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26-29,
*osellaB
writes:The story is he used to like me a few years ago and I turned him down because I was seeing somebody then, and he said he was gay. Fast forward a few years now I like him and I told him, when I told him he said we would talk about it but we never did. Instead he started holding my hand while walking, hugging me from behind around the waist and hugging me and lifting me, teasing me more, complimenting me more, walking me to the car, getting very happy in his pants every time he hugs me (if you know what I mean :) He also gets very possessive about me. When I was gone for two weeks he was like "where were you?! were you off dating other guys?!" and also he wants to hear compliment from me as well, he also touches my waist and pulls me into him. In the beginning of the year he said he was asexual. He went from being gay to bi to asexual so I don't know
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (14 October 2015):
 being a vergo has little to do with anything. I just don't think he's all that great of a catch. So, why not just move on?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (13 October 2015):
 I would assume that he likes you well enough to hug you and to tease you about being away and seeing other guys, but he doesn't like you well enough to actually ask you out or ask you to be with him as a proper girlfriend.
His label for his own sexual preference has changed quite a bit so I would just assume he needs private time to figure it out. In the meantime, I would not wait around for him, I would carry on living your life and going on dates with other guys who are available and actually interested enough to ask you out.
As for the happy in his pants thing? Well, that's really a good indicator of whether or not he wants you as a girlfriend. I have heard that men get erections in the most awkward times, it's an involuntary response.
He is however, able to voluntarily ask you out and he hasn't done that.
P.S. I had a friend like him in college and he actually had a girlfriend, but then broke up with her, said he was bisexual, and then eventually came to terms with things. He was gay. He's a great guy and we are still friends and will be close for the rest of our lives! :)
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