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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

How do I cope with this breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years finished with me and is now in a relationship with another woman just 2 weeks later. I am in pieces. I cant eat I cant sleep I cant even go to work. We had a row and split but I thought we would work things out. But this time ...

He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour befo...

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splittin...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

Mom has an athletic body but I don't. Does this make me a loser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - My mom has an athletic body and I don't. Does that make me a looser? Im a 14 year old skinny person with a fat belly and my mom in contrast has an athletic body. I feel embarrassed when I'm with her especially at the beach in swimsuits. She ...

I agreed he can come back only if he promised to make a doctors appointment for some help, am I making the right decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months has finally admitted he has a drinking problem and needs help. He's changed a little since he met me he use to drink everyday but now it's weekend benders. At first it wasn't a problem as we were just having fun but as time ...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

How can I politely deal with people who offer their advice on whether we are having a boy or a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Ok, so my fiance I have been thrilled to be expecting our first child. We dont want to find out what we are having because I cant wait for that moment when the doc says "its a..." when it is born, but I have had a lot of people who dont seem to get ...

How can people get STD if both are 100% faithful? Can a STD be inherited from a mother? Not sure how STDs work after hearing things from fellow classmates.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Hello dear all and thank you in advance for taking your time for reading this. I am currently 21 years old and in a 4.5 year, heterosexual relationship with my first and only sexual partner, whom is 20 years himself. As on both accounts: we we...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

Yes, there's depression (being medicated). And the desire to be more positive. So how do I get a more positive outlook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - How do I get a more positive outlook on life? I am twenty years old and I am struggling with severe depression. I currently work in administration with no hopes of furthering my career as my job contract ends here soon, and before that I have alw...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

How to juggle the needs of my father and my desire to study and create a better future for me. Any ideas on how, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3533 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My situation is unique. When I was 17 my father who is my single parent became very sick and now is considered disabled and barely makes any money anymore so when I finished high school I got a job instead of heading off to college so I could help ...

My partner has IBS and is afraid of having an attack in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My partner has IBS and says that she did not tell me as she thought i would not understand and finish with her when I found out and she says that she is so afraid that she will have a attack when we are in bed and i have tried to talk to her but so ...

My husband has gotten verbally abusive again - how do I help him stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My husband has gotten verbally abusive again, even though things were getting better on that front for years. How do I help him to stop? (not so )Short intro: We've been together for almost 20 years. At the beginning things were OK. But as we finis...

My daughter is being so excluded in her class by her classmates. How can this ostracism be dealt with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, My daughter is being so excluded in her class. And the girls ignore her and don't really want to hangout with her. This of course has affected her and of course concerns me. She is almost 11, beautifull both inside and out., sweet but on the...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

What can I say or do? My libido is irksome for my Bf. Recently his persistence has led to doing things that made me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years now and for the most part everything is great. However, when I started on birth control my sex drive decreased dramatically and when I switched from the pill to the implant it didn't get much better....

Should just leave it or ask my mother why she felt the need to say such a thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I had my first child when I was 17 with my now ex boyfriend. Due to ill health my mother spent a lot of time looking after my child as I have epilepsy and found it hard to handle both at the time. As my mother couldn't take my epilepsy away bu...

I love him so much. But when he's been drinking he says nasty things and is argumentative. Why is trying to ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - My partner is for the most part a very loving kind man who says he adores me and I am his world. However he likes to drink on his nights off work (he works nights) and when he has had too much to drink sometimes he can lose his temper big time. I...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3534 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Should I report my sister to Social Services?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi guys I just wanted some advice on a problem I am having. I I have a sister who is 29 years old and she has two small children. However she has started to drink alcohol around her children, to the point where she gets blind drunk, this has been...

Anyone else ever feel sick & tired of "trying"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - Anyone else ever feel sick and tired of "trying"? First off, I wouldn't say I'm depressed or anything, and second, I'm not looking for sympathy, just, if anyone else can relate... I've been thinking about my life a lot lately and how less...

My question is should I have unprotected sex with this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has restricted me on his facebook account so I can only see his public page he says he no longer is interested in facebook and does not use it very much -which is a lie because when I go onto facebook on my account I can click on his ...

I don't want to look and sound desperate, but I just can't get him out of my mind. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3534 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - It's been almost 2 years after my ex broke up with me. I moved overseas to start a new life and tried to stay away from everything about him. I am moving on slowly and was hoping to fall in love again abroad. I am so ready to be in another ...

Will guys still want to date me, if I tell them I'll only go as far as oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - No, I'm not doing it for the sake of virginity, but to avoid pregnancy!!! I've heard so many horror stories from people, panicking for weeks because they were terrified that they or their partner was pregnant...I don't want to ever be in that kind ...

How do I cope with feeling totally isolated and alone? My fellow students are selective about things they invite me to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3537 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Dear readers, I feel that my life is in a mess at the moment, both personally in romantic relationships, "freindships" and in my college work. I am studying an animal related course which is incredibly difficult, it's a very difficult...

He's suffered depression and it feels like he's pushing me away. Should I leave so I can be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3537 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I am in a sort of happy relationship now. We have had a bad up and down recently. He neglected me while i was pregnant and then whilst our baby was very young. This went on for over a year and at some point i stopped loving him. But i stayed. We...

When I graduate I will most likely have to live with my troubled parents. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My parents have been drug addicts for the majority of my life. They were also both verbally and emotionally abusive towards me, and have tried to manipulate me beyond belief. Over the years I've accepted that my parents are the way they are, and...

Am I selfish for not being supporting him more? These should be my good years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3537 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I am in a situation where I love a man but he's taken on such a huge project and completely dismantled his house. We are talking a derelict shell. He may make 30k on a 3 year full blown project as its an old small terraced house in a bad area and...

What does a nurse feel when she sees a penis - how should boyfriend react

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend is a nurse practioner student and I’m struggling to get used to a few things. When she exam on the teaching patient and told me about how she palpated the penis it was a bit awkward. Just recently, during her clinicals (sort of ...

The guy I'm dating is addicted to porn but wants to stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I recently started dating this guy who I really like. He is very honest, and after we had gotten to know each other quite well told me he has an addiction to porn which he is trying to quit. I dont have much experience with relationships, s...

My boyfriend is moving away to a different uni? Very upset and don't know what will happen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 8 months at uni recently got diagnosed with epilepsy. When he had these fits I was with him every step of the way in hospital holding his hand and being there for him. His mum came along to take him home and while...

I've been ill since he left!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend left me 2 weeks ago after 7 months together. Its a complicated story. We were first together for a year and a half over 2 years ago. He was in the army at the time and was constantly cheating on me. He was always still so loving but ...

How can I encourage my Bf to tell me what's wrong rather than just turning away from me when he's upset? Or time to take a break?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I have boyfriend trouble... He's a good guy, and I love him, but there are these moments when everything goes wrong and it's been happening more often lately. He'll get upset with me because of something I said or did, and get angry and turns away ...

My Gf has serious anxiety issues (being treated) but what is the right way to talk to her so I don't increase her anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - My girlfriend has serious anxiety problems (diagnosed and medicated) and just doesn't respond to things in ways that make sense to me at all. She is in the middle of finals now, and her anxiety is apparently through the roof. Well, the other ...

Met him on tinder. Met up with him. He said some weird things about him being dangerous. Should I text him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hey! So I met this guy on tinder, I've seen him out sometimes. We started chatting a bit for like 2 weeks and saw each other when we were out but didn't talk to each other. Then he started asking me what I was doing during the evenings a coupl...

I don't know whether I need to be more supportive or whether I'm just enabling him to walk away from his responsibilities, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend seems to be going through some personal crisis, and I don't know what to do. We currently live together and are tied into our tenancy for another 4 months minimum. I am 23yo and he is nearly 30. We have been very happy living tog...

What are some tips or advice for helping with depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all. For the past few months I believe I've been dealing with depression. I had a break up with a serious boyfriend who I was with for over 3 years and self esteem issues regarding that, there's been job and money issues going on with me as well ...

Doing things we shouldn't do, and I feel bad about that. He's been prosecuted and I suffered domestic violence. Will people ever learn to trust us again?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: DearCupid does not condone the use of illicit drugs. But you clearly feel bad about using illicit drugs and have promised to stop. Seems that you really do need some advice, despite your past use of illicit substances, when feeling under ...

I want my sex life back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We've always had a good sex life and if I'm honest I've never been able to keep up with my boyfriends sex drive. It used to really irritate me that I couldn't take a shower, g...

Is it to soon to ask for a STD test before I rekindle with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3542 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi I'm single I just got a call from an ex and he told me that he has been in love with me for years. Our chemistry is awesome he wants me to come to another state to visit him. I call him an ex because we were friends at one time but sex was neve...

Family Interference every step of the way. What we can do to get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - Basically I've been with my now fiance for seven months. Since the beginning of our relationship somebody has always had a problem with us being together, whether it be her family or one or more of her ex boyfriends interfering (one of whom she...

I left my abusive ex, so why am I in so much pain?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. I don't understand what's going on with me. In breif, I finally got out of an emotionally abusive relationship around six weeks ago. The ending had been on the cards for sometime. My ex bf used to ...

I feel he has crossed an invisible barrier somehow.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Please help. Apologies for the length of this but I want to give some detail so you can give better advice. The problem is that my new relationship is going rapidly downhill and I don’t know why. I’m starting to wonder if my new partner might be...

I'm having difficulties in socializing with other people due to my low self esteem and feel socially awkward

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Hi everynone.. im having difficulties in socializing with other people due to my low self esteem and socially awkward. I feel shy whenever i meet people that attractive and confident. Im not kind of thia person before. I used to have many friends to ...

What's the hype with men liking big butts?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - What's the hype with men liking big butts? Something I've noticed the past year or so is that a lot of men seem to be butt men. They like the 'Kim Kardashian' type butt, the big, round butt. Even the majority of my sister and I's male friends hav...