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writes: I have been married for 7 years and with my wife for 15.She says she does not love me enough any more and that all the magic has gone.I have convinced her to give it another go but how can I get this lost love back?I have been a git in the past and it is this that she is dwelling on...Please help Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Charlie, writes (13 January 2005): Hi,This may sound silly but have you spoken to your wife about this?If you were a git as you put it in the past then it is more than likely that this is what she is dwelling on, it is very hard to forget when your partner is mean to you but if she is willing to give it another go then it means she still wants to try. What you have to do is go back to old trusty tactics, prove to her that you are a changed man and that she is the only woman in your life - all woman want is an unquestionable love. You have to be the man she fell in love with, think about the things that you did when you were starting out as a couple, what was it that she fell in love with. Small gestures can often mean so much for example my partner once drove to my work in his lunch hour and left me a note on my windscreen telling me how much he loved me - this meant so much more than a bunch of flowers because he had taken the initiative to think about what would make me smile. Instead of taking her for dinner, cook a candlelit dinner at your place, run her a bath with candles make her feel like the most special person in your life, try and make some time for the two of you so you can show her how committed you are to making this work. Your wife has said she doesn't love you enough but she obviously still loves you so it is just a question of time and effort on your part to get the sparkle back.Hope this helps abit!
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