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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Happily married but feeling terrified out of my wits as my pregnancy has been confirmed. Need advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Thank you all for taking the time to read my question. I know I'm going to be severely judged for posting this but please bear with me. I got married about 8 months ago to a wonderful man. I'm 33 and he's almost 40. He is the best husband and frie...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

He's asked for a second chance and I said no. Should I let him back? He's so jealous.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy and at the beggining everything was great.it was my first relationship so i was really excited so was he. he was really in love with me and after a month he first told me he loved me. BUT he was jealous all ...

If I stop smoking weed will I stop having gay thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - Okay. So I'm a 20 year old male. I have always been straight. I masturbated a lot in the last 2 years, excessively to straight/lesbiano porn. I smoked lots of weed in my day and realized I can't really get hard while high or drunk. About 8 months ...

My stretch marks seem to be a huge problem for the men that I date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I came out of a 3 year relationship almost 2 years ago and for the past year I have been dating again. It's kind of personal to talk about but I am someone with very sensitive skin, and my breasts grew very fast when I was young and because of t...

I lost 42 pounds and gained confidence. Why are people now so mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm struggling at the moment as I'm quite a sensitive person and I've always wanted to be liked by everyone. This means that sometimes I give people more effort or time than they would give me and I take comments people make quite perso...

How do I pursue friends and a relationship with an intimidating face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

25 March 2016 (M) - Hi, I have too much problems to list out here today, but my main concern is a lack of a relationship and friends. It seems I have intimidating face based on how people respond to me and these days i have a hard time smiling so it makes it even...

Depression and isolation has made me unable to make new friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - I'm in my early 20's. I've suffered from depression for over 4 years now and I also have generalized anxiety. Due to my mental illnesses it has caused me to isolate away from people and caused me to live in a bubble. For the last few years I hid ...

My boyfriend has turned into a jerk since taking sick leave

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone! My boyfriend is currently in a difficult situation - he is 41, a barman, and has been off work on sick leave since last August. He had an operation on his back in January and his sick leave ends in the middle of April, so basically he ...

Boyfriend hasn't been paying the agreed amount and now I am in debt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. I am in love with him completely and he is in love with me. We moved in together after a year and a half. We have no issues living together and love being able to spend that much time together. our ...

What activities that can bring me to meet new people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone.. im 25 single woman and i dont have social life. I used to have good circle of friends and have good social life back in college but im so in love and hangging out only with my ex boyfriend and now we broke up and i lose everything. ...

Breaking Up: What Am I Doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hello Everyone! So I'm going through a break up, after 6 long years together and everyone keeps asking me "How on earth are you doing this?" and "I can't believe how strong you're being" so I thought perhaps I could help you lot in some way. ...

Where is the passion? Can the passion be revived? We have become platonic friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together 10 years. He is 9 years older than me. at first we were always making love but its got less and less over the last few years, and we have not been intimate since last year, Recently I found flirty texts bet...

Still worried sick my ex might pursue one of my closest friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Not been with my ex boyfriend for about a year now (we were together over a year and a half) and my feelings are still there, his friends aren't the best and can be really horrible about me. When my ex boyfriend and I are by ourselves like in conve...

What should I do if my fiance’s parents kick him out of the house after he confesses to them about his gambling problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles.. i posted a question some times ago about my dilemma regarding my fiance was gambling and want me to help him with the problem by asking me to lend him money. From all the opinion and advices given from you, i choose to reject...

Am I too boring to ever get a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

19 March 2016 (M) - Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance...

Which of these sexual issues should I tackle first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice on how to go about tackling a few issues in relation to my sex drive. My partner and I have been together 2 years and I do love him very much, there's a 10 year age gap (he's 36 and I'm 26). We are very similar people a...

I need help controlling my urges

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

18 March 2016 (M) - Hello aunts, I have an embarrassing yet difficult question to ask. I have been with my wife for about five years and everything is great, yet I have a vice that is difficult to control. I hate to say it, but I like to watch my wife with other ...

I really feel like running away from it all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - hi there. i am 53 yrs old and like many people i have had some rough times (divorce, break ups, fall outs, no money etc ). i have chronic face pain (over 15 years) and have taken lots of meds for this. none have worked. the last lot were anti dep...

I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. Is his behaviour part of his grieving or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I am a 21 year old female with a same age boyfriend, we both are in school and work part time jobs. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. With a 7 month break up 2 years ago. It was a very ugly breakup, which was very hard on both of us. We bot...

Any positive stories to show hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

17 March 2016 (M) - Has anybody got any good stories of how they turned their life around at a later stage in life ? I am 28 and well for the past 8 years I have done nothing with my life . As well I have hated life for so long and not thought I can get any where . ...

Any advice on dealing with tricky in-laws?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Any advice in dealing with tricky in laws. Looking for advice in relation to my partners parents. I don't know if it's just me that is over thinking this situation with them, but it's affecting me as a person and I feel my partner is picking up...

I don’t know why I don’t want to have sex! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a year now with my boyfriend and i love him very much and i am sexually attracted to him. We haven't had sex for over a month because i don't want to, i don't know why. I find it annoying when he touches me and hate ...

Can I do anything to help? My dad is in a very controlling relationship. And I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - He's been with her for 15 years. I was 20 when they met, so I was off in college and on my own after that doing my own thing so I never had much interaction with them except when I'd come to visit periodically on short visits. Like for a weekend a ...

Despite his reassurances, there’s something telling me not to trust him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and in the first month we started dating, I found out that he was messaging other girls on Facebook wanting to hang out with them. I just found out recently and when I called him out on it, he ...

Time and time again I take him back, only to be rejected again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - I am seeking advice, I have been involved with a man whom ive been on and off with for 5 years. we were together for a solid year and a half, and he broke it off. The breakup was devastating for me, I thought he was the one. since then we have bee...

He's not hit me. But could the other things he does be called abuse? what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - To be blunt and simple, when my year long boyfriend and i argue, he pushes me around. He'll grab me and squeeze my face, throw me down, he'll push me in front of almost anyone.. All throughout the year, he's never hit me though. He will punch...

What can I do to manage my own feelings? This relationship is pulling me down

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

13 March 2016 (F) - Dear everyone, I am in my first relationship with my partner for 2 years and 3 months now. During the first 12 months, everything seems so perfect and sweet and I was wonderfully showered with love and attention everyday. Eventually, the honeym...

I’m troubled by my boyfriend’s sexual past! Please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid community, I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 9 months. But for nearly 6 months, I've been struggling to get over his sexual past. We briefly discussed our sexual pasts in the beginning of the relationship and I mentioned that ...

How do I approach my GF weight issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

8 March 2016 (M) - In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job wher...

I checked boyfriend's ipad and found very hurtful things he told a friend when we were having problems. How do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Hello this may seem long but I need some advice, last august me and my boyfriend of just under a year had sex, the condom split, I went to the Drs and got the morning after pill which I was told is 99% effective, turns out it didnt work and I fell ...

My boyfriend showed up with scratch marks after the weekend. Is this enough evidence to leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Please help. It will be 3 years in June I have been with my boyfriend. Yesterday I noticed a few horizontal scratch marks above his stomach. They were not there on Friday when I last saw him but they were there the following Monday. I did not...

Did my boyfriend act unreasonable in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - Did my boyfriend act unreasonable in this situation? Now my boyfriend has said that he hates when I drink alcohol, I don't drink often and when I do its at family birthdays and bbq's in the house. Hes always with me when I drink because I invite ...

My husband calling me fat after a baby is not cool!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - My husband is appearing to be non supportive and loving after I had a baby. What kills me is that he is constantly acting like he is obsessed with every beautiful woman he comes across. I feel left out in the beautiful woman praise because he ...

I'm constantly down and teary, and I'm afraid I'm pushing my boyfriend away! Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

6 March 2016 (F) - So right now i have this horrible feeling i am pushing my boyfriend away! I dont know whats going on right now i am constantly down and teary, takes the sillyest little thing to set me off. I feel completely useless and dont know how to fix it! The ...

How can I recover my self esteem? I was called ugly by a friend of my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

5 March 2016 (F) - I don’t even know the lad, never spoken to him. The only time we ever came into the vicinity of one another it was at a party my boyfriend invited me to. Apparently he keeps talking about me to my boyfriend in a vulgar/crude (sexual) way, which to...

I just need to understand, what am I supposed to do after I let him in and now he's cutting me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - I guess I'm just a little lost... ok this is going to sound really bad and yes I know I screwed up by even going there in the first place but I need a little help. I was working for a company for over a year when they decided to move me to anoth...

Is there a way to get over my anxiety about tattoos? My girlfriend has two!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

4 March 2016 (M) - I have a problem with tattoos on women and don't know what it is, after a girlfriend got her second one I lost it and flipped out and my anxiety level goes up around her and everyone in her family has tattoos and that bothers me more, Is there an...

I'm bereft after this break up, I feel I have no hope, at age 47. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I am feeling desperately sad after breaking up with my partner. My marriage ended 5 years ago, my choice, and I found new strength and freedom on my own. I met my partner after about a year and I was so in love. I had such high hopes ...

People think I'm a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

4 March 2016 (F) - I'm straight and i am attracted to men, although everyone think that I'm a lesbian. I'm really stylish, and my style is a bit different and odd, i do wear makeup and my hair is very short . I enjoy whatever guys do enjoy, basically im a tomboy. Most ...

Partner is 16 weeks and won't stop smoking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

3 March 2016 (M) - Hi, my partner is almost 16 wks pregnant with our first child and she just will not stop smoking, or even attempt to cut down even a little. She is averaging around 16-20 cigarettes every single day. She wakes up in the night for a cigarette, she ...

How do women perceive a guy with a beer belly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

2 March 2016 (M) - Have a few questions about dating and wanted to get women’s perspective. But if any guys have input would appreciate your advice as well. Thanks in Advance. I'm a guy who is 24 years old and currently in Uni. I’m finding it difficult dating...

Feeling muscular around a guy who loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

2 March 2016 (F) - Okay so I've met a guy and he did admit that he loves me alot, he's really nice, a true gentleman, and treats me right and has a great personality. I do have little feelings for him but not as much as he does for me. I don't know what is just ...

He lied about his drug use in the past, but then was upset that I needed time to deal with my anger about his lying. Shouldn't we take some time to calm down when we are angry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

2 March 2016 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, having a little problem in my relationship and I always find the advice here helpful. Recently I found out that my boyfriend used to do drugs. When we were going out, he did not tell me about his drug history. I specifically ...

My jobless fiance gambles and owes a lot of money. What should I do? How can I help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

1 March 2016 (F) - Hi.. im so stress out lately because of what happened to my fiance. We planned to marry soon and he tried to gain easy money from gambling. He lost all his money and worse, he used some of his parent money too. I dont even know while he did this...