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writes:Hey!So I met this guy on tinder, I've seen him out sometimes. We started chatting a bit for like 2 weeks and saw each other when we were out but didn't talk to each other. Then he started asking me what I was doing during the evenings a couple of times but I didn't respond. We then saw each other and said hi when we were out, and talked etc. We kissed that night and he wanted to go home together but I said no. He texted me afterwards, and the night after but I wasn't out. Then we went to the same club on saturday and ended up talking where he asked for my number. We went home together and slept together but he left seriously right after. He was also really shy the whole night, and a bit awkward. He texted me at some point because I couldn't find my phone, I think it might be because he wanted me to have his number. Now my question is should I text him, because we talked about doing it again and just having a casual thing. He then said some weird things about him being dangerous or something. Really weird. My purpose for texting him would A. smoothe things over so it's not awkward when we meet in the city B. Maybe make him interested? C. Because I'm bored...What do you think? Don't judge and yes I suck at one night stands
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey!
No no, don't worry! He's not a creep like that. We are friends on facebook, and have a lot of mutual friends. Nothing to worry about in a stalker way and stuff.
Yes, I guess I'm not good at the one night thing, and don't want to do that again.
And I'm not really interested in him, just think it was kind of a weird experience.
I'll take your advice and not even bother with this one. It happened, and I'll be a lot more careful in the future, and hopefully I have learned my lesson!
Thanks :) And I know that there wasn't really a question, just had to air some things out I guess...
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 April 2015):
 Don't be stupid. THAT is my advice.
You met him on an app, you know NOTHING about him. And the second time you see him you TAKE him home, so now... he knows where you live... NOT smart.
Have you tried to google him? Or look him up on Facebook?
I don't think he would call himself dangerous just to sounds interesting. THAT would be a turn off for most girls.
Did you get a weird vibe from him? And why bother with this one? You don't seem all that interested in him.
I think you may consider being a bit more careful with whom you bring home. (that is my advice as a mom of daughters).
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2015): Uhm...there's something he said that should have sent up a red-flag!
"He then said some weird things about him being dangerous or something. Really weird."
I think you don't pay attention, and you're reckless with your safety.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 April 2015):
 Hey there! So what is your question?
My cut off point is, could I ask my Mom this question? If not, why not?
And I go back to this question.... what do you want or expect from this relationship?
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