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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I cant seem to have relationships like other people....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

31 January 2012 (?) - Hi, I'm lonely and frustrated. I am a natural redhead, men think this either makes me easy or a bitch. I'm neither, i rebuff their advances, i have a preference for women you see. After qualifying as an optometrist i moved to a new city to work. I'...

2 Questions: 'Coming out' advice needed and how to get over a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Ok so this will be really long, I'm sorry I have 2 questions Question 1: I am... well I'm not sure but I think I'm bi or Pansexual. I have been attracted to guys and girls I've had 2 boyfriends 1 of which I never really had feelings for (mention...

Which woman do I pick? My long term gf or the new woman, I feel sexually attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hi im 32 im a gay woman and been with my girlfriend over a year. dont live together yet but we are engaged. thing is we had some ups and downs and i just no longer fancy her and lost my sex drive months ago. i love her so much and enjoy her company ...

My bisexual girlfriend wanted to have a threesome, but the way she worded it makes me feel bad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend told me she fancied a girl we met, and suggested we hit on her together and potentially have a threesome. I said I wasn't interested at the moment, but the issue has been bothering me a lot since. The girl in question was seriously ...

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his ...

14 and not sure if I should come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I am a gay 14 year old and I'm sort of unsure if I should come out. I've known I'm gay since I was 12 and the two years following have been really hard because I've been trying to hide my sexuality because when I was 13 I moved school due to bulli...

Is there a way of asking a guy if he's tested and free of all those things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Sort of embarrassed to ask this, but has been on my mind. So months ago I signed up on a site where I met a man from another country. We have skyped before and talk virtually everyday Now he's told me, he and his boyfriend have an open relationship ...

Does his conduct indicate that he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - I'm the only out gay kid in my class, and one of two in the whole school. So there's this guy in two of my classes this year, but we also had summer school together. He knows I'm gay, as does everyone else, but he still like talks to me and "picks ...

Does she like me or does she already have a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - hi im a lesbian in my 30s. i met this woman through another friend of mine and we have become friends. she does text often and i visit her once a week. we seem to get on well as mates and she seems to like meeting up. nothing happens we just chat as ...

I have a B/f yet I watch lesbian porn movies, does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hi, Well, I have a bit of a problem, I have a boyfriend of a few years now, we want to get married etc. Nevetheless, I have a dirty little secret, I watch lesbian porn movies, does this make me a lesbian? I tend to find women more attracti...

Can a woman eventually turn into a bi-sexual after an age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - Can a woman eventually turn into a bi-sexual after an age? I've been with my partner for about 15 years and she's 37 years old now. She has always told me that she has hated the idea of lesbian sex. But lately she has started tell me that she only ...

Is this girl dropping me hints she likes women or is she teasing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I'm a lesbian and I have this female coworker who I disclosed my attraction to women. She has a boyfriend, but lately she's been licking her lips at me and sticking her tongue out in provocative ways. Maybe I started this when I blew her a kiss. ...

I'm not 'out' yet but I want to tell him I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - I have a crush on this guy but I don't know if he is gay. Me and him sit by each other in class and we mess with each other all the time and I started to like him. Over the weekend I went to his Facebook page and I wanted to see his pictures so I ...

How can I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - There is this guy I like at school and me and him (I wouldn't call it all flirting) but we have been picking with each. I was picking because I started to really like him but I didn't know if he was gay. Well over the weekend I was bored and on ...

Not sure yet. Have I just not met the right person? How can I know my sexual orientation without experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm 20 years old, I have had many crushes on guys since I was young. and I've had 2 boyfriends. the first (when I was 15 - 16) I thought I loved until his exessive pressuring, made me feel really uncomfertable. The second was a nice guy b...

I broke her heart twice, but I'm still in love with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I miss my ex-gf so much. It hurts. Badly. I'm not capable of doing anything anymore. I was the one who ended it and it felt right at the time. It most definitely broke her heart. I keep telling myself it wouldn't have worked out, she's moving to ...

I want to be with this girl, but at the same time, I don't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I'm 16 years old, and I have just recently started experimenting with my sexuality. I've dated plenty of boys but ever since I was young I've wondered how it would be to be with a woman. I started getting closer to one of my good friends and we ...

Do I have a right to be angry with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I need to know if I have the right to be angry. Whats Happened: I was supposed to be going my boyfriend's this weekend to spend some time with him. Friday I would go to his, Saturday we would go bowling with friends and then back to his and the...

My boyfriend has developed a crush on his friend, should I breakup with him or give him time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - My 19 year old (gay) boyfriend of 8 months is everything I could ask for; charming, sweet, kind, lovable. He has been nothing but devoted to me, plus we mean the world to each other. But today he confronted me with his beginning infatuation and ...

Experimenting

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20 January 2012 (F) - I am bi but I fancy girls. I am looking for someone who will help me experiment. What do I do I will get judged at school and bullied even more can you help me with either tips to experiment or with the bullying....

I don't like oral sex but I love my g/f! Can this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I don't like the taste of eating a girl out, but I am definitely a lesbian and incredibly in love with my girlfriend for 2 years. Can this happen?...

I'm having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Hey. I am 18, just so people don't think I am so some fifteen year old. Lol I am in a transgender/lesbian relationship (my girlfriend being the transgender, not that it matters Lol) I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's ex ...

How to keep my new girlfriend from cheating, without seeming over-bearing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - I am a girl, with a girlfriend and we have been together for a month and a few days. I looked at her facebook the other day and a girl she used to have a thing with has been messaging her, and she's been texting her phone also. To keep my girlf...

How should I approach guys I'm interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

19 January 2012 (M) - I'm a gay senior in high school, and though it's not extremely "hard" in the sense that their are (many) homophobes, nobody else is out, to the general public at least. However, I was wondering how to approach a guy, closeted or curious, to maybe ...

Why won't he put me first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I'm a 25 year old gay male (if you hate me already, please move on and don't leave me mean messages!). I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. He is two years younger than I am. We fell in love at first sight and it was amazing and still is ...

I just don't seem to be monogamous. Is this a problem that needs therapy or am I fine, with a different preference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - So I'm 27 years old and I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me. I'm a lesbian by the way, just to get that out and open before I even really begin. I've watched as every single one of my close friends has met someone, settled...

Gay man in a woman's body

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - This is really confusing so please, take the time to read and try to understand. I'm a female but I have an extreme need to be a man, but gay. I don't know if this makes me straight or gay. I've been with both men and women but being with both doe...

Am I too needy or what is really going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - Hi well I am 8 years older then my girlfriend and we haven't been together all that long but I am completely in love with her. We are lesbians I might add however I have to say I have only been in a relationship with one other woman in my life ...

Fair enough she needs time to "heal" from learning I'm gay, but how long does it take?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

15 January 2012 (M) - Its been about 2 and a half years since my mum has asked me if I was gay. She still don't treat me the same as she did before which doesn't help. Seriously how long does she need! She has always had gay friends she's loved her brother who is g...

She's not like any girl I've ever dated, but I don't know what's going on with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

15 January 2012 (F) - I'm usually not one for relationships, I'm barely one for dating, I'm the kind of girl that seems to only get attention from girls with all sorts of baggage like being in the closet, straight and drunk, having girlfriends, husbands, etc, and ...

How do you find out if a man is gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

14 January 2012 (F) - Let's say you like a guy at work and have doubts whether he is gay or straight. Is it a good idea to ask another co-worker (declared gay) about the first one? Can it be that the second guy goes and tells the guy I like about my suspicion? What would ...

I never wanted to be in this gay relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

14 January 2012 (M) - Me and D have been texting and talking on the phone since three years now. Since 1 yr we are in touch on the phone. We have grown so close that I have become too addicted to him. I think about him too much, but these days he cuts off all connections ...

We had a great connection, now he is ignoring me because of family issues. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - I met a guy about 2 weeks ago and started talking on facebook things were going good so we started meeting up in real life. He is incredibly attractive and we spent hours upon hours talking and eventually cuddling and kissing eachother. We'd go out ...

Am I wrong for wanting to end the relationship over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - i just need some basic advice as to how i should handle this situation and if i'm justified for feeling how i do. i've been seeing this girl for a few months now. very slowly at first. very casual. but then it progressed into something more s...

How can I change and show her I want to be there for her 100%?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - My girlfriend has distance herself from me because she feels im selfish and is inconsiderate and when she needs me im not there...what can i do to change that about myself, to let her know i what to be there 100% for her..i do have alot of self ...

My girlfriend is coming to visit me at uni, but I haven't told my friends here I'm gay!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - Hey, Well basically my girlfriend is coming up to see me next week as I'm in uni but my friends don't know I'm gay and I'm scared this will break her heart if I don't tell them who she really is but I'm also really scared to tell my friends I'm g...

I'm a straight guy who's in love with a bi guy! How do I approach him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

9 January 2012 (M) - Hey there, I need help for a mind-torturing situation... I'm a straight guy who's in love with a man.I've known him for 10 years, we occasionally worked together, have friends in common, meet on a regular basis.Since the day we met I've felt a v...

Mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

9 January 2012 (M) - I am confused about this guy I just met. He is 21 and I am 33, secretly gay. We started hanging out and he is sending strange signals. He wants me to go to the doctor with him (v.often now), wants to know my favorite food, picks lint on my clothes, ...

I don't like men, but people want me to find one and get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

8 January 2012 (F) - well, here is the thing. i know i am bisexual, more close to lesbian than straight, and i'm totally ok with myself. but from my family, my brother knows, my father might know(he might have seen me with a girl) and my mom is completely homophobic, ...

I kissed a guy today. But now I'm freaking out. How do I deal with my confused feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

7 January 2012 (M) - I kissed my friend today. We are both the same age, it felt really nice. That was hours ago and now i am feeling really low about it all. I think we were both half expecting the other to punch when it happen but we really did kiss. It just happened ...

Will she realize how much she hurt me and contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - Ok a few weeks ago i was telling everyone and asking for help in the area of love . I find myself still going around in circles and dating but nothing in my heart is ringing my bell as they would say . I met a gal december of 2010 and have also had ...

I wanna profess my lesbian love to my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - Hello I'm Korean so u might dont understand some sentences. sorry! I'm biesexual and I had my first luv with my best friend 3 years ago. Our first meeting was in the middle. We were really really close and we always hang out together. When I...

He has two sides and I fear of the evil one! Do I ask him to leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 January 2012 (M) - My story is very complicated but I really need advice on what to do. I am 26 years old im about to start Grad School. I was raised in a very Christian home which I am proud of because of the values my parents set. The issue is Im Bi-Sexual and ...

I want to be her friend, but I can feel this chemistry between us. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - Hi peeps! Ok so I am slightly confused at the moment... I have become good friends with someone I work with I will call her X, so anyway we have done a few things together outside of work, we talk all the time on the phone. I have noticed recently...

How can I stop making a fool of myself with this guy I had a fling with a while back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

6 January 2012 (M) - I had a gay guy fling back in 1997. At that time I didn't know what I wanted. But recently I got in touch with this guy through fb... I can't figure him out, he will not answer my texts nor take my phone calls. Yet he had the cheek to send two...

What is more important? Her wellbeing or my sanity? Help...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - i am a bisexual girl and i just got out of a 2-year "weird thing". well it was definately not a relationship but not friendship either... when i met her we both became interested in each other but we were both seeing people. when some months later i ...

We can't be public about our relationship and its really getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating a girl for nearly three months now and she is a Mormon and I am not. I am 19 and she is 26 and her whole family is Mormon and its all she really knows but knows she is bi but has never had a girlfriend before. I am her first ...

How do I get things back to the way they were with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

2 January 2012 (M) - I am 16 of age, and Gay. I have not come out to any one ever. I had a crush on a guy in my school. People always assumed that he was gay, and so did I. I started chatting with him last vacations over facebook. It turns out that we were similar in ...

I'm a boy and I like the guy that helps me in History. How do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

2 January 2012 (M) - I'm an 18 years old boy and I'm bi. I've got a guy that helps me in History and he's 28 and, to be honest, I really like him as a man. I'm 99.9% sure he's gay, based on the way he acts, speaks etc and sometimes, when he's into his teaching very much ...