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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Forever single?. How do I learn to be more comfortable with girls? How or when or where can I touch a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - How do I touch girls? I have been forever single. In order for me to have a girlfriend she needs to see that other girls are comfortable round me. The problem is I fear them all so much that I can't remember the last time ( if it even exists ) tha...

How do I handle my best friend who is convinced that I had sex with her husband when this is not true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - My best friend of 35 yrs has accused me and her husband of having affair. We never had a misunderstanding not once .her husband texted me about 3:45 am one morning asking me to listen to him. He and my bestfriend had been arguing so he wanted me...

I may have been friendzoned, so what's the best way to tell her I want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - This girl and I have been friends for quite a while (six months). I flirted with her in the beginning but she turned me down because she said that she couldn't date two people from the same company she worked at(she currently doesn't work there ...

Was this behaviour rude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - HI everyone, So, I have a friend that asked if I wanted to meet up today. I told her I had a wedding to go to. She headed downtown (a 40 min drive) to hang out and asked to meet up after the wedding. So after the wedding I message her to let...

I'm worried I may be paranoid about them laughing behind my back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Basically I met this group of girls through my job. I've been there about 8 months now and I would like to think I get on with everyone, however, generally I just do my work and go home. I don't do 'office gossip' if you will. I am quite introverted ...

I think I like my BEStfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I think I might have a crush on my bestfriend, we flirt sometimes with each other But We never catch ourselves.. it just comes naturally, anyways we've been bestfriend for like 2 years And I think Im starting to Develope a crush on her, because I ...

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when...

I feel weird asking him after an hour. what do you think he meant by his remark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I texted my friend a video about gardening (he loves gardening), and told him it reminded me of him. And he texted it was funny because anytime he sees a cool math video (I love math) he thinks of me and I think of him when I see garden...

Why is my friend treating me like this after I helped her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Why is my friend doing this? Am I overreacting? So when my friend had no money and needed to get her hair done I took her to salon where I do my hair and paid for her to get it done, Cause she's my friend and was just trying to help her. ...

Touching someone's face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Okay, I will be as quick as I can. There's this guy who's one year older that I've knwon since the begining of the year. Well the thing is that we started to have little conversations during classes and he would tease/make fun of me (I must admit I'...

Could he like me? Or would he just use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Hi So I liked someone for three years in college and never had to courage to tell him. But I'm pretty sure he knew and didn't act on it. Which is fine, I mean if he doesn't feel the same way. It took me a long time to get oer this passive rej...

Is this starting to become a love triangle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Is this starting to become a love triangle? A couple of years ago, I met a married couple who became my friends (the woman more than the man). I too am married. With time, I found my friend's husband increasingly attractive, and noticed he is so...

I like messing around with this guy but don't want to have full sex with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3728 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Hi. Just to note, my age is I will be 21 in a few weeks. So I have known this guy since we both went to the same school for a year age 15/16 (him being in the year above me) and during that time we were casual friends, he was a cool loner type who...

My feelings are all jumbled between ex boyfriend and current room mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was ...

I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Do I love her or is it just a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I first saw her. She is beautiful but so are many of the tens of thousands of girls on campus. Even though I was shy to even talk to her at first I got to know her and she is extremel...

High school Homecoming: I need advice, which girl might be the best choice to ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - Hey people of DC, Forge is back again... with more high school "fun." Ready to help? The issue is Homecoming. By far the biggest school event I've been to. The dance, pep rally, football game, you know, eventful stuff. I have time on this, than...

New school, new friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

27 August 2014 (M) - So I changed schools during the summer and the only person i know is my cousin. Well I get kind of lonely without my friends. As you can probably tell im kind of shy. Can someone please give me some advice on how to make new friends. Thank you!...

Expecting a baby with Bf. Looking for accomodation. Bf suggested adding a female room-mate. I said no. Was I wrong to say no to his idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are currently apartment hunting. We are expecting a child in a few months and have been looking for a 2 bedroom apartment with little luck. The other day he messaged me telling me that one of his female coworkers was looking ...

She said she's not into sex but now seems to want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - I have known this woman for 20 years. We are now both divorced. We've been dating basically just to get out of the house and we enjoy each others company. The first date we went out on, she stated she's not into sex out of no where. I thought gee I ...

Would you start a relationship with a good friend who asks, "If we're both not married by 30 then will you marry me?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I have a very good friend. He was my first love, 10 years ago, and we have kept in touch ever since. He means a lot to me, I love him, we usually get on and he makes me howl with laughter. We also have similar interests and ideals etc. Basically ...

A drunken night of kissing and cuddling meant nothing to my friend! How do I respond back to him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, i hope you can help!! I'll try and make this as short as i can! Ive been friends with this guy since school (like when we were from about 10) and a year ago we reconnected as friends and even though he was at uni out of london, whene...

Does it matter that my boyfriend never confronted his friend's creepy behavior toward me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - When my boyfriend and I first started talking to each other, before we had any titles or anything, he invited me to a party at his friends house. It was going to be the first night we spent together so I was pretty excited. I invited my good friend ...

My boyfriend's friend is trying to get him to cheat. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, we did have a 11 week separation back last year and got back together in February. This separation was due to a change in circumstances and in this break we both dated other peop...

I've fallen for her but I'm afraid if I push it she'll walk away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3732 days ago

25 August 2014 (M) - Ok so before I ask for advice a lil background on my female friend. Ten years ago we had a short relationship she was 19 I was 21 and she was my friends lil sister. She ended up breaking it off to see someone else, ten years later we become best ...

Should I let my former best friend back into my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I met a girl at college and we instantly became really close. She was the same age as me, and we just got on really well. She has four children and from what she told me, an abusive partner. I helped her as much as I could, but I was beginning to ...

Is she interested , or just flirty ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - So I need I little advice here . I've recently became interested in a friend that I've had over the years but no recently have I become interested in her . She's older than she being 25 and I being 23 . The problem is I don't know if she is ...

I think he blocked me but I'm unsure why! Should I try to find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - So aunts and uncles, I asked a question a few weeks ago about a guy I talk to in New Jersey, whom I planned on pursuing when I got up there. He's my best friends brother, and we've hung out and what not when he comes down here to visit family.. ...

I regret letting the moment pass ......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - Hi Guys I like a girl at work. She is one of the girls there who is very pretty and most guys try to flirt with her. I however don't do that much cause I am much senior to her (11 years) but there is always teasing and some tension between us. Last...

I told him I like him, his answer has me confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I finally told him I like him, I couldn't look at him straight in the eye because I was embarrassed to admit it first. And surprisingly, he said I like you too. But then when I asked what he meant in case I misinterpret it, he said I like you not as ...

I don't know if I can trust him. Should I remain friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I am a bit confused and I need your advice. So anyways, I have a guy friend. We have been friends for years and he has a gf. Recently his gf when away and our friendship has gotten deeper, I have a sorta crush on him but I'm i...

Am I not supposed to show my feelings? I am at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

23 August 2014 (M) - I don't know what to do with my girlfriend anymore. I feel like I'm always failing, even when I don't know why or what I did wrong. I picked her up from work the other night with a bouquet of flowers, trying to be sweet. We went back to my place...

What could be behind the nickname he has given me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3734 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - A few years ago there was a guy I used to talk to, but things didn't end on good terms. Long story. He got in contact with me a few weeks ago and we have been talking everyday since. I'm cautious because of my past experience with him, but so far so ...

My family and friends dislike my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - It seems like everyone wants me to end things with my boyfriend, and that only I can see how amazing he is to me. I feel like I'm losing everyone, family and friends, over this. Please help me! So some background on the situation. I knew my boyfri...

Want my best friend to fancy me but I am in happy relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I met both my best friend and boyfriend on dating websites. I have known both for about a year and a half and my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. My boyfriend is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I love him to bits and ...

She told him she used to have a crush on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (M) - Should i be worried that my girlfriend (and mother of my child) told her guy friend on Facebook that she used to have a crush on him in high school? Not sure why she would choose now of all times to admit that to him, but nevertheless its got me ...

My friend is trying to set me up in a LDR but I don't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - So my friend is trying to set me up in a long distance relationship. The problem is that im not ready for a relationship and especially not long distance. Im 14. He is really really eager about it and I really do appreciate the effort and the ...

Social priorities are just garbage now! Why have people become so messed up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles, forge here. I have realised that in society today, things between men and women are getting very ridiculous, and I want to know why. These are some points I think are good, and I'm sure someone out there will agree. This is ...

Experiences with losing your virginity in a one night stand or to a FWB??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - So recently I was asked by a friend I have know since I was five if I wanted to have sex with him in a fwb kinda thing. My problem with this is that I am virgin. I'm just wondering what are some experiences anybody has had with losing their ...

The girl I like hardly replies to my texts, but once I stopped texting she wanted to know why I was ignoring her! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I Like this girl very much! and its been almost 3years i haven't admittd it....yet!I think she knows that i have a crush on her. we 'used' to chat a lot, but then after a while she hardly replies to my text! so, i stopped texting her for the past...

High school, girls, and phobias, Oh my!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles, long time no see. Like, 2 months. Well, I have a new problem, and this is going to annoy me until I get an answer, so your support would be appreciated. In about a week, 10th grade is starting for me, and by God, I got th...

Why is my married coworker so hot and cold with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - After 8 months, I finally returned to the place I used to work. The last time I was there, I became good friends with a man, let's call him Mike. Mike pretty much taught me everything I knew when I first started the job. He is about 10 years older ...

How do I tell him I liked what he was doing without sending the wrong message?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Sooo I really like this guy I have been friends with since kindergarden. We have always been friends but in the last few years he's become my closest guy friend, we know more about each other than a lot of people do. Recently-ish he broke up with ...

Advice to give to someone who is being cheated on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My friends bf is cheating on her, she knows the name of the girl hes doing it with well my problem is shes got an old phone and a new sim card so a different number and shes going to text him from it telling him not to trust this girl hes cheating ...

I feel like a different person when I hang out with them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - The last few months I've started meeting up with coworkers from my old job. They're great, really friendly and are a good laugh. However I'm starting to get concerned about the way I am around them compared to my other friends. I've only had ...

I think my friend stole from me ......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I think my friend may have stolen from me and I feel awful thinking like this so I need some advice... A mutual friend of ours was getting married and we were both invited to the wedding. Unfortunately I wasn't able to attend as I was going o...

He never ever was my boyfriend but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I had the biggest crush on a guy from my university for about a year. One day, I met with him at the library and he was sitting with some of his friends studying. I sat next to him and one of his friends stood up and started talking to me. I thought ...

I hooked up with a friend after a break up and now am worried I might be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I just recently got out of a relationship with a man I was with for a year. He didn't break up with me formally. We had our last date then he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment until I realized (a month later) that this was his cowardly way ...

Where to meet new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Hi Okay so I am looking to meet new friends around my age group which is early 20s, has anyone got any suggestions of where I could go? I am really shy also which doesnt help! I am from the UK s preferably UK ideas. Many thanks ...

We really get along well together -- am I reading too much into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm 25 and male. Last November an amazing beautiful 22 year old girl started working in the same place as me. She got out of a 4 year relationship about a month ago and I've been taking her out as a friend trying to keep her happy and in the ...

Boyfriend going away for 2 weeks with friends. I'm afraid he'll get drunk and cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend since April and been seeing him since January time. In a couple of days he is going on holiday with his mates to malia. I am really afraid he will get drunk and cheat on me. He cheated on his ex on holiday before ...