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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is this normal male behavior or is this just bad behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I am a newlywed. I have always known my hubbie is a friendly guy, especially to women but I think he has really crossed a line with his behavior this last week. He says his behavior is normal for men and I need to get over it. This is the second ...

Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...

My husband's anger issues are worse now that he's ill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. Im asian, my husband is german, we came from diffirent culture, id adjust to much to his culture. My husband is a cancer patient. We just find it out two months ago. He is normally loud and aggressive before but its more so worst ...

My wife disgusts me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - Hello all! I am almost 41 years old and I have been with my wife since 2001. There are still some things that thrill me about her, but often I wonder what I ever saw in her. She is lazy, drinks too much liquor, has let her good looks go, and a...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

Hpv in a long term relationship. Is cheating involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman. I have been with my husband for four years. I have had regular Pap smears my entire life. I have been tested for hpv every single year since I was 28. My hpv tests have always come back negative. Last month, I ...

How do you confront a liar cheating wife with the facts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - . My wife does not know I know she's cheated. I have all the proof I need and it's causing me to distant my personal life from her. I see my wife stressing over me pulling away from her, she appears to not understand why I stopped showing her ...

Strip Clubs and the Committed Man....how often it TOO often??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Should my boyfriend/husband be going to the strip club?It seems to be a common question women have. But my question is about frequency, is it really acceptable for a man in a committed relationship to go to the strip club not every now and then ...

Why does my husband call me names and threaten me and then apologize?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - My husband is in jail for domestic violence and going to get deported. When I visit him he calls me names and threatens me and makes comments about other women in the room to try and make me feel jealous. After the visit he will call me and ...

He stopped talking about this female coworker, what does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Ever since my husband had learned his younger female coworker was getting a divorce, it was non-stop talk about her for a good year and a half. I would hear she is attractive, why would someone divorce a beautiful woman like her. I would hear ...

I think my husband has a crush at work and its making me uncomfortable

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Would anyone else think anything of this? Or am I just being paranoid? My husband of 6 years has recently started a new job. He's been there about 2 months now. He works in a team of 7 others, one Man and six women. For the past 3 weeks he h...

I feel like my marriage was a mistake

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2117 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - I've only been married 5 months, but I feel like I made a mistake. There are a lot of "factors" to this story that I feel are important to really give you a perspective, so it might be a long, convoluted post, but I'll do my best to get the point ...

My husband had emotional affairs and I left him! What are my rights?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - After years of marriage I found out that my husband had emotinal affairs in the skype,chating,calling,and meetings with his ""women friends.Maybe not only emotional only. He intoduced me a woman 2 years earlier,and she started sending me thank yo...

What's happened to me? My desire to work has lessened, I'm less happy than I used to be, I'm not interested in the same activities I used to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - I've noticed something about myself in the last few years that I don't like. My desire to work is lessening. I can't hold a job for more than 6 months, because I just lose all interest in it. I've had a pattern for the last 3 years now: going to ...

My husband wont discuss our problems because I might get upset!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I have been thinking about leaving my husband. I was on a business trip recently and enjoyed my time away, however, I missed my husband. It has been a few days since my return and already I can't stand being back. He is unbearable to be around. He ...

How do I stop basing my life around him and his visits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 and half yrs on and off , we broke up last time In November last year although it was just like any other time I imagined where we would reconcile after a few weeks or months . This time though I found out just after Xmas he ...

I want my lazy husband to leave my house but he wont go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - hey I'm 39 years old married to a man who is 36 years old we been married for 10 years and have to children together I had two children's from my own things were good until my husband lost his job since tat he become different he don't wanna find a ...

My husband throws temper tantrums every day!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - The problem I have is that my husband regularly has pointless, angry outbursts and I'm the only one around to hear them. In front of other people he's as quiet as a lamb. We love each other. He tells me I'm beautiful and that he loves me e...

When I told him "no" he sent all our correspondence to my husband! Why would he do such a thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - He Was All I Ever Wanted.. Okay this is really long story I really need advice not commended for my actions or thus confession. It started 3 years ago I began work and myself and a colleague started to develop feelings but never acted on them. W...

Need a place to turn in a marriage where I feel like I have no choice

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

12 March 2014 (M) - My stepdaughter has always been a source of problems, particularly when it comes to her relationship with her mother: whatever stepdaughter wants, stepdaughter gets. Over the near 17 years of my marriage I've been mostly able to afford these ext...

I'm a wounded warrior with a broken heart. Advice, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

11 March 2014 (M) - I been married 3yrs this September, im a wounded warrior i have some medical and mental issues. The wife and i had an argument i left at 2am to stay with my brother a week or two goes by and she claims she gonna start to see other people. Bout two ...

He wants me to sell my home and buy a bigger house but his drinking concerns me

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - Hello there - Am after some advice. I am 40 years old and am living with my partner and our 6 month old baby. To cut things short my partner has always struggled with alcohol but is a loving partner and a wonderful Dad and never drinks at ...

My husband is still friends with his ex-lover who he had an affair with and nearly broke up her marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - My husband is still friends with his ex-lover (I'll call her Amber). When we married 8 years ago, I knew he was good friends with a couple in our neighborhood, particularly the wife (Amber) with whom he shared an common interest in golf. Once...

My wife would rather talk to guys on webcam sites than come to bed with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

6 March 2014 (M) - I have been married for 16 years and while our sex life hasn't always been great in the last 18 months my wife would rather talk to guys on a webcam site than come to bed with me. I try to talk to her about it but she just says it's a bit of fun a...

Should I try to make our marriage work or just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

6 March 2014 (M) - I am torn on what I should do. Here is some background information first. I am active duty military, my wife and I are both 24, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4. We don't have any kids and I am currently deployed. Recently my wife ...

I am so low on my fiance's priority list we havent met for a month!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

4 March 2014 (F) - Dead Cupid, I'm in a long term relationship. Engaged last year, will be married next year. I don't know if it's a phase? But I'm starting to get sick and tired of my fiancé's attitude. He always pioritise his friends and will always second me...

Should I tell his wife her husband is sleeping with my wife??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

3 March 2014 (M) - My wife cheated on me a few times then suddenly moved out leaving me with my 2 daughters who are still in school. The anger was eating at me so bad that I went to a counselor to keep myself under control, I wanted to make my wife's life as miserabl...

We cancelled the wedding and I am now stuck in limbo.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

2 March 2014 (F) - is there any hope? I live with and had been planning to marry a loving exciting, thoughtful, generous man who I adore. He also will do anything for my children aged 21 and 18. Financially he has given everything he owns. The problem is that ...

Husband won't have sex with me until I lose more weight, but because I'm not begging him for intimacy he thinks I must be cheating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

1 March 2014 (F) - Hope someone can help. Here goes: I am currently on a weight loss journey. Though I have already lost 20 lbs, I am still pretty obese. My husband told me that he loves me but doesn't want to have sex with me until I reach my goal weight. Ok, fine , ...

Work, sex, friendships and a web of secrets and lies.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

1 March 2014 (F) - A guy I work with is a player. He used to see my friend about 2 years ago. She still liked him. We all work together. He built a friendship with me. It quickly turned into constant attention and he pursued me for about 3 months. We got really close ...