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Health: Help and advice

To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...

Dating a 37 year old guy. How can I tell him to use anti- wrinkle cream in a nice way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend is 37, happy guy and it takes much to irritate him. Though he doesn't look far older than his age, his face wrinkles a lot especially when he smiles. I can't change this fact but it might at least be lessened if he uses moisturi...

What did my ex girlfriend mean by this statement?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

26 February 2016 (M) - For starters, I am aware that I need to move on and stop obsessing over my ex, but there are some things that still confound me to this day. I wonder if she ever really loved me or if she loved how I made her feel instead. Understand what I'm ...

Why am I having recurrent dreams of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - I can't stop having dreams about my ex. My ex and I dated for 4 months almost a year ago. And we didnt have the best relationship, because we were very different. He didn't like drinking or going out to dance, and I wanted to at times. Also, we ...

I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because ...

LDR boyfriend isn't taking pride in his appearance and its turning me off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - Hi. I'm in a LDR of a year now. My guy is by nature a big framed man, who has struggled with his weight on and off from what he says. He talked about diets etc and gets fired up, buy never actually sticks to them, and recently having managed to lose ...

How can I feel more comfortable with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I moved into an apartment with my 6 month bf, abt a month ago. In the beginning it was very difficult and I gt very anxious. So I had to start taking anxiety meds that have helped. But I still get stomach aches because I have IBS, and I don't feel ...

How can I successfully encourage my Bf to take better care of himself and improve his personal hygiene?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I want my boyfriend to take better care of himself when it comes to hygiene and clothing. I don't think I'm asking for too much: I would like him to brush his teeth twice a day, I would like him to shower and wash his face once a day, I would lik...

What are my options? I can't tell my gf because I don't want to break up with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, so I’m in love with girl that I’ve been with for 4 years, were 20 years old and we’ve been living together in our own flat for the last two years. She’s an orphan and has little contact with her family and does not have a lot of friends. She’s ...

She said she didn't want to hang out any more and I'm scared! A part of me wants to make some gestures so she knows how much I care!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - So I'll start first by stating that some of my friends and even adults while growing up have asked me again and again if i had ASD (Asperger's Syndrome Disorder) though i never saw any professionals growing up (they say it shows vividly in my ...

Should I believe my intuition and ask my husband not to go on a business trip?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I feel very uncomfortable talking about this even with my close friends. A couple of times in my life I had a very strong intuitive feelings about people whom I love (friends and family). Since I am a rational person, I've tried suppressing them...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

How should one deal with a narcissist in the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My husband grew up with a narcissistic mother and father (should he start playing lottery ? ;). Father is out of the picture. He was a liar and a thief. I've seen him steal in a shop and deny that later. We live far away so his mother does not rep...

I feel as if I'm not enough for him. What's wrong, in that he needs porn before he can climax, when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months, its only a short time but i really do love him However in the past week or so we have had some issues when having sex! The past 4 or 5 times we have had sex he has been un able to cum just from sex...

I just want to function like a normal person and not make people uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

20 February 2016 (M) - hello, I suffer from social anxiety and shyness.This has been a development only in last few years after I finished school.During school days I was genuinely very happy with many friends and a carefree attitude.Now,I am always very self consci...

Did I ruin my chances with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I kind of had one too many drinks on a first date and ended up texting my date after I got home some stupidity that I feel ruined my chances with him. He never called again. I usually NEVER drink on a date, but it ended up happening on the...

How can I best support my friend who has severe panic attacks and is under that care of a psychologist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - My friend emotionally goes from high to low every single day and I need advice on how to help her. She has panic attacks several times a week, sometimes every single day and they last 20 to 30 minutes. She throws up most of what she'll eat durin...

I'm too conscious about my body to take my shirt off during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 3 months we have been having sex for the last month, however I keep my top on. I had lost 40kg (80lbs) over the last 5 years and my breasts and tummy sag. He has been so patient and supportive for my ...

The problem is that after ten years of marriage we never have sex !! How to deal with this stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - I need some help. I've been with my husband now for 10 years. I'm 27 and he is 43. Obviously there is an age gap but it has never been an issue up until now. The problem is sex. We never have it. Its very rare and he says its because of stres...

Am I over reacting with my fiance's behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Okay so a little background, we have been going out for three years, engaged for six months and getting married next year. We do have a great relationship and I know he is the one for me. We do have our small arguments like every other couple. ...

My future MIL thinks we should get checked out because after 3 years together we still haven't gotten pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years now we are getting married this year... We have had unprotected sex for at least 3 years. If we get pregnant that great if we don’t that is still okay as we are 25 and 26 so there’s time. But his ...

My new boyfriend has a low sex drive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - I look after myself and love sex and intimacy. I have met a guy who after a few attempts admits he has ED and it feels numb and he hardly masturbates. It caused a rift in his marriage and viagra didnt work and his hormone levels are normal. I ha...

No sex and he's suffering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How important is sex in a marriage? I suffer from dyspareunia and because of this I'm not interested in sex at all. My husband understands my situation but I can see that he is suffering. What should I do? I don't get horny at all. The thought of ...

Is this what I have on offer? That, if he doesn't find someone else, he'll "settle" for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I really need help getting over an ex. I don't know what's wrong with me or why I can't let him go. We were great in the beginning, I really thought I had found the one I was meant to be with for life. Then my issues of insecurity came up and he b...

What can I do about this situation? My male friend is too controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My male friend is very controlling I think. He wants everything to be on his terms. He decides when and where we hang out. If he doesn't have time, we don't do anything and won't even try to compromise. I was having a party last week and he said...

How do people cope and get through the loss of a loved one ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Article How do people get through the loss of a loved one? Recently a friend of mine lost her husband to lung cancer. She has really been struggling. I suspect that she is not alone. She said that some remarks I made were a great comfort to her...

Confused, and flirting with another guy. What should I consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - Hello, I am mortified that I even have to ask this but I really really need some help. I have been going out with a guy for 5 months now and as much as I hate to admit it I'm not physically attracted to him but his personality is amazing, he is so...

My husband's behavior gives me migraine headaches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I have been married for five years and recently developed migraine headache. The unfortunate part is apart from inadequate sleep, my husband is always the migraine headache trigger. He can be nasty and moody at times and this causes a reaction in ...

Are these noises normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Hi im 22 yrs. I jst want to knw what causes ur vagina to make noises during sex when ur sleeping with ur partner?...

I just keep crying and its hard to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Okay so i broke up with a boy about a year ago because it was toxic and not good for either of us, but we were together a year and a half and are in the same social group, we've had a rollercoaster since then. he was messaging me saying we should ...

What are possible reasons why my Bf and I are having these difficulties when having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Hello I have recently begun my first sexual relationship and I just need some help? I've had sex with my boyfriend 4 times now and each time he's struggled to get it in? It's not being too dry that's an issue but maybe I'm too wet? I don't know but ...

What are reliable methods of contraception other than condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Hello, Please I need some advice here. I've been with my bf for about 2 years now.we haven't had sex. We are both virgins. Now we both want to have sex but I'm afraid of getting pregnant. He suggested that we should use condom but I don't think I'...

Feeling stressed and pregnant. How should I handle this discovery about my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - Ok so I'm 6/7 weeks pregnant and I've been very very emotional and irrational the last few days. I went looking for a link in the history of my laptops Internet (my other half had obviously just been using it before me) and saw that he looked u...

He says he'll be understanding in dealing with me but he loses his patience and becomes abusive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for a year now with my partner who i have known for 6 years as we worked together. We have a 5 week old baby boy. I have had lots anxiety and mental health issues most of my life but I have done a lot of work on myself ...

How do I accept, let go, and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - How best can I accept an apology I never got (and never will), let go and move on? I am trying very hard to let go of the anger I feel- but it comes in waves- and unexpectedly. So many negative feelings- anger, disgust, resentment, guilt, shame. How ...

Advise me on how to make the bad feelings go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - When I was younger, I was a severely jealous person. To the point where it hindered many of my friendships and relationships. I worked on my confidence and my insecurities, and really changed my life around. I learned not to compare myself to others ...

Is my premise possible? Is it decent folks, who try to live right, who are the people who get screwed over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Maybe it's because I am feeling really low these days- but increasingly feel that it's the decent folks and the ones who try to live right that get screwed over. The lying, cheating, selfish ones live peacefully. How come?...

Is this weird or am I normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

1 February 2016 (F) - Is this weird? I'm 16 and I'm horny all the time (I'm a virgin too). I've had very little to no experience with guys. All it takes is a sexual song or a male singer with a sexy voice to turn me on and then I have to masturbate, or atleast pleasure ...

I'm afraid I'm starting to get some kind of sex dysfunction but I'm not sure why this would happen

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

1 February 2016 (M) - 51 y.o. male here. I no my body very well and I take care of it. I workout every other day and I take vitamin and enzyme and amino acid by the handful. I use the Paleo diet, only drink mineral water, eat a lot of eggs everyday, I avoid gluten and ...