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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He says he has a flirty personality. Why is he giving me mixed signals? Could it be that he's scared to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Bear with me, this is a little long but he's giving mixed signals, Yesterday I had a date with the his guy, he picked me up, bought me coffee, we had a great time and he messaged me later that afternoon and we talked for an hour or so. Today,...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

I don't want to be her second best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I have a problem and I really need some help. Basically I have this friend and she she's my best friend and were so close, like we see eachother whenever we can. We cuddle and kiss eachothers cheeks and stuff were so close. But the problem in ...

The man I am dating refuses to introduce me to his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Thanks for ur replies so far concerning my previous question.i am a 25yrs and the guy is 36yrs we've been dating over a year now becos when he ask my hand in marriage as at last year i refused becos i dont know much about him before i excepted him ...

How do I ask my lesbian friend to date me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

30 October 2015 (M) - I am a junior in high school, and I have a friend that I really, REALLY like. There's just one problem: she's lesbian. Well, from what she says, she's more bisexual, just on the women's side. I do a lot for her, just because she's my friend. I rec...

What can I do? I want to kiss him but I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I have this friend of mine and we've been close for some time. I went to see him some time last year and then we had our first kiss but i didnt want to go further cos i was dating at that time. Now am single again and i went to see, in the cour...

Newly single, confused and need help! Does it sound like he has any interest in me outside of friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'm newly single and had been in a 10 year relationship since I was 18. I'm the first to admit that I'm not sure what I'm doing when it comes to men as I haven't dated my entire adult life. I recently met a man whilst on a business t...

Why is this happening now? Two years later? Now I'm plagued with dreams that remind me of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - hi everyone. Some advice would be great. Cut a long story short my partner had an affair nearly two years ago now. We had been together for four years at the time, we both weren't happy and then I found out the reason why- he had had a six week a...

Should I arrive as soon as the party starts? Or should I arrive at a time that is normal for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and his friends are throwing a very nice party in a couple of weeks. My boyfriend and I will be arriving separately. He with his friends and me with mine. The party starts at 10. Should I be there as soon as it starts like a...

How do you cope with the social pressure to get a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (M) - I'm 27 and haven't been in a relationship. Although, I'm average looking enough that I probably could be if I wanted to. But more and more people around will tell me to get into a relationship: my parents, my siblings, and my friends. I don't re...

Should I say something to this guy's girlfriend about what transpired between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - So, a few years ago I was at a friend's birthday party. I was several weeks post-break up and very narrowly missed possible rape that evening. I was very shaken up. There was a friend who started comforting me - we talked through the night before ...

Why these feeble attempts to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - I left my ex due to feeling taken for granted and when I brought that up I was blamed for trying to mess up the relationship. At that point I understood that he was not afraid to lose me. With all feelings for him still in my heart I broke up w/him. ...

I would like to get involved with my best friend but even though she encourages me I am afraid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I've known this bisexual girl for a year now and she became my best friend after we flirted together. We talk about everything: her girlfriends, her boyfriend, mine too etc Today i mentioned wanting to date a beautiful girl l...

Should I stop talking to her altogether and if I see her should I ask for any explanation re the bar incident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

25 October 2015 (M) - Never been in this situation before so I thought I'd ask for the insight of those perhaps more experienced than myself. So, I've been texting this girl I met met at a bar for about a month. So on the 15th we had drinks, made out, etc. So I hit ...

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference an...

My lady friend couldn't accept that my wife was in my life and ended things. I miss her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 October 2015 (M) - Hi People I am married but separated and live alone. My wife and I continue to be friends and I spend a lot of time with her and our 2 girls. Sometimes we share vacations. We go back a long way and I cannot imagine not having her in my life. 6 y...

Do I stay friends with people who sneak around behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

23 October 2015 (M) - Hi agony aunts, I recently had two female housemates move in (about 2 months ago) and started hooking up with one of them for a few weeks until she decided it wasn't what she wanted. In this time I had developed some pretty strong feelings for her ...

Should I contact this friend to see if we actually still are friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - Okay, I'll try and make this as short as possible. So, I met this guy back in July online and we got close, (or at least I did). We spoke everyday for almost 2 months and then kind of spiraled down to once a week. I asked him if he was annoyed by me ...

I miss my online friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - I met a guy online. He seems genuine.. has told me his entire life story which was quite sad... so I'm trusting its true. We used to talk often but now we have stopped and I even took the step of removing him from my friends list on Facebook. But I ...

Do I have reasons to be frustrated with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - Im currently frustrated with my boyfriend. Can you please let me know if I have reason to be frustrated or I'm just totally pms-ing? My boyfriend's friend got into an accident and needed to bring his car to get fixed at the autobody shop. My boyfr...

How does one tell if a person is a true friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3321 days ago

18 October 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a bit of a unique situation. Some of you may recall it. I've been out of high school for 16 years and one of my former teachers left teaching at the school the year after I graduated to raise her children. I went back to vis...

I want to feel whole, and satisfied and fulfilled.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hello all, I am a 28 year old working female. I am single and haven't seen anyone for a while. There are many reasons for this so let me explain. 1) I was dating a guy.. for about a year. I was deeply in love with him... Even though ...

Do I risk looking rude if I refuse to hug in future? Or do I have to fit in and do something I feel uncomfortable doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - Hi all, I come from an Asian country, where hugging is not common. I will be moving to Europe next year for my studies, and perhaps work there. I've lived there for half a year before. During that period of time, I met many people and they ...

Checkout confusion - flirting or just friendly customer service?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - There's a cute cashier at the grocery store I frequent in my town. It has been a LONG time since I dated or even really flirted with anyone and I'm not sure how I'd signal my interest to someone I don't know that well or only in a "profess...

There's a connection but how do I keep this this dynamic on a track towards a successful business relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3324 days ago

15 October 2015 (F) - I met this guy last winter. It was clear that we both had an instant connection to each other, but we were both in the middle of failed marriages, so we did not pursue anything. Instead, we started collaborating on work related projects. (Each of ...

I'd like advice on how to get to know her as a friend, without flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

14 October 2015 (M) - Let me start off by stating that I'm sure this woman isnt relationship material, I know it wouldn't work. I'm asking this question here because I know there are people here who may have experienced some similar things/feelings at some point or ...

Does this virgo guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - The story is he used to like me a few years ago and I turned him down because I was seeing somebody then, and he said he was gay. Fast forward a few years now I like him and I told him, when I told him he said we would talk about it but we never di...

He thinks I don't like him. I'm feeling cautious about dating. What do I need to consider if I do date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - I'm a single mum to my 5 year old daughter. I have raised her on my own since she was born and I have been on my own since her father left me. I joined a dating site but I've found a lot of guys don't like the idea of a 23 year old with a 5 year o...

Five years together. Am I just staying with him because I'm scared to be alone? Or are my doubts due to the other guy's crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Hi, it's been a while. I have been with the same guy for going on five years now... In those five years we have split up (once) for a period of about three months. We have been back together since last October, so for about a year now... That b...

How can I ask my friends to set me up for blind dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - How can I ask my friends to set me up on dates? So I am definitely at the right stage where I want to meet new people, thing is I'm really shy so I don't know many people. So how can I get my friends to set me up on blind dates....

I'm not having much luck making friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

10 October 2015 (F) - I'm someone who has always felt very lonely. I know that must sound pathetic coming from a young female. My parents divorced when I was very young, and I'm an only child. I only have one grandparent left (my grandmother) but she lives very far a...

My best friend likes the co-worker that I've been flirting with and wants to know if he likes her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Where I work is most females but we do have a few male coworkers. All of whom are either married or a lot older then most of us younger ladies, so when we had a new starter who is good looking, friendly and single, a lot of the girls made a play for ...

I don't like this guy as anything but a friend but he doesn't get the hints

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm looking g for some advice on boys. I have begun college and have started late so the others have already made friends. My course has a higher percentage of boys to girls. One of the boys has started messaging me on Facebook and I have ...

Why would he lead me on to think we would have a future together and yet now he's seeing one of my friends? I'm heartbroken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Hey, can someone help me make sense of this? I'm heartbroken. I was meant to meet a guy out travelling really soon. He went out a few months back for a year and I was going to go meet him once I'd saved enough money. We have a lot of history ...

How can I get this other guy (''Dave'') to talk to me more? While also discouraging the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3331 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for some advice on boys. I have begun college and have started late so the others have already made friends. My course has a higher percentage of boys to girls. One of the boys has started messaging me on Facebook and I have r...

Don't want this to backfire. Would sharing a room, with my male colleague, be risky for this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - A co-worker/friend and I are going on a weeks long vacation together since its a place we found we both were dying to visit but had no one to go with. The topic of hotel/hostel rooms came up, he specifically asked if we could just share a room. I ...

My trust is wavering with my girlfriend. I see her standing way too close to another man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

7 October 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, Long story short, I met this amazing woman at the hospital I work at (a nurse), and we have been talking since the beginning of the year. She says she loves me, and her son looks up to me like a father. I honestly felt we had a solid f...

I think we'd make a cute couple but worry that we are friend zoned

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - Hello. I've known this guy for over eight months now. We started talking casually through mutual friends, we both flirted, hung out a lot (some people actually thought we were dating at this point) and finally we got really comfortable with...

Do I listen to my gut? I want a committed relationship. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years, I went through his phone (I know I shouldn't be doing that!!) and found out he had a girl stay over at his place recently.. lets just say he lives in a studio. I confronted him and he told me ...

He doesn't want to hurt the feelings of his ex?? Is that a poor excuse to give to the new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - This is the scenario: Guy breaks up with his girlfriend of a few years. They remain friends. They start hanging out and talking on the phone as soon as a few weeks after break up. A few months later, he dates someone new. A new girl he appears ...

Does he like me? I am not sure. But I really like him. So what can I say to him to advance things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Hi I am a very shy person. I blush quite easily, I went on a second date with a guy who I really like, however I'm quite a quiet person so I don't think he's very interested in me. He messaged me the day after we met saying 'it was nice to see ...

Should I continue to date and build a relationship with someone newly divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I am dating someone who got out of a divorce about 5 months ago due to the wife cheating (more than once). Before his divorce, we were just friends for about 2 years. I am torn on going any further with this. We are not in any type of commited...

I'm feeling confused about my LDR with my ex-boyfriend who is also a long term friend.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - We both had crushes on each other in middle school, and formed a friendship. We attended different high schools, but always kept track of each other through mutual friends. In our late 20’s we dated and had an intimate relationship. He was not ...

Why do people say a couple is being ''selfish'' if the couple make a conscious decision to have one child only?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Why do people consider you selfish for making the choice to only have one child? My boyfriend and I have thought hard about this. We have decided to have only the one child when we marry. It's a thought out decision. We are both self employed a...

Friends and family tell me to date the younger guy who's actively pursuing me, but I can't stop thinking about someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3335 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm writing this because I need opinions of people that aren't my family/friends. Basically I was in a relationship for around 8 years, from the age of 14 to around 22. It ended because my life got busier and he'd moved away a few...

I want us to return to being just friends. I've apologized. Yet despite that why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

4 October 2015 (M) - I have a very close friend (a girl) who I have known for almost 6 years now. During the time that I have known her I watched her grow and mature into the young adult she is now. I find her to be attractive and I am especially attracted to her body...

I really do love her but I am troubled by something that happened four months ago. Is this a reason to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

3 October 2015 (M) - So I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months and I found about 2 months in she cheated with another guy and had sex. She was very drunk and doesn't remember a thing. I've talked to people that were with her that night and they all say it wasn'...

He booked tickets to come visit me, but I don't want him to visit me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I was traveling Western Europe for a month with a friend and when we were in Lisbon, we stayed at the same hostel for about 3 nights. I got to know one of the guys from the reception, we were making out one evening (me intoxicated), and the next...

He's an adult. I am 16, Should I politely let him down? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - I was out last night with friends and this guy approached me and began asking me things about myself and it was clear he was interested. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. Problem is he's 21 and I'm 16 and he wants to meet up (in a public...

Why do guys say romantic things, just to dump you into the friend-zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

3 October 2015 (F) - Aunts, This guy I've been dating admittedly not very long, little over a month, just told me tonight that basically I'm in the friend zone. I'm annoyed because he says things like I like you more and more everyday and he sent me a sweet card abo...