A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm 16 years old, and I have just recently started experimenting with my sexuality. I've dated plenty of boys but ever since I was young I've wondered how it would be to be with a woman. I started getting closer to one of my good friends and we kissed. We talk to each other like were a couple.... But I don't know how to handle this. I'm confusing her with my actions. One day I tell her things that a couple would say to each other and the next I act like I'm only attracted to men and act like I haven't even kissed her. We've kissed a few times!! The thing is... I'm very scared of what people will think of me. Especially my Mom. I'm not a lesbian but I'm scared my Mom will never trust me around girls again if I start a relationship with this girl. I don't know what else to tell this girl. I want to be with her but at the same time I don't.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (21 January 2012):
If its you that does not want to be with her and its not about the fear from your Mom, then its probably a good idea to stop.
Simple math. A positive plus a negative is a negative.
Is saying "I'm not a lesbian" really being honest with yourself?
If you are not a lesbian, don't kiss girls. If you are kissing one, then admit it. I am not going to tell you the right or wrong of the matter, I am just asking you to be honest with yourself.
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