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Should I contact this friend to see if we actually still are friends?

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Question - (21 October 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2015)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, I'll try and make this as short as possible. So, I met this guy back in July online and we got close, (or at least I did). We spoke everyday for almost 2 months and then kind of spiraled down to once a week. I asked him if he was annoyed by me but he told me not to worry about it and that I'm a "good friend". A couple weeks later, he blocks me on Skype without telling me a reason. I was devastated.I didn't know what I did wrong, it was a Skype glitch, or if he blocked me on accident or it was intentional. So I freak out about it for a couple days and my brother; who was only trying to help; decides to send him a Skype call to either prove me wrong or try to fix whatever was wrong. I ended the call, but it was too late. He didn't answer but he would see it in his "Recent" messages. By this point, I'm positive the friendship us over for good; until the next day, I find he has unblocked me. Now I am more confused than ever and worried that he only did it to make me feel better. I haven't spoken to him and I don't want to make him feel "forced" to be friends with me if he doesn't want too. Should I try and confront him about it? I have prepared myself for the worst; It'll still hurt but I will at least get a reason why he wants to cut me off (most likely). So, should I contact him or leave it be? I would like to save the relationship if at all possible.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 October 2015):

olderthandirt agony auntOdds are, at this point "the relationship" is all done. You have to nurture any relationship to keep it alive or else it goes down as a fond memory.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 October 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntYou would like to save WHAT relationship?

you spoke to this guy online only right?

you never met in person?

do you have each others phone information?

if not, it was just fun and games and time wasting and you should let it go and move on and forget about him.

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