Should I contact this friend to see if we actually still are friends?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, I'll try and make this as short as possible. So, I met this guy back in July online and we got close, (or at least I did). We spoke everyday for almost 2 months and then kind of spiraled down to once a week. I asked him if he was annoyed by me but he told me not to worry about it and that I'm a "good friend". A couple weeks later, he blocks me on Skype without telling me a reason. I was devastated.I didn't know what I did wrong, it was a Skype glitch, or if he blocked me on accident or it was intentional. So I freak out about it for a couple days and my brother; who was only trying to help; decides to send him a Skype call to either prove me wrong or try to fix whatever was wrong. I ended the call, but it was too late. He didn't answer but he would see it in his "Recent" messages. By this point, I'm positive the friendship us over for good; until the next day, I find he has unblocked me. Now I am more confused than ever and worried that he only did it to make me feel better. I haven't spoken to him and I don't want to make him feel "forced" to be friends with me if he doesn't want too. Should I try and confront him about it? I have prepared myself for the worst; It'll still hurt but I will at least get a reason why he wants to cut me off (most likely). So, should I contact him or leave it be? I would like to save the relationship if at all possible.

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