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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Health category)

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How do I stop feeling so alone when every single friend is coupled up and I have no family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - I have two different friendship groups who I socialise with regularly plus a few friends who I see individually on a regular basis rather than as part of any group. I have known all of them for between 4 and 10 years. They are all aged between ...

I don't think I can hide my feelings for my step brother much more. We are not blood related. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - When I was 8 years old my parents divorced. Me and my sister decided to live with my mum. My dad met his ex girlfriend and they fell in love again, when I was 9 she introduced us to her children. Lets call them N (he is 11 now) W (he is 17 now) and ...

Will moving to another state bring me to a happier place than all the drama I've endure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Hey I need some advice Lately I've been going through alot of bad things. I know it's life and everyone goes through things some point. But I feel like it's only me at the moment. I'm extremely frustrated!!!! I've never been this frustrated bef...

Why do so many men believe they have a right to sex without a condom?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I'm sorry if this comes across as a rant but I'm really annoyed at the moment and looking to hear opinions around whether I've been unlucky or if what I'm experiencing is the norm. Why do the men I meet seem to think it's their right to get to ...

What's his problem? My father is rude and abrasive to me. Yet treats my sister with respect and helpfulness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

29 July 2016 (F) - I am a young adult still living at home with my parents. I get along with my mother, she is like my best friend and a wonderful mother and she sees what my father has been doing to me and her. My father is just horrible to me for no reason. I ha...

What are some good tips and ideas to help get started on repairing the trust I broke with my husband when I cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I have cheated on my husband and I told him about it, it broke him completely and he is just hanging on by a thread with what little piece of heart he has left. He feels that our whole marriage of 2 years has been a lie because I broke that vow a...

My married BF says I worry too much that he is going to be unfaithful to me. Is it all my fault?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi. I've been dating a married man for 3 years now. We have incredible sex together and lots of fun. We get along very well and are sexually perfect for each other. I care a lot for him. He cares for me. However, my insecurity issues ...

Nurses are nasty! I'm a nurse facing surgery and fear I'll be treated badly by other nurses!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Im going into hospital soon for small surgery and worried the staff andnurses will treat me badly? The surgeon and anaesthetist know I'm a nurse as my own Dr told them! so now all the staff and nurses will know I am a nurse, I cannot even hide tha...

Is it time for me to give up on finding love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

26 July 2016 (M) - Hello there, I am a 21 year old college student with NF1 (Neurofibromitosis Type 1). I have never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl or even flirted with a girl. My parents are still really protective over me and are really suspicious of what I do (why ...

How do I stop watching those videos? And stop masturbating for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - Hi.. so if im honest life gets pretty tough sometimes. Older people may think that the only problems a teenage girl could possibly have is a guy that doesnt want them or needing money to buy clothes or whatever. That couldnt be more naive. Over the ...

How do you look after and help the depressed love of your life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - My partner of two and a half years is severely depressed and struggling with day to day things. Our relationship is on its last legs, we're holding on to memories through this difficult stage. He is irritable and angry all the time and takes it...

Healthy eating is a bone of contention

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - Hi please advise. My boyfriend is trying to have a healthier lifestyle because he is about 20 pounds overweight so he's trying to eat right, etc. I myself (in my opinion) should probably be around 125 but I' almost 140, so I'm at the upper end of ...

How can I stop being so miserable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - How can I change my negative mindset ; it seems I'm never satrafied and I have hit a rock bottom lately now that my relationship is over - in the grand scheme of themes the short relationship I was in wasn't great - he wasn't a great guy and I ...

My man has ED. How can I support him through this and pleasure him in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for 10 years and we have the most amazing relationship. More recently he has had trouble getting hard enough- or staying hard enough to have sex. I want to be clear- this isn't a problem for me in any way shape or form. I...

What help is available for a man who feels "lost"? Loving wife and family, and yet I feel so very alone and isolated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I am at the apex of my career. I have a wife who loves me and three great kids. Everyone sees a picture that is so far from what I feel inside. I feel increasing disconnected from everyone and everything. I have no one whom I can ask for help, or...

Could this be the end of our marriage ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I love my husband. We've been together for almost 15 years. We are in our late 30's now and don't have any kids (we both agree on that). We have weathered many storms (financial difficulties, moving away from our country of origin...) and s...

How I get back to enjoying my favourite activity of fellatio, because currently, I gag when I try it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Ok first is I have been with my fiance for going on 5 yrs, will get married in 2018. I have been previously married, and the reason I say this is I love the taste of cum. My previous husband was very sweet and tasted so good I can handle swallowi...

All my life I've considered myself unlucky! How do I change my negative mindset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I'm sorry for sounding depressive or if a lot of you simply can't answer me, I understand that I'm probably going to say a lot of stuff that can't be answered so all I can say is thank you for your time. All of my life I have considered mysel...

How do I get a family that hires me as a nanny to accept I need to bring along my mother who has Alzheimer's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - Hi , Thanks for always being helpful to me. I have very complicated situation .First ,my profession is nanny . I work as nanny in family environment . I recently lost my job. I was working as nanny . I been with family more then three years. The...

Does he really not realize he was wrong to take off without coming over my house ? Does he believe his own lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month and 1/2 who told me right from the start he is bipolar. At least once a week he will do something such as make plans with me and then just go off with somebody else and not even call me to let me know. He wil...

What needs to be done? I am so ashamed. Should I hold back from going into detail about all the online sites I visited?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

19 July 2016 (M) - Hello! so I have this problem. I've been with my girlfriend for going on 6 months, I really and truly care for her. I've gotten close to not only her but her family! She left for Costa Rica a month ago and since then we are alright but my t...

I magnify everything into the worst case scenario. What can I do to stop doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - I am finding it difficult to live in my own skin. And it has become worse and worse over time. Every ache and pain I have I magnify into the worst case scenario and think I am dying. And I panic and have massive amounts of stress and anxiety. ...

Does anyone have any ideas I can try to help me with my 2 year old son? I'm concerned about his actions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - i really need some advice. im 22 years old and i have two beautiful kids. my daughter is 3 soon to be 4 and my son is just tuned 2. my kids have very diff. personalities. my daughter is very calm and very well behaved, she is amazing. my so...

Do I give up or do I try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hello, Well my story starts here be been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and living together for 4. We always fight and I've changed so much for him and he's changed too. But the fight are constant sometimes about meager things. He says he's tir...

My alcoholic boyfriend is making me feel left out and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - My alcoholic boyfriend is making me feel left out and lonely. He can be very lovey dovey and attentive when he's not drinking and sticking to his job. There are then times he goes on these binges for days or weeks, and he ignoring me and making m...

I am better off out of the relationship but seeing him still hurts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend earlier this year. I was with him for two years and I always suspected he was biopolar or had a personality disorder. He also has issues with alcohol and a temptation for other things too. And i suspect he wasn'...

I found out he's still married, but separated, he lied about his son and he's a borderline hoarder!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 2 1/2 years. He is older than me (I am 35 and he is 53), and when we started seeing each other he said he had been single for awhile. He has a house that is in disrepair, and approaching hoarder status. ...

I hate him but all I want is to be with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I fell in love with the wrong person. I am still young, fresh out of hs and have never been in love until now. We are from a small town in Arizona and happened to cross paths...Well more like he hit on me one day and I reciprocated.It started off ...

How can I get my dad to keep in contact with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - How can I get my dad to keep in contact with me again?. Ww get on well sometimes, and I am like my dad in some ways because we like the same things, and I even get my looks from his side of the family, but we have clashed a lot too. We can both have ...

I need a job. I have social anxiety. But now I have a fear of going outside. How can these issues be addressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - It's very hard for me to go outside. The thought me leaving the house makes me feel very anxious. I feel safer indoors. I don't go out til it's necessary for me too, like an appointment. I don'the leave my bed either. I need a job, but i'm afr...

How can I stop looking for revenge? Is it a case of "what goes around comes around" ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - How can I stop looking for revenge? I just recently got dumped by my ex of 6 months via text - my stuff all is still is at his house . This was two months ago and since being hurt the stage has moved on to anger and waves of depression. I have ta...

I even feel physically sick when I hear their voices now, and that's not a joke. What are my options in this toxic situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - My husband comes from a very toxic dysfunctional family. They use each other, controlling, yelling, shouting, violence, immaturity but I am a calm person, trustworthy hardworking etc totally different from them. I think he is starting to real...

I need help. Who can help me with these issues? Who would accept me like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I am 37 years old and i still play with dolls. I feel that they're real. I give them a name and a voice as well. I sleep with them and I'm very over protective as well. My son hates one of my dolls because he feels i give them more attention...

I love my wife but she is causing me distress. What do I do with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

14 July 2016 (M) - Hello this is my first time to ever post on a relationship site, but have had problems with my wife for many years and have even separated for a year and she made all these promises that things would be different. She has a problem with drinking...

Can you advise me on how to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - How do I get over someone? My ex broke up with my over 3 months ago now and it gets easier sometimes but then at others it feels again as bad as when it happened. I have wrote on here before about this situation but this time I just want to get over ...

Help. If we have to make a decision to visit him or not, I am not sure about what to do. Any advice would help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

13 July 2016 (F) - A couple of years ago my husband and I moved to a new building where we became friends with one of the neighbors. He's in his 50's, keeps much of the time for himself but is really kind, respectful and generous. He avoids people (he doesn't ...

Did I permanently mess up my chances with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

13 July 2016 (M) - Okay, so I've been eyeing this girl both in person and on social media for about 8 months now. She doesn't even know I exist because the few times that I've seen her in person I was really far away for her to notice and it was at a county fair with ...

I feel lost and low, and worry about everything.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

13 July 2016 (F) - I'm currently in a strange place. I've had a history of depression, anxiety, eating disorders etc and I've overcome these over the passed few years and have felt better than ever really making something of my life. I have a good job whilst ...

I can't put up with her issues any longer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

12 July 2016 (F) - I have know my best friend for 11 years we are family, ever since she was diagnosed with depression she lies to me about everything, who she's with, where's she going. I can't trust her anymore, it makes me really upset because all I want to do is ...

I can't rely on friends. Should I accept the offer of a work colleague to take me home from hospital after my surgery?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

12 July 2016 (F) - I have to have surgery soon, and will be going home that day, im told i need someone to take me home but i have noone? Its day surgery and i must be driven home Im all alone with no family or reliable friends, friends are busy and wont care ...

Guy I'm dating is leaving for an internship, Can you please help me make sense of what is happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - I'm dating a guy I feel very comfortable with, we both open up a lot and there is a lot of safety, good feels, and emotional connection. However, we both know its short-lived. He's leaving for a great internship and may not move back after his inte...

I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

11 July 2016 (M) - Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her bre...

How can this be fixed? Dysfunctional family, I feel depressed when I'm near them but don't know how.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

10 July 2016 (F) - I live about two hours from my family (mum, grandparents). I try and visit every two weeksfor the weekend but lately it's the biggest struggle. I love them dearly but I cry on the drive back home and feel so depressed and drained. My mum sits ta...

After being cheated on, I hate myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

9 July 2016 (M) - During my most recent relationship, I got cheated on by my girlfriend. She did it once fairly early in the relationship, and even though I hated the guy before it happened, she claims to be blackout drunk so I forgave her. She cheated again and ...

Does a guy being skinny put women off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

9 July 2016 (M) - I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women ...

Eight weeks pregnant. Angry abusive father to be. I'm crying a lot. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Hi I feel completely lost and don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We have been living together and I recently found out that I'm pregnant (I am 8 weeks gone) and have decided to keep the baby. Me and my boyfriend do...

I do not want us to split up but how can the issues we have be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now the problem is he has no sex drive whatsoever I'm lucky if it happens once a week at first it wasn't great but was more regular than now he always stares at other women He tells me he likes blondes who ...

How can I explain that I need some help with the housework, even though he works full time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - The past 3 years I have been a homemaker. I've taken care of all household cleaning and food preparations for my husband. I'm now in the process of starting an online shop to sell my artwork. For the past few months I've been working on creating...

Going no contact isn’t easy, so how do I make sure I’m not swayed by his efforts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - Since my original question regarding my narcissist, we have gotten back together and just recently I discarded him because I am sick and tired of being sick and tired. All of the motional turmoil hit me all at once and I vocalized myself to my ...

Is it me that is making women act like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

7 July 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm looking for some advice. I am a male who was abused both psychologically and physically. I am no longer in that relationship but I have been on my own for many years now. I do have difficulty in letting other people in ...