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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I've met a guy and he did admit that he loves me alot, he's really nice, a true gentleman, and treats me right and has a great personality. I do have little feelings for him but not as much as he does for me. I don't know what is just keeping my feelings locked. Im a female and i grow muscles, while he's actually thin and doesn't have the best physique, and i do like it when guys are a bit muscular and sometimes i don't feel feminine around him. I'm not that type of person who cares too much for looks but, I feel as if im more muscular than him and i do feel insecure about it. I do like him a little bit, but somehow i feel that there is something wrong, and still not sure of my feelings. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2016): If you have to ask these questions, he is not the guy for you. When you find the right guy, you will both be head-over-heels in love and there will be no doubt in your mind.
Stop leading him on. If you want to, tell him you will be his friend, but that's it...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 March 2016):
 If you don't find him attractive well then your best bet is to leave him, as you need an attraction in a relationship. If your feelings are based on what other people might think well then I would suggest that you tell yourself it doesn't matter as long as you and he are happy. There is no need to rush things, take things slow and see if these feelings go away. If not well then maybe he is not the man for you.
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