'm really special to him. I know how much he cares about me and loves me and i feel exactly the same way. We've moved in together, and now i might be pregnant too which is a lot of responsibility so early into the relationship but we're a strong couple and we don't argue, and if we do its over something worthwhile and we don't yell at each other.

The only issue i have is i reaaallly fancy one of his best mates. Every time we're going anywhere i hope that this mate is coming with us because i really love being around him. Whenever i'm upset i always think of him and it brings a massive smile to my face! Everything me and my boyfriend differ on his best mate and me have in common! His friend will say silly things like 'í dont like chocolate'

and everyone else in the room will be disgusted by that but i agree with him! lol.

I have looads in common with him and he realy makes me happy. He sits and stares at me for long amounts of time, i have noticed and asked me if i liked him at one point and i told him noooo dont be silly! And he was like oh thank god! in a realy sort of disappointed, fake way.

Arghh i dont know what to do! I know i can NEVER do anything with him, its an unwritten rule that nothing ever should happen with a friends partner/ex but sometimes i think he makes me more happy than my own bf!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009):

a disaster waiting to happen? plse if you are indeed pregnant, please do not mess up this baby's life or your bf. your bf's bf is off limits. he knows it and you do too.

plse do not mess up. it will riun so many peoples lives.

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