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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Married now and sex life has bombed, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Been married a month, living together 6 months and dating 3 years prior to that. Fabulous sex life until now. It's like as soon as we were married he wasn't interested. There are no worries now except for his job but they're the same worries as b...

My husband's chasing another woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed ...

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due ...

What is the deal with my husband and this strange woman?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a newlywed. 6 months married. I am starting to see some really off things about my husband and I want to get some advice or opinions from others. I love my husband, he has some wonderful qualities but I think I may have made a mistake in ...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

His worry over bills is getting in the way of intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - OK, so here goes. I am a 32 yr old professional, husband's 29, we've been married for 2 years now. We're middle class, life is good (in terms of friendship, employment, money etc.), we earn enough to live on However, in the last few weeks the sexu...

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

This question has 66 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

Love or sex? What do you do when they aren't a package deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3862 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I need suggestions/opinions please! I am 24, my husband is 32. We have been married about a year and a half, together for 5. He has always had a large collection of porn and used it frequently and I was fine with that. My dilemma is this: for many ...

My husband is having an affair. Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I discovered when I was 8 months pregnant that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover in a text message and was assured by both that it would not continue. I had several times where I caught him texting her but her ...

Suspect she's cheating but she just gets mad if I ask. Is it time to bail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - I have been married for almost 25 years. I can't honestly say I ever really loved my wife, i believe at the time I married her, being young, it was more for financial security than anything. In the early years things were okay, we had 2 sons, had ...

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything...

He knows I have a terrible relationship with my husband so why has he suddenly gone cold on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I've been in a horrible relationship for too long but don't want to leave because of my son. When he had finished his gcses in July then I WILL be leaving. My boyfriend is controlling, abusive and has mistreated me for many years. 6 months ago I...

Four children, a husband who lost my trust, why am I never in the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have been with my husband for 8 years. I have four kids and my youngest is ours together. She is six now. In the last year my husband has done some shady things to me to lose my trust. Not physicslly cheating but other things. ...

My wife's turning into a slob

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - Hi, My wife's tidying habits leave a lot to be desired. We've been married 10 yrs and previously I let it go to young kids and caring for her mum. But now her mum is no longer here and the kids are at school full time. Examples are finishing a ...

My cheating ex husband is moving on and I am stuck in poverty with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, i really need help. I filed separation from my ex on account of cheating and abusive behaviour about 18 months ago. 2 children remain with me. When they went for a visit to their dad I have come to understand that he's sharing the ...

Since the baby came I have no time to myself and am not interested in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - I need your advice on how to start feeling in the mood for sex again, please. My husband and I are the same age. We have been together 4 years, married for 2 and have a one year old baby. He nagged me a lot about moving in together and let me k...

A shotgun marriage for me leaves me jealous of other people's white weddings!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

19 April 2014 (?) - Hello. I have been married for 11 months to my partner of 5 years. We got married without a wedding as I was pregnant so basically we didn't have enough time or money for the wedding. Now whenever I hear someone is getting married I get so jealous ...

Husband says he feels like a prostitute because I want him to have sex with me? What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - My husband does not have a sex drive anymore. We are both young in our mid-twenties. We have been together for nearly 10 years. Our sex life has been at times amazing and at times sparse. I always seem to want it more than him. In the past he has u...

He was chatting with other women while I was helping my dying mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I think I might had been on denial.So many years of marriage and I thought was a good marraige. Problems,yes,some,but I thought we loved each other.I felt that he loved me, he cared for me,but I was kind of doing my best to keep the marriage hap...

Should I go back to my husband with a new set of rules?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - After 5 years of relationship and 10 years of marriage,which both work and I was happy with a lot of things,but in the middle of the marriage things started to happening. At the beginning of our marriage he would play a game like loosing his wall...

Unhappy in my marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - I need advice about my marriage. My husband and I have only been married a year, but we've been together for going on 7 years in December. We have a 1 year old together. I feel like we are just coexisting and not even trying to work as a team. He...

I'm at a crossroads, do I work things out with my ex or stay with my new boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - Hello! I am taking the time in advance for taking the time to read my agony and for any help you may provide. I also apologize for the lenghty paragraph. I am at a crossroads. I have an ex husband who I was with for 6 years and we have a...

I found two long blonde hairs in my room and am worried my husband is cheatig again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - Found 2 hairs that aren't mine. My husband of 5 yrs used to cheat on me via Internet and once I found out he apologised and continued it for 2 long years and perfectly made lies although I found them all out. The other day I found 2 blonde long hair ...

Can I trust her to cut all ties to this facebook friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

9 April 2014 (M) - I recently found my wife chatting with a man with whom she made friendship on Facebook. They have been talking on phone for past six months. She claims they never met each other and they were chatting as just friends. I am deeply hurt because s...

My soon-to-be-deported husband is spending my money on his mother and told me not to spend it on my own parents! Any ideas what to do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - My husband is to be deported and is currently detained by immigration. I have financially supported him for a long time now and also whilst he is in immigration detention i have sent money and visited 3 times per week. He has been detained now for ...

How to get our sex life back to the 'honeymoon' phase? And how do I deal with the issue of this old friend of his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - I'll just get to the point....I've been married to my husband close to 7 years...lately he hasn't been wanting to be that intimate with me. Idk if he's stressed, or just doesn't find me attractive anymore. I've tried spicing things up a ...

How do I get a grip? I am in a jealous, blinded rage and don't know what to do about it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - This may be long, so sorry, but I am pouring myself out here. I had an earlier post about my husband talking about a younger female coworker (12 years younger than me) for a couple of years and then suddenly not talking about her. They work in the...

Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

6 April 2014 (M) - Hi I’m getting so fed up of my wife. Over the years she’s accused me of affairs, routed thru my phone and laptop, accuses me of the most ludicrous things, shouts and screams unnecessary. I cant talk to her cos I know she’ll raise her voice. ...

How can I make my wife trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 April 2014 (M) - I'm married for 15 yrs..2 young kids and SAHM wife.few yrs back I left long term job and moved to another city for new business opportunity.Along came more money more time being self employed and temptations.few friends were already doing this from ...

I've lost interest in my husband but I feel trapped because we've been together for so long

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

4 April 2014 (F) - I've been married for 23 years and have 3 grown up children, so for the last 3 years I haven't had sex with my husband. I miss having sex yet I don't fancy my husband anymore. He has a low sex drive anyway and he has let himself go, putting on 3 sto...

I thought getting married would fix her insecurities, but she is still acting abnormal and crazy on a daily basis. Do I let her file for divorce or stay and try to work it out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

4 April 2014 (M) - Its been a while agony aunts since I wrote in. Same or similar story, same girl. This time I really did it though. I went and married her on December 21st, 2013. Didn't take the advice, I tried, unplugged for a whopping 4 weeks, thought I was doing ...

We don't save any money because he sends it all to his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

4 April 2014 (F) - hii am married to man who is nice and treats me well.we been married 3 yrs..i am a student,my husband earns very gud money. we go for movies ,restaurents once in a week,a yearly vacation..i never asked him more than that..the problem is he never sa...

Struggling to understand why my sister married this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

3 April 2014 (F) - Any psychologists out there who can help me to understand what is happening with my sister? I will try to make it as short as possible though this story is long. My sister who is in her mid 40s lost her husband of 17 years around 7 years ago...

I made a mistake. Now how do I choose between my pregnant wife and unborn child, and the love of my life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

3 April 2014 (M) - Between 2006 to 2009, I was dating this amazing and wonderful girl, due to the long distance of our relationship, she suggested we take a break from our relationship to finish our education, I was so hurt but I agreed. During this period, an old ...

I just don't trust my husband, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 April 2014 (F) - Married 13 yrs.he is only guy I ever dated.he is a good provider and a good father.I found he cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 2nd child. He hired escort service in 2010.but i found out after 2 yrs through his email in 2012. We fought, ...

I don't know if my husband will stay in the marriage if there is no swinging involved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - My husband and I got together 4 years ago. He was honest and said he was very sexual from the start. Our sex life was brilliant and after about six months we decided to try swinging, we didn't get off to the greatest start as the first guy was ...

Should I leave this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - My husband and I met 6 years ago. He lived in a different State and so we began a long distance relationship. After three months he moved across the country to be with me. Soon after I got pregnant. We really only had been dating for 5 months (3 ...