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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Should I let her name our son ayden even if I don't want it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - i just got married and me and my wife r having a baby at first i was scared but now im up for the task but now we r fighting over names if it was a girl we had a name we both liked but we just found out we r having a boy and i like the names ...

Are my nan's tarot predictions correct???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Im 16 and had my period about a week ago, but now im worried im PREGNANT! I keep getting brown discharge in my underwear and feel quite bloated and keep farting a lot. My boobs are sore sometimes, on and off. Im on the contriceptive pi...

Will I have the same problem with my partner as I did with my ex when I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - im 20 just found out that im pregnant by my bf who is in love with me completely.i have a child by my ex boyfriend but whilst pregnant with my first child he cheated on me alot so after my child got over the age of 1 yrs i ended the relationship and ...

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

Is it possible to put your baby in temp. foster care and then claim it back at a more convenient time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi im 15 and i just found out i was pregnant. i know my options, abortion, adoption, or keeping it. i don't want to give my baby up for adoption because i dont think i could handle carrying it for 9 months and then giving it away but if i abort it ...

My ex forced me to have sex with him! How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Please help me.. Last april i had an abortion because i was only fifteen and my current boyfriend was allot older, i was scared he could of got done by the police so we both decided to have an abortion. It was really hard and i was very upset. ...

Does Plan B work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...

My mother in law insists we have a baby when we are not ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Dear all, Im married for a year and half. We love each other a lot. My father inlaw and mother inlaw have come to visit us and they are here for a month. During this time my mother inlaw is insisting me to give birth to a baby and she give a kind of ...

My boyfriend doesn't yet know that I'm pregnant. This is a very tough situation to be in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month and a half now and I've been pregnant with his kid for just as long. I know he's the father because he's the one who took my virginity. I feel like a complete idiot, though, because I'm abou...

Is he trying to get me pregnant again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger ...

The programs on tv just make me want a baby!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when hav...

Boyfriend is a player but talks about starting a family? Whats wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi there....ok I met this guy, realized he is a player, had sex and now we keep it cool, always talking with each other, but knowing that nothing serious will happen. Every time that I am with him, he talks about women, he flits with other women in ...

We need a flat from the housing association, are there age restrictions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in April and basically we can not stay at my parents place or her's. Simple question because I'm not too sure. What age have you got to be to have a single flat for the housing associatio...

I'm pregnant and unsure which path to take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I recently just found out I was pregnant. I had all the period symptoms but it just never came so I took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive. It was devastating, I remained calm and tried not to panic. I told my...

I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the ...

I think I'm pregnant...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i recently just graduated from highschool. I think i might be pregnant but im not sure. Back in novemeber and december i was pregnant but i ended up having a misscarage. And the last time i tested positive when i took a home pregnancy test. My ...

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - OK... Well for the past week now I've suffered (on and off) from feeling nautious and not being hungry, headaches and fatigue. Two people have said something about me being pregnant on my facebook. I've been thinking about babies a lot and took a...

My husband cannot have children and suggested that I sleep with another man so I will get pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My husband cannot have children and he has asked me to consider sleeping with another man to have children. Problem is i do not want to sleep with another man just to have children. Plus i feel it will have a bad effect on our relationship. i feel ...

My girlfriend is pregnant and wants to end our relationship. But I don't want to lose her and our baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 14months and we are not married. she is pregnant with our first child and says she wants out of the relationship because i have been neglecting her, and she suspects i'm having an affair with one of my ...

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant?

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28 July 2009 (F) - i got pregnant with my first child by 18 i am now 20 and pregnant with my second child by a different father and im scared to tell my mum she is a very harsh and scary lady and i dont want the conflict when i tell him.has anyone got any ideas of how ...

How do we tell our families that I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - First off, I'm fifteen years old and pregnant. I just found out today. My boyfriend is sixteen years old and we have a pretty rocky relationship - but all is well for the most part. My question is I don't know how to tell my family and espec...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...

Missed two pills! Was I fertile when we had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - me and my bf had sex last week and i am on the pill and i missed two days of it and i took one on the day but i dont know whether i was fertile he pulled himself out before him... and i am scared he cummed in side me i am due on my period in a week ...

What will happen to my boyfriend if I get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were ...

Hormones playing about or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hiya, I'm quite confused because I always get my periods and there regular. Im on the pill at the moment however when I came off it for my period to start I got a tricle of blood and now nothing. I've been waiting for it to start again however it...

Hoping for a positive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm 23 yrs. old and i'm thinking I might be pregnant again. I have a two yr. old and have recently had a missed abortion. My fiance' and I have been trying for another one and I had a period in the beginning of last month and at the end. This is ...

She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back a...

Can urine pregnant tests be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - im currently doing my grade 12 this year and i have a problem which is unabling me to study, i had a one night stand 3 months ago .after that i been getting my periods which only lasts for two or a day im now having this stomach cramps after ...

Does anyone know why my periods are so irregular?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've never had regular periods. They usually are regular for about 3 months and then they come on a couple of days later. However, this month it's slightly different. I'm two weeks late. I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative. ...

Great marriage so what's my problem?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - The first time I wrote my long, drawnout alcohol-induced (couldn't sleep) description of my problem, it didn't post, so I'm going to give the Clifs Notes version now (just looking for general advice/words of wisdom): *Married, happily, for over 5 y...

When would I have conceived and when is the best time to take pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question (MY APOLOGYS!), but I don't know much on pregnancy, by the way I am eighteen years old. I last had my period of June 28th for about four days. After the four days I had unprotected sex about three time...

Help, I need advice! Who is the father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I have a problem I am 24 weeks pregnant and I don't know who the father is. I had sex with my husband on jan 22 and my ex husband on jan 28th. I think i ovulation date was on jan 26th. I know scientist say girl sperm swim slower and live longer ...

Could the symptoms of due - periods, actually be pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been feeling like I'm going to get my period for three days now, but it hasn't come yet. I've had cramps in my legs and my lower stomach and a fever. I usually only get this the day it does come, so I'm confused on why it hasn't. Is t...

What will happen when she finds out I'm pregnant with her brothers baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - my best friend has polycycstic ovaries which makes it difficult for her to have children she isnt happy that i am engaged to her younger brother.shes always wanted children and said if she found out i have a child with her brother she wont see us ...

How do I tell my family I'm pregnant again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i had my first child at 19 and telling my family was a nightmare so im slightly concerned on how i can make it easier when i tell them this time.i have a new partner now who i have been with for 1 year we are engaged and iv just found out im ...

Which pregnancy test do I buy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Well hey everyone, before you anwser I just want ADVICE, not your criticism. Thanks. I'm 14 and I have irregular periods, like sometimes its it is in the beginning of a month and then at the end or middle. I had sex for the very first time on J...

I guess what I'm asking is... what are the chances that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hey Guys, I know ur gonna think i'm rather idiotic having done this but please could you answer this question and hopefully set my mind at rest. Serveral weeks ago i had sex with my boyfriend however i let him put his penis inside me without ...

Is it unlikely that I'm pregnant because I'm on meds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I've had a urinary tract infection for about a week. I went to the doctor on monday and got medicine for it. It is now saturday. Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex, but we didn't use a condom because he forgot to bring one and i didn't have any.. ...

How do I tell my new employer that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I am happily married and my husband is a great guy. I just had a pregancy test and it is positive, however I am a bit worried because we did not plan to have a baby for another year or two and I have just got a job offered for a week and I am ...

I don't think the day-after pill is an option! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi well i recently had an abortion 2 weeks and 2 days ago to be exact, it was the hardest thing i have had to do but i couldnt keep it because i am a law student and cant get the time off to look after a baby at this point of time in my life.. ...

What is the godmother's role?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - heyy... i jus wanted 2 ask for sum advice.. mi best friend is 15 and is pregnant.. it wasnt her fault!!! ive sed im goin 2 be there 4 her no matter wat!! i wil always love her as a friend. shes asked me to be its godmother.. i jus wanted to ...

I'm not planning to have sex anytime soon, I just want to understand the timing of the cycle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - i'm not currently sexually active, and i saw something somewhere about what time during the cycle or whatever. so what time during the cycle is the best time to have sex ? even with protection, and what if you took birth control, would you do it ...

Would there be a chance of my being pregnant from this experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if I could be pregnant? We had sex with a condom, he pulled out with the condom on, took the condom off outside of me, and came on my inner thigh. I wiped it off immediately, but i'm not sure if some sperm could have traveled inside.....

I'm 14, the baby's father is 17, and I don't want him to go to jail

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid,, Im 14 and possibly pregnant. My problem is I don't want my bf going to jail, he 17. My mom knows and is fine with it, his mom knows im 14 and she is also fine with it. IF I am pregnant (an accident I promise) then I would have the b...

Should I leave my fiance even though I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I thought I was going to marry my best friend, but now I feel like I am making a huge mistake by committing my life to my fiance. "John" and I were as close as any friends could be- we worked together, spent every day together and hung out in soci...

If I get pregnant, he says he'll do a runner! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and my boyfriend keeps telling me he thinks i'm pregnant. first time was when i felt sick, he said i was pregnant. second was when i started my period a day before, he went mental saying i'm pregnant etc, and loads more sh*t like that. ...

14 and pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Im 14 and possibly pregnant. I just want to know how most dads react? My dad is violent and im scarred he wuld hit me. ...

I found out I'm pregnant and he says he can't even be a friend to me right now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm really at a stand still at this point in my life and I just need some advice.I started seeing a guy about a year ago, this is the first man i've been with in eight years.We are not in a relationship but we do or I should say did things as if we ...

Pregnant with twins, but my boyfriend doesn't like the names I've picked out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I am twenty four years old and I discovered about four months ago I was pregnant and then I discovered I was pregnant with twins! I was just estastic and so was my boyfriend of two years. We have had so much fun preparing there rooms and going ...

Any ways to tell my baby's gender before my ultrasound??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Hello All! Okay this is kind of a silly question and its basically just because Im impatient due to excitement. Im 13 - 14 weeks pregnant and I have an ultrasound on the 14th of august to see how they baby is!!! But it also happens that the doctor ...