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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi there....ok I met this guy, realized he is a player, had sex and now we keep it cool, always talking with each other, but knowing that nothing serious will happen. Every time that I am with him, he talks about women, he flits with other women in front of me, etc...It's getting me bored already...I asked him: why u always talk about sex? and he said that he is not like that, only with me...that I send him some kind vibes...WTF!? But sometimes he gets serious and talks about him wanting to form a family, etc...What's wrong? He wants me to be jealous? Is he testing me? Is he only playing around?
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (30 July 2009):
what is the problem here you no he is a player and up to no good then why do you need advice. You can be his friend all day long but he isn't ready to settle down and he maybe just telling you what you want to hear. Why would you even consider having sex with him, he may have all type of STD's who needs that drama honey he may be fine but it is not worth it. I would play it cool and see what he be talking about and make him prove himself to you. He may want all those things he tells you but just doesn't no how to get it and it is easy being a player it is harder to be a one women man don't you think. Keep it smart baby girl...
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