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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.. im 25 single woman and i dont have social life. I used to have good circle of friends and have good social life back in college but im so in love and hangging out only with my ex boyfriend and now we broke up and i lose everything. Basically i just need some advices about how to find a friend and love in my age. Ive been isolated for 3 years and its kinda hard for me to hang out in a large group of people. More than 5 people will make me uncomfortable. Im not used to be socially awkward before. I lose contact with majority of my old friend (theyre married, have new friends,move to other country). So i think its best to start a nee friendship out there.Problem is i need to work at family business in working hour and i cant socialize by having cooking course etc. What other activities that can bring me to meet new people which i can attend by myself without being awkward participating by myself?
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (6 May 2016):
 Don't think about what activities will help you to meet people - think about what you would like to do. Could it be an art class? Might it be an evening class towards a qualification, or just for something for fun? You will, incidentally, meet people there, and some of them you might like.
Since you have a goal you need not feel awkward. These pursuits often lead to extra add-ons like meals out etc.
If you start feeling self-concious just remind yourself that no-one is particularly interested in you. You have to make the other people the centre of your attention.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 March 2016):
 There could be some courses available in your area in the evening time? It would be worth looking in to. Maybe you could also get a part time job where you could meet new people? You are still only young and you have your whole life ahead of you. You could try online apps that can create friendships as well and see if that works. Also even going out for a walk and getting to chat to someone could become a friendship.
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