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Archived questions from: January, 2005 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My best friend has been married for one week and her new husband has already tried it on with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - My best friend got married a week ago and yesterday her husband phoned me saying he wanted to meet up to arrange a surprise hair appointment for his wife. As the conversation progressed, it transpired that he actually wanted to meet for a bit of ...

My husband prefers porn to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - My husband is a big fan of pornographic films and websites. Although in the past I have never minded this sort of thing, my self esteem is at an all-time low at the moment and I find I am completely unable to cope with him watching it. I cant ...

Husband is obsessed by woman 20-years his junior!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6934 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - In November 2004, my husband fell for a woman 20 years younger and since then has been obsessed with her. He says he loves her etc and nothing between us has changed. Well it has and he can't seem to get this woman out of his mind. Fortunately ...

My lover dropped a bombshell: His wife is pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 January 2005 (?) - I have only been married for 2 and a half years an although i did love my husband very much its faded away, we have only had sex twice in the last 2 years and it was very brief to say the least. He is always working his job comes before me and our ...

When does it stop hurting after a cheat has confessed? Feel like I'm living a lie...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7266 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - My husband confessed that he had been unfaithful. After much soul seaching and many tears on both sides we decided that we still loved each other and wanted to try and save our relationship. It has been a difficult time and he thinks that all is p...

Should I give up on my emotionally barren husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I have been married for 12 years. My husband is practally very suportive but emotional and intimately barren. He is also verbally abusive and threatens physical violence. He has a bad temper and easily erupts. Two years ago I had a brief liaison ...

I am married and cheating, and looking for advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7270 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I met this man on messenger about four months ago. We started to get feelings for each other very quickly, and agreed to meet up in January (4 months after we first 'met'), we are both married with children, and no longer love our partners, we had a...

Will I ever mean as much to cheating married man I'm seeing, as his dying wife?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7242 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Hi. For just over a year now I've been seeing a guy who is 14 years older than me. I love this man more than I ever thought was possible but things have become very tough. We were friends for several years before that & from the start I knew he ...

I find myself crying at marriage breakup... Could I have done more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - I have been married for almost 6 years. My wife has been a nurse for the last 5 years and has always had the desire to become a doctor. Last September she successfully secured a place on a medical degree course at University. At first she was ...

I am married man but have an indian lady fetish... And just love wearing their sarees!

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Hi. I have been married to an English girl for nearly 10 years now, and even though it has been a happy 10 years, I have always been attracted to women from India, especially women who wear the saree as their main clothing. I have joined various I...

I've been married for just four months and my husband is obsessed with transsexual net porn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7245 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - I've been married for four months and in the last two months my husband has become obsessed with sitting on the internet looking at porn. Today I actualy found the history of websites he has looked at and the majority of the sites are of ...

I want him desperately but he does not want me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7269 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid My husband (of four years) and I have been separated for just over a year. It was his decision to leave, and he has never given me any reason for ending it, other than to say he was sick of the arguments. He has always refused my reque...

I took the cowards way out and said I couldn't end my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7272 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I would really appreciate some advice. Last year on a Guy's trip to Dublin from the UK I met a fantastic Girl, we swopped Numbers and were in contact most days and would meet up at least once a month for over a year, The relationship was the most...

Not had any nookie since I got pregnant... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6942 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - hi, my name is N i have been married for 3 years now and have recently given birth to my second child. My husband is a police officer and so he is constantly working and i feel we are drifting apart. I'm also concerned about our sex life, as we ...

Does the desire to cheat and be satisfied make me selfish

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - I have been having problems with my husband lately and i am starting to feel that maybe we are growing apart. We have only been married for 18months and have a 9month old son. Since being married my husband has had an accident and cannot return to ...

I'm the second wife of my husband - and at my witts end

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7268 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - Wat do you do with the husband who won't share (on any level) with his second and current wife. In other words, who wont become "we" with his wife. Whose entire focus is on how to stay "we" or have an ever better "we" with his son from the first ...

Do I...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - Do I leave my wife for having affairs?...

My husband spends ALL our money on cars... I've finally said enough is enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7268 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - My husband is mad about cars. Since we have been married (nearly thirteen years)he has changed his car about twelve times. This may seem ok but everytime he upgrades the car and gets a larger loan so in essence the car we have at present is costing ...

My husband and my mother just don't get on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6934 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - I recently took a trip with my husband to visit our families and everything was perfect until we went to my families house. No matter what we did my husband and mother could not get along. My husband feels like I ignore him when I visit my mom but ...

I'm married to a wonderful woman... But she has just put a permanent ban on sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7277 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 22 years, she means the world to me and my 2 children, we are both now 43. My problem is, she doesn't want to have sex anymore, she said the problem is not with me, and that if I wanted to have s...

I'm 33, married with a young baby... But now in love with young man at work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7280 days ago

15 January 2005 (?) - I am 33yrs old and have been in a relationship for the past 14yrs, we have a 10yr child together, we have always just plodded along, i do my thing and he does his (which always involves watching sports on tv). He is a good man but there as never be...

Should I get back with my lost love of 20 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7282 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - I am married (in name only & live with my husband as "flatmates") and have 2 small boys. I have recently just found my lost love again. We 1st met over 20 years ago and never got our timing right !! We are both very keen to meet up again and he ...

Should I feel guilty for wanting out of loveless marriage with selfish huband 23 years my senior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7276 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years having both been widowed previously. My husband is 23 years older than myself (he is 76 and I am 52) and to be honest the marriage was of benefit to both of us. I was in need of financial support ...

My husband never takes the initiative... Feel so sad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

11 January 2005 (?) - I'm 28 and I've been married for 5 years. I love my husband and I know he loves me too. I find him very sexy and since we first began our relationship I've always loved it when we make love and are together. He's always been less enthusiastic abo...

How do I get the magic back into my jaded marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7282 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I have been married for 7 years and with my wife for 15. She says she does not love me enough any more and that all the magic has gone. I have convinced her to give it another go but how can I get this lost love back? I have been a git in the p...

My husband ignored me and bought drinks for other girls all night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7285 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I have been married to my husband for 2 years. Our marriage has had more downs that ups, we fight alot. I sometimes feel that my husband cares more about his image with his friends than about our marriage. For example, the other night we went out...

My wife and I are now more friends than lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7279 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I've started to feel that my wife (of 5 years) and I have become more like friends than lovers... To compound this, I've got a lot of stuff going on in my life that is really getting me down. I recently met a new woman at work, and when she look...

My love for married womaniser man who has affair after affair...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Up until 1 month ago I had an affair with a married man which had lasted altogether about 5 years. I really loved him and I thought that he felt the same way. When I first knew him it was through work and later found out that he was seeing other ...

I feel like we are just going through the motions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

8 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I am a 33 year old women with what I think is a big problem, I have been with my partner for 10 years and we have been married 18 months. The problem is I dont think I am in love with him anymore! I do love him but feel as if we are just goi...

I'm a happily married man, 63... In love with a transsexual

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7289 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am a happily married man, 63. During the past 4 years I have become good friends with a woman, who is also married, but she is a transsexual. I knew this when I first met her. She is still married to her wife (she was a man when they married). O...

I'm married but I fancy a woman at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7289 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am 42, and i have been married for 18 years. My wife (41) is the only sexual partner i have ever had, maybe because i have never pushed to bed someone else or i have always had all i need. About 7 years ago i noticed a woman that works in the same ...

My husband is lazy and full of worthless promises

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I fear that my husband and I have different expectations of life together. We have been together for almost 14 years, married for 2. He has recently retired. 'Whooppee!' I thought, "life will be less stressful; we will be able to spend our ...

I know my husband if having an affair how can I catch him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I just know my husband is having an affair. I have seen saucy text messages from her on his phone but when I tried to confront him, he says that she is just a mate that he meets for coffee when he is at college. I know that he has been out with he...

My husband is just too nice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I don't know where to start really, as my friends seem to think this isn't a problem when I've tried to talk to them about this, and to quote them 'that's what marriage is all about and I'm very lucky he wants to do everything with ...

Why is it hard to prove I'm not cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - Why is it so hard to prove to your wife that I'm not cheating?...

Husbands wants one-night stand with my sister!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

5 January 2005 (?) - my husband is insisting he sleep with my sister for a one night stand me and our child live with him i cant get him to see its wrong to have these feeling and he is saying all the time if he dont get her hes leaving i need help please tell me what ...

Eighteen years of petty lies from my wife

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6929 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - I have been married to my wife for eighteen years. She is a cancer survivor and mother of our one and only child, a sixteen year old boy. She is collecting disability as her immune system is somewhat compromised due to a bone marrow transplant she ...

I'm married but have been in love with another man for 13 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7287 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I am 28 years old, married for 5 years (dating and married 10 years all together) and we have two children. My problem is that I am soulfully in love with another man and have been for 13 years.(This man also shares my feelings) We were never able ...

I'm 21 and married but have fantasies about his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7262 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I am 21 and have been married to my husband for 2 years. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs, we fight alot. I have recently had dreams of cheating on my husband with one of his best friends. This really excites me!! Since the dream, I have ...

Married for 11 years to my "soul-mate" but I had an affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I've been married for 11 years (together for 13 years) to the man I thought was my soul mate, but I recently had an affair with a man I met at work, we no longer work together but the attraction is this there. He says he loves me and wants us to be ...