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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

1st pregnancy and I'm a little nervous! How will I know if water breaks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - hi all agony aunts just a question. I am on my 1st pregnancy and so a little clueless about things. im only 28 weeks pregnant but a scan 2 days ago shown that my lil baby was already lying with her head downwards as if she was preparing to be ...

Oral sex with no protection..should I worry about disease?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 April 2014 (M) - I'm in the habit of frequenting sex workers on a weekly basis. Now, I typically use condoms where penetrative sex is concerned but there have been occasions where I've received unprotected oral sex. I've done some research and apparently, it's ...

How much does porn influence a mans expectations of how a woman should look naked?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Ok please help aunts and uncles .... I'm single and ready to date again after a lengthy marriage. I have met a few guys but one really nice one and I'm pretty sure things will become physical soon I'm just a little worried thought as I know he has...

How to encourage my significant other to take care of her skin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - I feel bad saying this but... Sometimes, when I am really close to my girlfriend's face, I feel unattracted to her. Well, I find her attractive at a closer than conversational level. But I tend to analyze every detail, line, and freckle on her f...

Married now and sex life has bombed, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Been married a month, living together 6 months and dating 3 years prior to that. Fabulous sex life until now. It's like as soon as we were married he wasn't interested. There are no worries now except for his job but they're the same worries as b...

His self-harming has led to him cutting me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hi , would love some advice . I was dating a guy for several months and as I got into the relationship I realised the guy had some mental health issues that included self - harming . I tried to be patient and loving as he was finalisi...

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...

I'm scared of my ex and feel extreme fear, panic, anxiety and pain yet I cant seem to get over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 April 2014 (M) - Don't know if this in the right place for this? Anyone who has been through something similar your advice would be gratefully appreciated. Sorry if I'm a bit candid. My ex is a psychiatrist. She was controlling, abusive, cheated on me. She psyc...

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is w...

Girlfriend doesn't drink often, but when she does it's hell! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Hi I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years so it's not something I want to just end. But I'm having a serious problem with my girlfriend and when she drinks. She's far from a alcoholic, she will drink only once or twice every couple of months...

He is out of my life and I want him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Hello guys. It's been a long time since I last posted a question on here, but I've been drawn back to this website as I am currently obsessing over a man who hurt me around 2.5 years ago. Basically, I got into a reflective discussion with ...

How can I tell my ex that he gave me an STI without freaking him out or sounding like I'm blaming him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I found out today that I have an STI. It's common and treatable and hopefully not a huge deal, but I'm still pretty mortified. I had negative test results before I got together with my ex, and I also had a negative test about 6 weeks after we ...

Love or sex? What do you do when they aren't a package deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I need suggestions/opinions please! I am 24, my husband is 32. We have been married about a year and a half, together for 5. He has always had a large collection of porn and used it frequently and I was fine with that. My dilemma is this: for many ...

Dating just 3 weeks, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. Am I right to ask?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy whomImet online for about 3 weeks now and I'm finding that as we're getting to know each other, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. I'm a fairly private, reserved woman a...

New guy I'm seeing admits to having herpes, should I continue seeing him?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Let me start off with giving you some background information; I just got out of a three year relationship (like early this month!) with my first boyfriend. he confessed to cheating on me 1 time 6 months ago, we broke up. I recently got tested and ...

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get...

Too Good to be true? Yet he can be VERY controlling. To the point that he scares me sometimes. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I would like some level-headed unbiased advice on this please. My boyfriend is so good in so many ways but a few traits let him down and I don't know whether these should be deal breakers. We've been together 2 years. I have two children from a...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

I'm done, I want him out, how do I end this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi all, I want to end my relationship with my partner. We have a baby of 10 months and he is drinking again. Binge drinkng, this is day 7 and he has wee'd the bed twice this week. I have weighed up the pro's and con's and the only pro I have ...

Why would his comment about weight bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I've been getting closer to a man online for several months and we are about to meet in person . He knows I am overweight and somewhat worried about him being attracted to me but he had assured me that he feel attracted to me and he too struggles ...

My daughter's boyfriend has turned her against her family!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - For the past nearly 2 years our family has been doing battle with a highly-intelligent, scheming and sneaky cock roach named Adam. My daughter met him 7 years ago, and they had only dated 2 months when we began to see a huge change in her. They ...

I love her and want to be with her, but she's stressing me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - Hi. Basically I'm in a situation and need some advice from someone outside it. My best friends think I should end it but I'm not sure. I met my girlfriend 12 months ago at work and instantly fell for her, we were soon dating and then she got let go ...

How do I get happy with becoming a hermit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - I'm 26 year old male, and I never dated. My biological mother died at age 3, so I never had the proper nurturing to be ok. Socializing is hard for me since I am autistic, and because of my social awkwardness (avoiding eye contact, etc) no girl even ...

Keep thinking about my boyfriends ex irrationally. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi there, Having some trouble with my boyfriends ex. I am 22, he is my first serious boyfriend, and consequently the first guy I felt comfortable enough sleeping with. we've been together about half a year, but for some weird reason I cannot st...

I'm a shy, quiet person and wonder what volunteer or other opportunities I should explore?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I am on Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits that we have here in the UK. I get these benefits from the jobcentre. I have been told my advisor at the jobcentre that I have to do some voluntary work soon. She said that I can choose where to ...

How can I be not so obsessive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi this seems like a really weird question but I need to know what to do. I'm a 15 year old girl and I really like a boyband (not going to say who but it is NOT one direction). The thing is its sorta taking over my life. I listen to their music all ...

My wife's turning into a slob

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - Hi, My wife's tidying habits leave a lot to be desired. We've been married 10 yrs and previously I let it go to young kids and caring for her mum. But now her mum is no longer here and the kids are at school full time. Examples are finishing a ...

I am barely treading water in this relationship, holding on by a thread!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I just found out the other day that my girlfriend of over a year and a half has lost all her passion for the relationship and has been miserable lately and doesn't know how or if we can fix it. My constant worrying of where she's at or what she's ...

I messed up big time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - ok i need advice. My ex bf passed away this year. our relationship was not healthy he was violent and i was co-dependant. I attended his funeral and have visited his family just to see how they are etc. I still have feelings for my ex ther...

My girlfriend is a selfish bitch but I love her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - my gf is a selfish bitch but I still really love her. Ive argued with her a few times over whatwe have said to each other and lately she saidsomething to me and I always have to put up with it but as soon as I say the same thing backshe hates me...

I haven't been able to move on in 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I need some help! I'm currently sat here in tears... most of my weekends pass this way. I broke up with a guy about 3 years ago. I loved him deeply but messed everything up and after a lot of trying he gave up on me. I haven't moved on. I miss him ...

Our passion led to unprotected sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

19 April 2014 (M) - Before I get to my question, I realize there are steps I need to do instead typing my question on this site. I am already ensuring to take them as far as seeking them, but I do have to wait one more week in order for detectable antibodies to begin ...

No longer engaged because of his habit of staring at other women. I don't know what to do!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

18 April 2014 (?) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 years. We generally get on well and plan to live together soon, we got engaged recently - that's on hold now... and I'm really not sure about it all because of one massive aspect of his behaviour. He has had this sta...

Husband says he feels like a prostitute because I want him to have sex with me? What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - My husband does not have a sex drive anymore. We are both young in our mid-twenties. We have been together for nearly 10 years. Our sex life has been at times amazing and at times sparse. I always seem to want it more than him. In the past he has u...

The romance omen and useless love--what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - When it comes to crushes and romance i have nothing but bad luck. I've had so much bad luck i think im a omen the reason i think this is because, everytime i meet someone new or with a friend that is having a bad time with romance within a month of ...

I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

16 April 2014 (?) - Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...

I really don't know what I want to do in life and I feel so useless!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3877 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I really do not know what I want to do with my life and its sending me into a horrible mind state. I've got a degree in business management, I took this opportunity because at the time I was advised it was the best option. However now I'm wishing ...

Feel like I've been dropped by my best friend for no reason. How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I've had a female bestfriend now for about 5 years, shes the only female bestfriend I have and now i'm starting to question our friendship. It had kinda been building up, but now I don't really know how to react to it. ...

I'm 26 weeks pregnant and completely exhausted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - Hi all...im 26 weeks pregnant and exausted!! Im sleeping fine of a night and getting plenty of hours sleep. Im taking pregnancy vitimans and eating and drinking healthy. I have been tested for anemia, low iron ect but all come back clear. Proble...

I just feel hopeless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Ive been involved with this guy (b) who is 16 yrs older than i am, our relationship began my i cheated on my ex (A) with him, but my ex (A) was cheating and treating me badly before i met this guy and i use to complain and tell him what was ...

He initiated things, now he's pulling away. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - I've known him for about six months. I got really close to him very quickly, and he was the one initiating conversations and asking personal questions. I ended up telling him the problems I have (drug addiction, severe anxiety, along with depre...

What else can I do to lift my self esteem? Feel down and that I'm going no where in life, lack motivation and feel unattractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

14 April 2014 (M) - hello, i have quite low self esteem and im not a very confident guy, i dont know if this has anything to do with the size of my penis, i would consider it small , but that may be just me underestimating my self. Its just short of 6inches erect an...

Are my family right to be concerned about my boyfriend's behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is acting weird ( I'm not even sure if we are together actually ). He has Bipolar Disorder. He did something weird last night. He went to my house at 10pm. He had written a note. He knocked on the door, and then put the note through the ...

I feel out of place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3881 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Does anyone have problems with the changes that happen in your life as you get older? When I was younger I was pretty happy in life. In middle and high school I had some close friends and eventually had a first long term boyfriend. W...

How real are those 'hook up tonight' websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I was tempted to lie about my age when I was posting this question because anyone as experienced as I am have must leaned these lessons by now but I have not. When my marriage dissolved I had been with him from the time I was 14 until i was 27. ...

I can't contact my Long Distance Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - okay well i haven't heard from my Long Distance boyfriend in almost 3weeks and he has cancer. and well my phone broke and i don't know how he's doing. I'm worried and well he's in the hospital right now and well he says that his nurses take away ...

I feel so safe when around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Is this sexual tension? There's this older guy at work,and when I'm around him I feel nice, like floaty but I don't think dirty thoughts, when he's there, I just feel peaceful and happy. When he's gone I feel sadness. I want him to show more aff...

I don't like sleeping over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My sister has recommended this site to me because she's been on before. I really hope you can help me :) I am a 28 year old woman and I'm having an issue with the fact I hate staying at my boyfriend's house. I have never liked...

Should I date a guy who does drugs?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

11 April 2014 (F) - Would this put you off someone ?. I met a guy recently. He seems really nice,and it seems like we have things in common, but something happened today which made me feel uncomfortable. I was in a pub with him. Another woman who was in the pub...