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Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, ...

How am I so bad with women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I'm at a place now where I'm rejected 100% of the time. It's mind boggling how awful I am at attracting women. They're put off my me almost immediately and if they're not, I get their number and they stop talking to me. It takes talent to be this ...

My FWB grabbed me by the throat when I said I would find sex elsewhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We made it very clear we do not want a relationship with each other. It is just friend with benefits kind of thing. We are really good friends and we're not sleeping with anyone else. Last night we ...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had ...

I'm worried my reaction means I am not over him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I had a one year relationship. The guy was a jerk, and anyway we boke up. After not even seeing eaach other for like 3 months i suddenly see him on the road and i vomit. why does this happen? please tell me it's normal and that i don't still have ...

Does anyone know of a "safe" or reasonably safe natural remedy that a man in his senior years could use as a stimulate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

27 February 2017 (M) - I am 87 years old. Periodically what testosterone I have,kicks in with a vengeance and I long for sex. Or even succeeding at masturbation. My main problem is ED. I have been tempted to try Viagra or Cialis but they are not effective for me. Some of...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I ...

Am I going through a mid-life crisis? I have everything going for me but I'm so unhappy and empty inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I want to get to the point- ever since I was 9 years old I have always wanted to be around people - I hate being alone and most people; the ones that know me well say that I'm never satisfied and I'm never happy. lately I feel like the rug has been ...

Dental hygene is holding me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Due to childhood problems, I have a major phobia of the dentist... and therefore never been... also due to those reason as problems, my dental hygiene is horrible :( I know it is! I am on track to sort them out. The problem is; I put off ev...

I do not enjoy being 30 pounds overweight. How do I come to terms with the fact that the medication I must take is also making it much harder to lose weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - A combination of menopause and necessary medication is making it extremely hard for me to lose weight . The medication is actually what caused the weight gain and through working with my dr I did try alternatives but nothing else seemed to work for...

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (...

He's a handsome foreigner, twice-divorced, aged 60. But all is not well in the relationship. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - Hello, I´m a single working mother of two. One is 13yo and the second 5yo. Six months ago I met a handsome foreigner twice-divorced aged 60. After 2 months, he came to live with us. He´s the first man to ever enter my household because I´ve alw...

I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things l...

Teen daughter does not believe me. In your opinion did I do something wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I'm a single mother of two children. A girl who is 15 and a son who is 11 years old. We had a good life. We would take vacations and go back to our home country to visit every year. They both attend private Christian schools. Five years ago I di...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed w...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

How does one overcome loneliness? I feel like I have no one to talk to nor anyone I can confide in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - feel like I'm alone !! I feel like I have no one to talk to or confide in!! family members aren't an option I don't want to tell them what's really on my mind. my boyfriend well he is not to interested and even then some of my feelings aren't ...

Chaotic childhood. Do I leave it ? do I dig further to find out more about my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My upbringing was somewhat chaotic. my father 19 when he had me and my mother a drug addict. Me and my twin sister were removed from her care at 1 years old and spent sometime in a foster home until a relative fostered us. we were given a little ...

I'm pregnant and the residual odor of cigarettes is drifting into my apartment from the apartment below. How can I get rid of the odour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I am 6 months pregnant and iv literally tried everything for the cigarette odor that has been drifting in my room from the apartment beneath me to disappear. I talked with the neighbors below me, but they didn't seem like they would change. And si...

Why don't my men value my looks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - All my life I have had relationships with men who turned out to not be physically attracted to me. Four relationships in fact. Each was attracted to me for other reasons but the physical just wasn't one and it always ended up being an issue. This ...

I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2835 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...

I can't get over the thought that he stares at my little sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm writing this as my thoughts are consuming me and ultimately upsetting me and affecting my behaviour with my partner, which I hate. I have been feeling very insecure lately and issues of the past keep popping into my mind and I find ...

How can I figure out what job suits me? Any tips on finding the perfect job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2837 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I work in a prestigious corporate role and I absolutely hate it. I feel like my life revolves around my job and I'm so dependent on it (money) that everyday just feels robotic. I went to school undergrad and grad and now I have a corporate role as ...

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2836 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

My long distance boyfriend worries about me too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2836 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - Hello! Me and my bf, who is a year older than me, have been going out for one month now - not really a long time but still - and from the way things look, we both really like and care for each other. During the early days of our relationship, his...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2835 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2835 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Two years and I should be over the treatment at my last workplace!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - It's been nearly 2 years since I left my precious work place. This workplace was awful. I was treated horribly by both management and staff. I was talked about behind my back, was given almost all the workload and I was even called 'their bitch' a...

Is this sensitivity normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - We had sex which was great. But he hadn't had sex for a year and his penis was ultra sensitive even for me to touch. I wanted to pull and squeeze his penis, I wanted to give him oral, but he stopped me, saying his penis is too sensitive? Is this ...

I'm tired of the way our life is going and wonder if its time to throw in the towel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

14 February 2017 (M) - Hi I need some advice and somewhere to express exactly how I feel, I have been with my current partner for a little over 7 years now, she fell pregnant very early in the relationship (within the first 4 - 6 weeks). After which she was diagnosed wi...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

My LDR is not motivated to meet in real life.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I've been dating my LDR boyfriend for over 2 years and we haven' met yet. He never wants to pinpoint a meeting date and acts unconfortable when I try to. He says he wants to improve himself first so when we meet he makes the best impression on me. ...

My 16 year old sister is sexually active, without birth control. Should I just come out and tell my Dad what my sister told me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - My dad is a single dad , he does a great job raising my sister and I but he's a little clueless in the age girl department. He believes everything my sister tells him. I've seen her come home drunk and convince my dad that she had food poisoni...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...