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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm looking g for some advice on boys. I have begun college and have started late so the others have already made friends. My course has a higher percentage of boys to girls. One of the boys has started messaging me on Facebook and I have replied as I'm trying to make friends. I think he likes me as in more than a friend due to him constantly trying to invite me to his despite the fact we don't know each other very well (suspicious?) I don't like him in that way whatsoever and I just want to be friends.i find him a little annoying as he gets mad if I don't reply to his messages. We haven't talked about our lives he just asked me if I was single then keeps asking me to go to his (I keep making up things to stop me going:work etc) I'm a virgin and am not willing to sleep with this guy despite the fact it feels like that is all he wants. I want my first time to be with someone I love and know really well, not him I have had a previous relationship that lasted 3 months (nothing happened) but it ended when he got mad at me for not going g to party and sleeping with a girl as revenge. Since then I've noticed that I really like my own space and feel like his constant texts violates this. If anything I quite like his friend. When I've had lunch with him he's always been with his friends (5 of them) and he doesn't talk a lot but his friend does (let's call him Dave). Dave is more attractive to me and he has a similar sense of humour to me so I find myself laughing at him a lot. He's also really Dow. To earth.Please help me get this guy to back off and get "Dave" to talk to me more instead
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2015): When I was your age I found it hard just telling a guy I didnt like to just cut this kind of crap out! I'd just try and be nice and nit make them mad that I didnt reply. But if he keeps up with this rubbish that he gets mad when you don't reply you just need to put your foot down. If you aren't firm with him he will keep on like this.
It's not nice getting unwanted attention from somebody you don't like and I dont know if you should even try being friends with him as he sounds quite annoying.
Next time he gets annoyed with you ignoring him just tell him to stop texting. Why should you have to put up with him being that way. He needs to be told.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (8 October 2015):
 Do you think any of the problem might be in your use of social media? I have never known a woman who couldn't make her feelings clear when she needed to. What is stopping you? You might try a phrase like, "Look mate you are probably an OK guy, but I'm not interested", and see how that goes.
And stay off social media - not only do so many misunderstandings start there - but it's not real life.
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