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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Social anxiety is keeping me from 'getting out there'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 19 and at uni. Unfortunately, I suffer from very bad social anxiety and I really struggle in new, different and out of the usual situations. I've done a lot of things that other people haven't (I've actually traveled to the othe...

How can I inspire my LDR to drink less?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - I love my girlfriend and she makes me happy but we are in a long distance relationship but we have started reasoning (not fighting) a lot lately. My problem with her is she drinks more than most girls and even more than me. She lives in a small town ...

What is a 'normal' vagina?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and just have a curiosity about what is "normal" about the vagina. Is white creamy discharge normal? What about a smell that seems somewhat strong? I have this discharge everyday. Not a large quantity of it, but it ...

He asked me to get confident enough to initiate sex, but now when I do I get turned down! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months officially, but we met and started dating about a year ago and started dating exclusively and having sex 7 months ago. We took everything in our relationship really slow which was nice. The sex was ...

My Step mother puts me down all the time. It's upsetting me. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. Over the years I've asked lots of questions to the site and the responses have always been very helpful and genuinely caring. Recently my step mom who has always been ...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a ve...

I really miss him. And I realise that he may be ill. How can I connect with him and be a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - There was a guy who I was close friends with, who cut off all contact with me and many others for undisclosed reasons. Personally I think he was suffering from depression - I can't be positive because he hasn't interacted with many people since the ...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

I tried shaving private area with a razor but it grows back too fast. What else can I try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - i feel really self conscious when it comes to shaving down there. i love it to be completely smooth so use a razor, but after a day or 2 it starts to grow back and feels really prickley. however its not long enough to shave without hurting and ...

Is this normal for a menstrual cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hi this is a question for the women I am 25 I started my periods when I was 13 they have always been irregular but I was just wondering if this was normal the past two months I have had my period that lasted three or four days and then four days ...

How do I get out of this shy slump?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - i have this problem with girls. i am 16 and last year at this time this girl and i liked each other. well...... it was the end of the school year and i had many opportunites to ask her out but i wimped out. i havent seen her at all this year accept ...

Air conditioning sickness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I just want to know whether anyone else has this problem. Over the past 10 years, I've worked in a variety of places, but I notice a pattern when I'm working in air conditioned buildings - I always seem so pick up wierd stomach bu...

Can anyone share any success stories after having IVF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I am 28 years old and have been with my partner for 3 years he is also 28. We have been trying for a baby for over 1 year now and have just been told that my partner has a low sperm count and we will need help to have our baby. We are going to have ...

Any ideas for reducing swelling after kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm going to get to the point. Me and my boyfriend like to be a tad rough when we kiss, so it's to be expected for me to have clown lips within a few minutes of making out. Does anyone know anything to make the swelling go down? I would love ...

Am I normal? I don't look like other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - hi there, i dont men to be crude or nasty but i have some questions the average human growth and development book wont answer. i been around various women while we change in the locker and i see them naked. i notice that 99% have a vagina that hides ...

Is this normal for a two-week old baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i have a two week old little girl, and she sleeps all the time, she sleeps most of the night and most of the day and never really wakes up for her bottle we have to wake her up normally , she will drink her bottle, have her nappy changed and then...

Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...

I am ashamed of who I am... help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Please don’t Judge me or anything I did not come here for that I came for help and for someone to help me open my eyes and see that the world is negative place and not everybody is bad. After all no one has control over their feelings. I don’t k...

He's depressed and never responds to my emails or texts, and never answers the phone. How do I deal with my irritated feelings over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently 'went' back to the east coast where he's from, and there's no certainty if he will come back, or when. All of his stuff is still over here with me... but I can easily see him decide to stay over there and have all his stuf...

My husband is a control freak and abusive but I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have been married for two years now. My husband is a very controlling man and extremely domineering. He becomes jelous or angry at me for the most absurd reasons such as me hanging the clothes out to dry when his brother is in the backyard. (his ...

How do I handle the fears of my girlfriend that I will get hurt climbing to the summit? It is my dream to do this climb

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Ok, so next year, I am scheduled to climb to the summit of Mt Everest, the worlds tallest mountain. This has been my dream ever since I was a little boy. I am taking up a particular route to the summit. Yesterday I was watching a video of an area ...

Why am I talking with a guy online who I don't trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid,I am 24 and i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 6months ago. The problem I am having now is that I talk to this guy online. We text,talk over the phone and all. But I have no feelings for him. I just need someone to talk to. I miss ...

I think he needs to accept that he did something while drunk, how do I discuss it with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - I kinda had a small bump with my boyfriend. We did not see each other this weekend which is fine I made this choice, but I called him last night to talk to him for a bit before I went to bed and he was drunk. He was playing a world wide online video ...

What exercises can I do after foot surgery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - I have always been a bit self concious in reguards to my wieght, even more so since i had children. I gained nearly 60lbs with my first, and thankfully only ten with my second that came off when i had him. I then did atkins and lost 30lbs but gained ...

Ex's bad memories, moving on, but wondering if I should still see my ex-stepdaughter and her family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - my drunk ex husband had been married and divorced when I met him, he had 2 kids who lived with his ex and came to stay with us every weekend. I have one child with him. I left him after 3 years of marriage as he was a nasty alcoholic and who was ...

I'm awkward around people. Is this a problem I can fix? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 April 2012 (M) - It's the weirdest thing. I'm just not comfortable around people, even my friends. I mean, I just started really hanging out with them alone, and I find I'm struggling for thing to say and I'm worrying about what they think. Then whenever I do come ...

What kind of guys are likely to be interested in me? My husband wants a divorce. Feels tough right now.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone need some positive advice. I have just turned 40 and my husband has left me and wants a divorce - we don't have any children. I am feeling numb and empty but we have had a bad marriage for a long time. However I am worried that I a...

I don't know how to help my friend any more. Her mood swings are making me sad. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I have this good friend of mine, who has these incredible mood swings and she is bitchy and makes me feel real bad sometimes...no idea why I am friends with her anyway She is moving at the end of the month, but she is really testing my pati...

Can you please help me understand this insecure man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I've been with this guy 4 years and have had a child together, who's almost 3. At first he always accused me of cheating then it went away for years. Last Saturday I went to work at a fundraiser for my daughter's school to build a new play...

What needs to change? I can't get over my negative feelings towards attractive people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - I'm in my late-twenties and have always been considered unattractive... "cute" is the very best I can get. I never get hit on, or flirted with, and guys I date tell me they liked me DESPITE my looks, that my personality makes up for the fact that ...

We split up 2 years ago. How do I get over him? It's getting harder not easier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I split up for 2 years now, I know what you're probably thinking 'you're only a teenager', but I still find myself crying myself to sleep most nights thinking about him. I really try my hardest not to think about him but its ...

Cant perform during sex because I have been so used to masturbating for 20 years!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 April 2012 (M) - Hi this is more of a sex question but Im hoping someone can help. I have been single for many years, and my only sexual outlet has been through masturbation. I have of course become quite used to getting myself off and can get hard quite quick...

I hate food it makes me sick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Hello aunt and uncles this isn't a relationship question but I really feel so alone and haven't found anyone to help me with this. I hate food it makes me feel sick and I always feel disgusted after I have eaten. I feel so down and repulsed. The ...

Excessive drinking is affecting my boyfriend's sexual performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I have posted several questions about love, sex and relationship on this website and have always received good advice. I have been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and everything has been great. There are a few things that I quite dis...

This four year relationship has worn me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I've been with this guy for about four years, we have had our ups and downs. He has always been extremely controlling and I have changed into this person I'm not sure is me. I used to be outgoing, fun, successful, and felt like I had things going ...

How do I liven things up between us? Despite him rejecting my advances regularly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. We were always very passionate and affectionate. A couple months ago, he began to act less and less, however. I realize that this can happen as a relationship progresses, but physical affection and ...

Did he over-react? Was he trying to guilt-trip me? He's 28

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I met this fella January this year, we went on a few dates, got "officially" together mid February time. Now, at times, he would become irritated if I would spend time with my brother and friends rather than with him, despite the fact that I saw him ...

How do I dispell the untrue rumours that I was unfaithful? Should I go to the prom anyway?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - What can I do? My BF and I have been together 2 and 1/2 years. We are now seniors in high school. Our relationship has been very good but had decided to go our separate ways once we went away to college because we both know we need to meet oth...

Is there a place in her heart for me? I love her but I think she wants to go back to her abusive guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - Ok, so i'm bisexual people. Yesterday i realized that i was in love with her, after she found out that her boyfriend had been cheating on her. Now i've met her online, but i feel a connection like no other when i talk to her. I was scared for h...

Am I too hard on my Bf? I don't think he cares enough. And I'm critical, but he is not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I have been in my current relationship for a year next month. My boyfriend goes to a place(two hours away). And there are times when we only see each other 3 times a month. For one he doesn't exactly have any money at the moment and at times I do...

Three Months and this crush is the hardest game I've ever played. Why does he ignore me so often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - I have been carrying on a from what seems on the outside a professional relationship with a man I know from college (not a Professor, in another capacity). Yet, I know deep inside it is more than that. The long gazes he gives me that are too inte...

Do impersonal sex and lack of intimacy cause depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

18 April 2012 (F) - So about 2 years ago i became the roommate of a now 29 year old woman who is beautiful by all accounts. Men are constantly flocking to her. She is charming too, very magnetic personality. Except she has never had a real boyfriend. Why? She prefers ...

Is it safe to masturbate without an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

16 April 2012 (M) - I have recently got into masturbating on and off throughout the day without ejaculating, then only ejaculating once in a while. Sometimes when on webcam or IM with my girlfriend I masturbate for hours straight and I don't always decide to contin...

Condom question, is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I have a condom question.... I was having sex with my boyfriend, and I noticed that when he had pulled out, there was semen both in the end of the condom, but also some had appear to move down the shaft towards the base of the condom. None ...

I feel like a loner, I'm sad and I always lie to people to get attention. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I have been feeling really ugly lately. I am kinda embarrassed cause I'm not really like all the other girls in my school and I feel like no boys in my school like me for that reason. I guess I'm one of those "scene/emo" girls. I don't really like ...

Is this just a rough patch? Will things get better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - Im a 20 year old mom of a 4 year old daughter. And in the past 4 years I have learned that I dont enjoy being a mom. I know that sound brutally honest but I cant help the way i feel. I love my daughter with all my heart dont get me wrong but Im not ...

Does having the urges but not acting on them still make me addicted to sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - So this question is mostly for the ladies but men please comment too. Im a 20 year old young woman and Im wondering if i have a problem. I have this insane attraction to hispanic men. If I wouldnt be considered a whore then I would just "have" them ...

I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...

I've been depressed recently but my boyfriend said he cant deal with me when I'm like this! Shouldnt he be supporting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

16 April 2012 (F) - Is it OK for my boyfriend to seem unable to deal with my new depressed attitude? For the last couple days I've been very depressed due to the loss of a friendship and just life going wrong in general. Because of this, I've became very insecure and ...