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writes:I'm a gay senior in high school, and though it's not extremely "hard" in the sense that their are (many) homophobes, nobody else is out, to the general public at least. However, I was wondering how to approach a guy, closeted or curious, to maybe get with, either long-term or short term?I know that high school isn't exactly teeming with gay, bi, or curious guys, but I know a few I'd maybe be interested in. I mainly want to know if a guy, in general, is down; how do I go about asking?Or do I not actually ask, but rather sort of imply or flirt my way to my goal?Thanks for the help!
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reader, RSV97  +, writes (28 January 2012):
I'm gay too and also in high school. The way I've got guys to know I'm into them is that I just came out even though I'm faced with bullies other people stick up for me and I'm more popular because of this and there are guys that are friends with me but I also noticed some guys flirting subtly with me and I flirted back and that's how I got my boyfriend but if your not comfortable coming out just flirt with the guys you like they may flirt back.
Hope this helps.
Good Luck x
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (19 January 2012):
 Hi
I dont think you should ask out right, a little wouldn't harm :) just to see were the water lies so to speak. You see as you would understand many guys dont want to come out of the closet, and actually cant get really nasty if approached by a gay guy, almost to the point of abusive behaviour so as to guard there secret. However if you feel you know a couple of guys that arent like this then go for it :)but just be cautious as to who you see, because if you just want casual fun you will only end up finding your life very difficult to settle down in the future. Find someone who will love you and respect you, and not just for a bootie call
hopw this helps xx
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