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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend visits local dating sites? Is he bored with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - So one day my boyfriend asks me to go onto his computer and check to see if he had gotten any new emails, so I went onto his computer and checked it for him. Also he had his internet up and so I just clicked on it. I noticed that his history ...

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with...

Hard-to-get or hard-to-pay-attention or just plain ol' uninterested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I finally caved and put up an online profile at the behest of my friends who swear by internet dating....and low and behold, I found someone! We are in related professions, attended college in the same area and now live in the same town, we have ...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

I met him online, does he just see me as a sex fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up ba...

He is eager to recreate the one night stand, is this normal interest? Surprised by the repeated invitations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back at mine and had the most amazing ...

I feel guilty that during the while he left me alone I had online sex chats, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi guys.wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago....

I'm beginning to lose the urge to want to be intimate with my boyfriend of 7 years, and I find myself attracted to a young lady in the net! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been living together for the past 7 years. i love him, and am very used to have him in my life, but i'm beginning to lose the urge to want to get intimate with him. we're very busy with our work...sometimes we don't even ...

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex ...

We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...

My mate wants to talk to this boy to find out is he likes me, but he is never online.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hey ok i like this lad and its getting really confusing on whether he likes me or not. My mate who reckons that this lad lieks me has got his msn and stuff and we have come up with ways to see if we can egt him to admit it to my mate. But there two ...

A girl keeps messaging my husband - should I be suspicious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupids, my hubby was on facebook when a chat popped up from 1 of his friends saying 'can u chat?'. He quickly got rid of the message and acted like he didnt care. A few mins later his messenger rang as it was this girl again but he just ...

He deleted me after he found out I was his next door neighbor! Do I just leave him alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i really like my next door neighbour and i have done for nearly a year now, last sunday i spoke to him for the first time on msn but he didnt know it was me and we were speaking for 4 hours and we swapped numbers then when he found out ...

Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every ni...

Why did my online boyfriend delete my photos on his myspace profile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i have an american boyfriend, and i am from philippines. im 24 and he's 20. our relationship is still going on but always argue with something. im just really curious, after 5 months he deleted my photos on his myspace profile. but still says there ...

Things have gone downhill since we last met! What is happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - ok i met this guy about three months ago we chat all the time whether it online or on the phone and we txt now and again.. we have lots in common even play the same online games..he came up for a visit a few months ago and things were good we ...

I would like it to be more than an online friendship.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i've been speaking to this guy online for alomst 2 years, and earlier this year he told me he liked me, i like him too but i said it would be too complicated because of the distance and our personal circumstances. I'm 20 years old and he is 24, ...

What determines if a guy replies to an email or not? (several questions inside)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - What determines whether a great guy friend replies back to a woman's email the same day. Whether he sees her email and then replies to her after 2 days. What is it when a guy sees 2 emails from a woman in 10 days and decides to reply to both of ...

He told me to move on, but I'm finding it hard and I'm sure he still cares.

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20 April 2008 (F) - last september i got chatting to a guy online that i met through a dating site we eventually met and have done six times as he works abroad and isnt in the country much. Anyway wen we first met we met three times which two of the times we stayed in ...

I pardoned the fact he engaged in sexual talks with women online, but I feel insecure and jealous now, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Just before my boyriend left to return to his home country, i found he was talking sexually to women on internet. He begged me to give him another chance, and i dont want to lose him over that...however, im insecure and jealous now and cant trust ...

Please help me help my sister!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Heya. My sister, Steph (16) met a guy on the net last may, and she is obsessed with him and wants to meet him! Im really worried that he will turn out to be someone other than what he is saying he is! Please help me help my sister!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...

I worried about my internet boyfriend emailing other girls! What do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we met on the internet and in person only once.Recently he asked me to check his mail on the internet while he was away and I found a message from him to another girl and he was wanting her ...

Should I hang on to my online guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto thi...

How do I decide my feelings about this MSN relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - right there this lad who i know likes me and we talk a lot on msn but when he rang me the other day it felt so awkward i think its because i am not sure about my feelings towards him will we only ever have an msn relationship and how can i decide on ...

How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ...

My online guy is flying to come see me! I'm so nervous, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - i met someone online and we have gotten very close and we have everything in common....and he is planning to fly over to where i live and come meet me for the very first time...and i am nervous...what should i do please help me!...

Met him online and we've spoken to meet in person. Problems are his age and long distance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - I'm 25 and gay, and I met a guy online, who I really connected with. The problems are, he's 18, and lives halfway across the country. We've spoken of meeting, and I think it's mutual that we both want to. I'm still apprehensive, due to his age, but ...

Online he really does seem like my dream man but I’m not sure if I should accept his invitation to meet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - There’s this man I really like and I haven't even met him yet!! We talk to each other through email and he seems so witty and it's like his personality shines through his writing. We first began contact in December because he sent an email to me b...

Part of me feels I should telephone to explain, but the other part wants him to pursue me... any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Met a guy on an internet chat site. We've been in contact for nearly six months,nothing heavy, extremely casual.But due to his work commitments and the distance it has been difficult to meet up. Today he texted me and said he was going to be coming ...

He disgusts me so much! All I see is an old pervert instead of the guy I fell in love with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I'm having some guy issues. I'm going out with a guy who I met online and I have been dating him for 4 1/2 years. It didn't occur to me that he would ever lie to me about his age. But it all started when my mom didnt believe me when I told her he ...

How do I engage in phone sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - hello to all!!!i need help...uhm its about phone and text sex....how do i do it??how do i start??how do i know where to stop??i need all the help i can get from men and ladies.pretty please..tell me EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT PHONE AND TEXT ...

My guy met 2 girls at the same time and dated us both. He chose her and broke my heart. Why is he contacting me now though?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 April 2008 (F) - hi there - reallly needing some advice! met a man on an online dating website. We went out for three months - not long some might say but we saw each other every weekend even though he has a son from a previous relationship (which broke up 2.5 years ...

Is there something funny going on with my internet guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 April 2008 (F) - To start with i have met this guy online 7 months ago. Since then we always send each other, emails and I'ms. We talk like 3 to 4 times a week.We haven't met personally yet coz he lives in another state.He told me everything about him and I am to ...

It's hard for me to break with him because, he is making me feel so happy even through internet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Iam in love with a married man We meet each other online, it started as friendship, then we touch in each other deep understanding. He is making me so happy although we did not meet because he is living in other country. I am so lonely, and at...

What do dearcupid readers think about online dating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - I get very nervous around girls, and thats why I prefer online dating; I was just wondering what the readers of this site think about online dating?...

Dating, but his online dating profile is still active. When is the right time to ask how things are going with us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy I met online for about 2 months now, and need some advice on how to proceed. I was in a long term relationship before and am out of practice with all this dating stuff!! So we've been seeing each other for 2 months and get...

I feel there is no affection there anymore, or am I reading the wrong signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - I need help, I can no longer tell what my feelings tell me. I have a GF she's beautiful and completely devoted to me but we have had a brake from before because things didn't go too well. Well anyway we go on msn and she would always say "HI BABE!!" ...

We got on so well then she text me to say she wasn't ready to be in a relationship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

7 April 2008 (M) - Hello all, I have been using a singles website, and met someone in December on there, started by only chatting on im, then she asked for my mobile number so we then text each other, then home numbers. We met up for a couple of days, I stayed i...

What should I do and what are your opinions on his MSN "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

7 April 2008 (F) - Hey.. I have been going out with my partner for 2 years next month, and up to now, its been up and down (the relationship). We used to go out for car drives so we could relax together, go to the cinema, go out for something to eat, be adv...

Does this guy want to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - Last Saturday we hung out for like 7 1/2 hours (watched movies, ate pizza, talked, etc), last night for 6 hours (watched a movie, talked, did stuff on the Internet). Then the day before yesterday when I said something to him and really overreacted ...

Met him on a marriage site, now he wants to marry me but I've never met him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - hello I am a woman 29 years of age. I met this man on a marriage site we live in 2 different countries we chatted, sent pictures, talk on the phone, I talked to his family. And we found that we have many things in common the problem is that ...

Am I just a shameless flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 April 2008 (?) - I have a problem ... maybe mental problem ...or just a shameless flirt ... who knows I am madly in love with a boy I've never met in person! I really like a girl that's a really good friend (she knows but I told her I loved the guy so she backe...

Not sure if I would like him in person, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

6 April 2008 (F) - I have a question. My boyfriend lives across the country. I have never met him in person. We have been talking/dating for about 4-5 months. The problem is he isn't my type, at all. He wants piercings and a mohawk and punk-style clothes. Which is ...

He denied having joined a dating site during our break, though I know he has, which makes me insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

3 April 2008 (F) - hi. i read my bofys emails and found out that when we had an argument and split up for a few days, a couple of weeks ago, he joined an internet dating site. I dont think he has had any contact with any girls on the site since joining but it has ...

Harmless fun on internet and my girlfriend suddenly doesn't love me. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

3 April 2008 (M) - Ok, i've been with a girl for half a year now, I love her so much. I was on msn buzzin and talking to some girl. When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it. My girlfriend found out and yeah, I didn't mean ...

My BF has been visiting sex chat rooms... should I be alarmed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - Hi every one. Today i was on my boyfriend of two years computer. When i wen to type a website in the address box a list of previous websites came up. There was a single chat room one and one like face party but you meet people on there for sex. I ...

I don't mind him viewing porn online, but am I right in drawing the line at cybersex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

2 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my current husband for almost 6 years. I don't mind him watching porn, and I don't care if he masterbates, but cybersex, or even thinking about signing up, worries me. My friend found out her husband was doing it, and actually, she ...

Love Over The Internet: Possible Or Not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Here I have two problems. I'm in love with a guy. Trouble is, we've never met. We met over the internet. We can talk about anything and everything and see each other on webcam a lot. We aren't going to meet until I'm legally an adult, which is a ...