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writes:I kissed my friend today. We are both the same age, it felt really nice. That was hours ago and now i am feeling really low about it all. I think we were both half expecting the other to punch when it happen but we really did kiss. It just happened and neither of us pulled away. I do notknow we should do it again or if he would want to do it again. If my Dad had walked in he would have freaked out. Talk about being scared of wanting to kiss him now i feel 10 times worse because i have kissed him. I cannot stop thinking about this, just wish he did not have to go home when he did. We could have talked about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): Thanks, had a really nice day today. You can all probably guess why.
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (8 January 2012):
The first question really is, was it just a spur of the moment thing or had you wanted to kiss your friend prior to it happening?. I would take things one step at a time before saying anything or worrying what your parents think. At the end of the day you can't always please your parents, you might have brought a GF home and they don't like her etc.
What you need to do is start the voyage of self discovery and start to understand your own sexuality, this takes time and you might not decide until your are at least 19. Don't worry about it or feel pressured to label yourself until you are comfortable with who you are.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 You kissed him because you are attracted to him. Nothing wrong with that. You are freaking out because you are afraid to realise that you could be gay. You are also getting a self loathing feeling because of the prejudices associated with being gay. Experiment a bit more to see if you are really gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): LOL, Must of hit wrong year, i am 15
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): hey man, i think you shouldn't worry and just go with the flow. if your dad loves you then he'll understand. if you and this guy are destined to be together then something will happen. if not it won't! don't push force yourself into anything and just keep cool!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): Like you said, it just happened, that's because its in both your subconscience, you both wanted to kiss each other. All you can do is talk to him and find out how he feels about. Instead of feeling low just see it as an experience to be ticked of your list. Lots of guys do but just don't talk about it.
If your dads truly loves you I'm sure everything will work out fine.
All the best, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): i completelelly agree with marieclaire... i was scared to death that my dad would find out about me and my bisexuality but when he did(he was standing out of my window when me and my gf were fooling around) he was shocked but respected my choice. he was a homophobic too long ago... you don't have to tell your dad but he might actually be more understanding than you think
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