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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I Like this girl very much! and its been almost 3years i haven't admittd it....yet!I think she knows that i have a crush on her. we 'used' to chat a lot, but then after a while she hardly replies to my text! so, i stopped texting her for the past 2 months..... and 2days ago she messaged me and rang me up asking ,why i'm ignoring her?,did i got a g.f? and blah blah.... and then she says ,that i'm her best friend and she hates it when i don't message or call her!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2014): Some conceited people like having "fans." Like the previous aunt says, it boosts her ego knowing that you are fixated on her; and she can upset you so easily. You did not contact her for two whole months, and didn't hear a word from her in the meantime. She must be losing fans.
You mean nothing to her, not even as a friend. She likes your boyish worship and she likes knowing she can dangle you on a string. Why do you still have her in your phone? Why don't you block her from calling you. Time to grow up and be a man. You write for advice, but you don't follow it. It is time you make up your own mind what to do about it.
Stop letting boyhood crushes play with your feelings and make a fool of you. You can't get it in your head she does not love you, and is not a real friend. You don't really want her as only a friend anyway. You want her as a girlfriend.
Obsessing over people we cannot have is sometimes a sign that a person may need professional help.
All you did was stop texting her for two months, you thought about her the whole time. She ignored you those two-months and only came back to get you all wound up again.
Find creative and constructive things to do with your time
young man. She is a cruel and narcissistic person.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (18 August 2014):
 She likes getting attention from you. It boosts her ego. It does not necessarily mean that she likes you in a romantic way. The fact that she referred to you as her best friend means that you are in the friend zone at the moment. I think you should tell her how you really feel. Let her know that you like her as more than a friend. She may respond with the speech that she considers you a friend and nothing more OR she could look at you differently and welcome your admiration. Take the risk and find out exactly how she feels about you. It will help you to either move on or continue with the friendship / relationship with her.
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